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ALAN JOSEPH HOWAR
On Tuesday, December 12, 2017, Alan Joseph Howar died suddenly in his home in Vienna, Virginia. Alan was born in Bethesda, Maryland on December 4, 1957. He leaves behind his wife, Alexandra Howar; three children, Nathan Montpetit-Howar, Brandon Howar and Bianca Howar; his mother, Elaine Howar and sisters, Cynthia Howar and Elizabeth Howar Kelly. He was predeceased by his father, Raymond Howar, brother, Raymond Howar, Jr., and sister, Caron Howar Brown. Alan cherished his family and many friends, and his unending spirit of kindness will be greatly missed by all. Interment private. Friends and family will gather in the Wesley Fellowship Hall of National United Methodist Church, 5312 Connecticut Avenue, NW, Washington, DC 20015 on Saturday, December 16, 2017 from 2 to 4 p.m.
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December 9, 2025
I hope you are smiling down on us. RIP
September 10, 2023
Was thinking about you this week & how you got me the stone for my Wife;s ring. Miss both you & Raym and you krazy fishing trips in the Cheasapeake & the Atlantic Ocean. Wonder will I get to see you again. A friend here still on earth. Peace Out & the best to your family LF
Shelley Madden
December 9, 2021
Everything I enter my apartment, I think of you, Alan. Miss you forever.
Karen Hochstetter
January 3, 2018
I am so shocked and saddened at the loss of Alan.
I knew him from when he was fifteen and was so impressed with his open hearted warmth and his innately courteous nature . It stood out . Especially at that age .
At a party once a male friend of ours was standing next to me as we watched Alan interacting and this friend turned to me and said ' wow Alan really is a gentleman isn't he ?'
' Yes take a lesson '
Alan is one of the people I loved best in the world .
I always though there was plenty of time to catch up .
My profoundest condolences to his family .
I will always love and miss you Alan Howar xxx
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Mari C
December 19, 2017
I'm sure I'm not alone when I say that Alan was my best friend-- he was an amazing friend to so many people. His generosity, kindness, and odd-ball wisdom were priceless. My heart goes out to his family.
Marla Mooney
December 18, 2017
My heart goes out to Alex, Brandon, Bianca, Nathan and all who loved him. I am so sad to hear this news.
Debi Bell
December 16, 2017
No words I can offer to comfort the family during such a tragic time. You are all in my heart and prayers. Alan was a dear friend to my family for over 20 yrs. He was so authentic and had such a great heart. He touched so many peoples lives and influenced so many. I am grateful for being one of them.
Chris Kerrigan
December 16, 2017
Alan in addition to everything else loved to fish. Charlie Barbee, Alan, Ray and I spent many days together in the Atlantic Ocean's Gulfsteam with Captain Dicky Harris catching marlin (Alan's favorite) Tuna, Mahi-Mahi and Wahoo. We always had a blast.
I went out a couple times on Alans fast boat as well, those trips were always exciting because we were never sure we would make it back to shore I know Alan missed Ray terribly as we all do, so now they can be together again. Alan I'm gonna miss you buddy.
Chris Kerrigan
Bonnie McAleer
December 15, 2017
Dear Alex, Nathan, Elaine, Cindy and the kids,
I am at a loss for words. I am truly crippled with grief. I cannot possibly covey how deeply saddened I am over the loss of Alan. My heart genuinely aches for each and everyone of you. For 25 years Alan was my best friend. I have nothing but warm, fond, loving memories of times past. Alan was a bright shining light in my world. The very last thing he said to me on December 4th, his Birthday was that he would call me on mine ....December 16th which happens to be the day we celebrate Alan's life. Not a day will go by that he isnt consuming my every thought. The only solace in this tragedy is that someday we will all meet again. Rest In Peace sweet Alan.
December 15, 2017
Alan brought the spirit of joy and love with him as he trudge the path many of us are on. He always met me with his welcoming personality and his smile would rub off on each person he greeted. He will be surely missed by all.
Laura Coleman
December 15, 2017
Condolences to all the Howar family on the loss of your son, brother, father, friend. I know he will be greatly missed. My thoughts are with you all.
Laura Richards Coleman
John Pobiak
December 15, 2017
I knew Alan for 50 years. We traveled to NYC as teenagers. He helped me design a beautiful wedding ring and other jewelry over the years.
We had many enjoyable meals and memorable times together. He will be missed greatly! Rest in peace my friend.
Perry connell Delugo
December 15, 2017
Thank you Alan for keeping me on the Straight and narrow, for being my little brother. I will miss you and Ray and my sister Caron however you're always in my heart. Love you, Perry Connell DeLugo.
J. Flanagan
December 15, 2017
Alan. I'm going to miss you greatly. Over the last 30 years you've been a constant in my life, through good and bad times. May God hold you in the Palm of his hand. RIP old friend.
December 15, 2017
With sympathy,
Carolyn Xander
Joshua Cagney
December 15, 2017
I will forever remain grateful to Alan for the friendship and kindness that he showed me over the years, and the way I saw him connect with other people whom he came upon in life. He remains an inspiration in many ways, and my sincere condolences and prayers remain with his beautiful family.
Shelley Madden
December 15, 2017
Alan was the project manager of my apartment renovation. I love how it turned out...and i cannot enter my apartment without remembering him. He is always with me. I called him the 'mix-master' because he always knew who to put you in touch with when you needed things done. Alan is already sorely missed. It will take some time to move through my grief. Love you, my friend.
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