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Alan Bernard Kelley

04/25/1963 - 07/01/2025

BORN

04/25/1963

DIED

07/01/2025

Alan Kelley Obituary

Alan Kelley, 62, of Salem, Ohio, passed away peacefully on July 1, 2025, at hospice care in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, following complications from a cardiac event.
Born in Bethesda, Maryland, to Augustine Regis and Marie Therese Kelley (née Roach), Alan later made Ohio his home. Alan built his career in the restaurant industry, where his warmth and generosity made all feel welcome.
He is survived by his children, Mark and Madeline Kelley; his partner, Kristen Ehrhart; and his siblings, Kevin, Brian, Dan, Maura, Tim, and Sheila.
A funeral Mass will be held at St. Jane Frances de Chantal Parish, Bethesda, at 10:45 a.m. on Friday, July 25, with interment at Gate of Heaven Cemetery, Silver Spring, at 1 p.m.

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Published by The Washington Post on Jul. 23, 2025.

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Slocki family

July 28, 2025

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and our prayers are with you at this time. Love the Slocki family.

Shannon

July 25, 2025

Alan will be truly missed always in our hearts the Kelley clan!!! So many fond memories with him!!! Fly high

Cynthia Roldan de Loor and Maria Dontas

July 24, 2025

Our family has been stunned at the recent news of Alan´s death. Alan was a treasured member of the Kelley family and the memory of his endearing smile,jovial demeanor,and sincere kindness will always bring his image to mind. We are united in our belief that when we don´t comprehend these unexpected tragedies that God has a plan. Our prayers and love go out to his adored children and his beloved siblings. We find peace in knowing he is reunited with his mother and father.
With much love he is remembered by the Loor and Dontas family in Nort Carolina.

Trish Lyons

July 23, 2025

Alan was a gentleman, kind-hearted and soulful. I will treasure his memory from childhood summers spent on Skeleton Lake in Canada. He had a beautiful laugh, a keen sense of fun and an adorable smile. He loved his family. My heart goes out to his children Mark and Madeline, his partner Kirsten and his dear brothers and sisters, our cousins, the Kelley family. Rest in peace dear Allan. Thank-you for your love. The angels sing your glory. Peace. Love. from Trish Lyons

Steve Paul

July 22, 2025

I am very sad to hear that my good friend Al Kelley recently passed away. He was a jovial guy, kind hearted, with an infectious laugh! He trained me to bartend back in 1989 & we became great friends outside of work playing basketball, golfing, & getting an occasional milkshake after work at UDF. My heart goes out to his family & friends!

Barbara Glymph

July 22, 2025

My sincere condolences to the family and everyone touched by Alan and his presence. He was a genuine friend, true renaissance man with many passions. He was most proud of his family and children. He will be greatly missed and forever loved. His laugh will continue to always make me smile.

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25

Funeral Mass

10:45 a.m.

St Jane Frances de Chantal

9601 Old Georgetown Rd, Bethesda, MD 20814

Jul

25

Interment

1:00 p.m.

Gate of Heaven Cemetery

13801 Georgia Ave, Silver Spring, MD 20906

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