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ALEXANDER CLAIN-STEFANELLI Obituary
ALEXANDER A. CLAIN-STEFANELLI
On December 22, 2014, Alex, beloved husband of Eleanor S. Clain-Stefanelli; devoted father of Katharine Clain-Stefanelli Steffe and Elizabeth Derbyshire Clain-Stefanelli. A memorial service will be held at St. John's Episcopal Church, 6715 Georgetown Pk., McLean, VA, Wednesday, January 7, 2015 at 4 p.m. Interment private. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Stand Up to Cancer, su2c.org, Cancer Research Institute, www.cancerresearch.org or Browne Academy, www.browneacademy.org.
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Juliet Smith
January 11, 2015
I just learned this evening of Mr. Clain's passing. Like so many others, I and my son, Kye, will remember him as someone who instilled confidence and a love of learning in the students he worked with. He was so much at the heart of Browne middle school and especially the drama and musicals! And for me, as a parent I appreciated his ability and willingness to listen. I always saw a twinkle in his eye and loved his quick wit and humor. My heartfelt condolences to Mr. Clain's family.
Caryn and Bob Marske
January 11, 2015
We were profoundly saddened to learn of Mr. Clain-Stefanelli's passing. We feel so fortunate to have known this kind educator without peer, who left our sons with a keen interest in history and the classics. “Mr. Clain's” incisive sense of humor helped put the many tragedies of young adulthood in perspective, and he will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Mr. Clain-Stefanelli's family.
January 7, 2015
Deepest condolences to the family. Special memorial tonight. He was a unique man and great educator.
Charlotte Davis
Parent of former Browne student
Mike S
January 7, 2015
He was a great teacher and an even better man. Middle school kids can be a real pain - my friends and I were no exception - and he not only tolerated us, but also seemed to genuinely enjoy being around us. Although most in that age range are more prone to rebellion than they are to respecting authority, you would be hard pressed to find a student of his who didn't admire appreciate him.
January 7, 2015
Mr. Clain was a calm guiding presence to our son and us, the parents, during the middle school years at Browne Academy. Our heartfelt condolences to Mr. Clain's family. - Richard and Linda Adleson (Burke, VA)
Gene Brandenburg
January 6, 2015
I was shocked to learn of Alex's death today. My deepest sympathy to his wife & daughters. We will remember Alex fondly at the Numis Nova dinners, a loss to the numismatic community. Rest in peace, my friend.
January 5, 2015
My condolences to the Stefanelli family. May your prayers bring the peace of God that will comfort you during your grieving process. (Philippians 4:6,7)
January 3, 2015
May I add my condolences to the others and encourage you the family to continue to trust in God ( Prov. 3:5,6). FWJ Jr.
JoAnn Steinberger Batky
January 3, 2015
Of all of my teachers, Mr. Clain was one of the very few I remembered and so fondly (from Sheridan School). What a gentle and loving man. May his family find peace in the future.
David Truman - Maret '86
January 2, 2015
I was very sorry to hear of Mr. Clain's passing. (He will always be Mr. Clain to me.) He was one of my favorite teachers at Maret, but more than that he provided me with some of my most treasured memories from high school days by casting me in two plays and four musicals. My senior year he cast me as the lead role (King Arthur) in "Camelot." When I saw him at the Maret centennial a few years ago, he told me the story -- I think for the first time -- about how there had been some discussion among the other members of the drama staff about cutting my big monologue in the middle of the show, because I'd been struggling with it. (It was always clear to me that I had gained this role due to my singing abilities, not my acting talents.) But he insisted that they keep it in, that I would eventually get it together, and I did. I will always be grateful to him for his confidence in me and for helping me see what I was capable of doing. He had a wonderful sense of humor and was dedicated to his students and to our dramatic productions. He always had such high expectations of all of us actors, and the worst insult/criticism he could deliver was that something was "bush" (as in "bush league"), meaning that we were not comporting ourselves in a professional manner. I can still picture him literally leaping onto the stage during rehearsals to help us work through difficult moments. I will forever be grateful for what he brought to my life and to the lives of so many others. Rest in peace, Mr. C., and thanks.
Howard selinger
January 2, 2015
I am so very saddened to hear of Mr. Clain's passing. He was my 6th grade home room and history teacher at Sheridan School in 1969 and made a wonderful and indelible impression on me that I have carried with me all these years.
Greg Taylor
January 2, 2015
Deepest sympathy to Mr. Clain-Stefanelli's family and friends. Though I never had a class with him, I remember his kindness and easy-going spirit. Keeping you all in my thoughts.
Kim Hansen Stewart
January 2, 2015
Deeply saddened by the news. Alex and Eleanor were are BIG part of my formative years of middle and high school at Maret. I will miss him. My prayers go out to Eleanor and his daughters
James White
January 2, 2015
Both myself and Janet send our prayers to Eleanor and her family in this difficult time.
It was a pleasure to work with both Alex and Eleanor during my many years at Maret. I will always remember those days s special ones. God bless.
P R
January 2, 2015
May the God of all comfort be with all of you during this time of grief. May all the fond memories of Alexander stay close to your heart. ( Palms 46 : 1 )
January 1, 2015
Eleanor, Katherine, Elizabeth.
Alex has been one of my fondest friends since we first met in 1965. His love and knowledge of history was something he shared with me and was something that I could not share with most other friends and brothers at that time. He was also a great tennis partner and colleague on the water with the GW crew. We were together at the Jefferson Memorial the night just after Dr. King was killed, grieving and contemplating the meaning for our country and history. Inspired by the great Louis Kayser, Alex became him when he began to teach. It was his mission, like his parents, to impart knowledge to young minds. Alex was a great man. I love him. I miss him. And I shall endeavor to follow his example until I am called to see him in eternity and beyond.
John Fass Morton
Andrea Alls
December 31, 2014
My sincere sympathy to the family. Take comfort in memories, friends, and the promise from our heavenly Father to bring your loved one back to you, whole and healthy(John 11:38-44).
Christopher, Michele & Matthew Liberty
December 31, 2014
Alex was a great guy and a fantastic teacher and mentor. He left his mark on many students, faculty and even parents. He will truly be missed.
C. Johnson
December 30, 2014
There is no sadness in this world that God cannot heal. May you find comfort in knowing that he will provide all the strength you need to endure the days ahead.
Eileen Bradner
December 30, 2014
Eleanor, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. We appreciate all that Alex did for our community.
December 30, 2014
Elanor,
Our sincerest sympathy to you and the girls
Take care of yourself
Love,
Jayne & Alan
December 30, 2014
My sincere sympathy for your loss at this difficult time. Take comfort in the memories you share and the words at John 6:40.
SV
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