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Blair Welther Obituary
Of Falls Church, VA, on Tuesday, February 12, 2002 at Johns Hopkins Medical Oncology Center, after a very courageous and lengthy battle with a rare form of cancer (SNUC). Blair leaves his devoted family members; his parents, Frederick L. and Beverly H. Welther of Falls Church; his brothers and sisters-in-law, Frederick M., II and Joanne Welther of Fairfax, VA and Michael and Susan (Livingston) Welther of Alexandria, VA; his nephew, Frederick L. Welther II and niece, Megan E. Welther, both of Fairfax, VA; his aunts, Joan M. Miller of Louisville, KY, Janet L. Welther of Washington, DC and Margaret H. Frazer of Vero Beach, FL, and numerous cousins. Blair also leaves his many devoted friends and acquaintances and his beloved chocolate lab, Taylor.
Blair was graduated from Jeb Stuart High School; attended The College of Charleston and was graduated with a BS degree in Criminal Justice from Radford University. Blair was associated with Northern Virginia Pools and Homestead Tree Experts.
Interment to be private. A memorial service will be held in the near future; time and place to be announced in this newspaper. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in Blair's memory to Make-a-Wish Foundation, 10920 Connecticut Ave., Suite 1600, Kensington, MD 20895, or Johns Hopkins Oncology Development Office, c/o Arlene Forastiere, MD, SNUC Research, Ste. 801, 550 N. Broadway, Baltimore, MD 21205.
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Memories and Condolences
for Blair Welther
Tim Thomas
February 7, 2021
Blair was unique. I do think of him often and we still laugh at some of fun times we had at NVPools. I'm not sure how this started but to score a free lunch at work one day, Blair bet someone he could eat 5 Big Mac hamburgers at one time. He was miserably uncomfortable but he did it. Blair was a terrific hard worker no matter what he was doing (or eating) and always easy to be around.
Mary Jo Gall (Hall)
March 15, 2002
Blair was a major part of all of my fun and memorable times in High School. I will always remember his sense of humor and his ability to make any time a fun time. My deepest sympathy to the Welther family.
James McLay
March 10, 2002
Blair taught me to value life and live each day as though it were my last. He lived that way even before he became sick. I will miss his mischevious grin and infectious laugh. May God bless his family.
David Weiss
March 4, 2002
Blair has always been a very unique individual, bringing a fresh perspective to the crowd around him. His will and individuality is unmatched. Having known Blair since I was about 3 years old, his memory will live on forever, as will his spirit and soul. I wish the best for the Welther family (and all of his many many friends) and express my deepest condolences.
Aaron Reed
February 28, 2002
Blair, it was an honor to have known you. We shared so many good memories at RU. You were a great friend and will be missed. I will never forget your laugh and having Taylor by your side at all times. You will always live in my memory and in the memory of those who knew you. My condolences to his family, friends, and Taylor.
Danielle Rodgers
February 27, 2002
When I think of Blair, a smile always comes to my face. I will never forget his grin, his winking, mischievous eyes. My deepest condolences to his family. He will be remembered by all who had the privilege of knowing him.
Linda Connolly
February 26, 2002
Blair was one of the first real boyfriends I ever had, and the second boy I ever kissed back in the summer of eighth grade. I remember coming to visit my best friend, Monica, and Blair and Eric (their names were synonymous in those days) used to cruise over on their mopeds every day to hang out. We were all on summer break and we just hung out and talked, watched tv, went out to eat, went to the mall - typical adolescent stuff. We had so much carefree fun back in those days. It was one of the most memorable summers of my youth. And, while it has been 10 years since I saw Blair last (aside from passing him on the roads around Barcoft), I have never forgotten him. He was a really good person, and someone I will always remember and think fondly of. My deepest sympathies go out to the Welther family.
Karin Cantwell
February 26, 2002
Blair is the most genuine and magnificent person I have ever had the privilege of knowing. Being with him surely meant nonstop laughter and always a wonderful time. His beautiful smile will never be forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with the Welther's.
Thomas Scott
February 26, 2002
I'll miss all the times we saw each other just driving around the neighborhood, but I'll always remember them also.
Your friend,
Jason Beans
February 25, 2002
I want to express my sincere condolences to the Welther family and all of Blair's friends. It felt like Blair was a part of our family. Almost every picture of Eric growing up has Blair in it. It seemed like he was at my house every time I walked down stairs growing up, or came home from college. I do not think I ever saw him unhappy. His mischivous smile never failed to bring a smile to my face. To this day, I cannot watch "A Christmas Story" without grinning and thinking of that kid. As little as it means, please know Blair is loved and remembered by someone in Chicago.
Eric Beans
February 25, 2002
Blair was one person I always thought would be in my life until we were old. Despite not seeing much of him through college and after, when I did see him I always knew he would still be Blair...and that was a good thing.
He was a person who was simple in the best sense of the word, and yet still one of the most unique people I have ever had the priveledge of getting to know.
Not too often you can use simple and unique to define a human, but that was Blair.
He came by a few weeks ago and drove almost an hour and a half to see my house despite having just finished therapy shortly before. He was as hairless as a newborn and I told him that he managed to pull off the look and still look pretty smooth in doing it.
As much as he was around pools I joked that maybe he was meant to pursue Olympic Gold as a swimmer because he would not have to shave his body down to do so...and he laughed just as Blair always did no matter what was going on in his life.
He just sat there petting my dogs...he had a way with animals and people. Like Tarzan without the rag...
I enjoyed his visit so much and made it clear that I was upset and regretted that we had not kept in better touch and was resolved not to ever let that happen again.
I never knew that would be the last time I would see him. When he left I thought to myself that whether or not Blair survived this ordeal- he had truly beaten cancer.
Blair was the best friend a guy could have. He was a great kid and an even greater man.
He didn't die in war, but never have I seen or will I see anyone face death with such bravery then I saw with Blair.
My relationship has changed with him now that he's gone. In many ways it's even deeper. Memories that may have faded over the years are now bright and vivid as if they happened yesterday. Like many artists, his greatness is now appreciated more fully now that he's gone.
Blair has had a much bigger impact on my life and personality then I could have ever imagined.
His spirit and humor will stay with me...and the way he carried himself throughout life is an invaluable lesson that I am truly thankful he taught me despite the price I had to pay to learn it.
I love everything he was and everything he stood for. He was hardworking, hilarious, caring and real...not a fake thing about him.
I wish there were more people just like him. The world would be a better place.
I sure do miss him and always will. He may be gone but he will never, ever be forgotten.
My deepest condolences go out to the Welther family and anyone else grieving this tremendous loss. His entire family is filled with class individuals that I also hope to have in my life and keep in better touch with from this day forward.
Thanks for raising Blair...I am truly lucky, blessed and honored to have been able to call him my friend.
Beans-
Blair- If they give you any grief and the Pearly Gates (which they shouldn't), just blame me...that should do the trick...till next time...
David Alperstein
February 22, 2002
Blair: While we had lost touch since our high-school days, we shared so many great memories from our childhood. I wish I had known the person you had become and I am so proud to hear you fought the good fight and had no quit in you during your battle. Sometimes the road of life is too short. Please know that the memories you provided the world along the way will live on forever.
Welthers: My deepest condolences on your tremendous loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Eric Pollin
February 22, 2002
From the stories I've heard and the times I've known, it's clear Blair was an amazing soul. God carries his spirit, while friends and family carry his memory. Our thoughts and prayers are with all those Blair touched.
Denise & Eric
Mark Cavich
February 21, 2002
Though we lost contact over the years, I have great memories of playing soccer as kids, skating, and just goofing around with Blair. He was a kind and honest bloke. My sincerest condolences to his family.
Eric Billig
February 20, 2002
Dear Welther's -
It's been some time since I've seen either you or Blair, so obiously this comes as a shock. My memories of Blair involve playing soccer at Sleepy Hollow and getting into trouble with Keith Larson. I'm currently in my medical residency, and must admit that at times I get jaded by sickness. Having known Blair on a personal level as such a happy kid brings me back into focus. I'm so sorry for your loss, and wish you strength in the upcoming months.
Sincerely,
Eric B. Billig
Kara Creasy
February 20, 2002
Blair was a wonderful man with a beautiful smile and warm heart. His laughter and kindness will always be remembered! My thoughts and prayers to his family, friends, and Taylor.
Tim Thomas
February 20, 2002
Blair – I want to thank you for all the laughs you provided over the years. Your smile (or was that really a grin) was a joy for all that were lucky enough to know you. Thanks also to your wonderful family for helping mold the Blair we all loved to be around. Thanks for emailing me updates of things you would find in the classified adds and thanks most for the positive attitude you carried in your front pocket at all times. Even in this battle you didn’t see that complaining would accomplish much. We will truly miss you. Love, Tim and Amy
Amy Merten
February 20, 2002
Blair,
You are an inspiration to all of us. Thanks for your strength and beauty throughout your short life; we won't forget you. You advanced the state-of-the science through your selflessness to undergo what many of us would not have had the courage to face.
To Beverly, Fred, Joanne, Fred, Susan, Michael, Little Freddie, Megan, Aunt Janet, and Taylor, our thoughts are with you. I'm deeply saddened by your tremendous loss.
Love,
Amy
Jenny and Neil Billig
February 20, 2002
Neil and I remember Blair very well. He and our son Eric shared a few years at Sleepy Hollow elementary and shared the soccer games so lovingly coached by his father. We always got such a kick out of Blair's great sense of humour, mischieveous smile. He always reminded us a little of a tall "Denis the menace" full of life and sunny disposition . Such a great kid from such a wonderful family. Our hearts and prayers go out to you but we are so thankful for the memories he left in our minds as a great "little" boy.
Neil and Jenny Billig
Nadia Billig Daniel
February 19, 2002
I was so saddened to hear of your loss. I will remember Blair as Michael's "little brother" when we were in 6th grade. I'm sorry I didn't know the man.
Nadia
Brian Alperstein
February 19, 2002
Welthers: My most profound sympathies and thoughts are with you.
Brian Alperstein
Derek Vander Schaaf Jr
February 19, 2002
Welther Family,
I just wanted to express my deepest sympathies to you during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
vicki boska
February 18, 2002
Knowing blair was truly a blessing. He touched our lives with friendship,laughter,support and love. I am thankful to have known such a wonderful man. He will be greatly missed but,never forgotten
John Montgomery
February 18, 2002
Blair: As the youngest of my cousins, I don't have as many childhood memories that include you, but I will always remember you as a good, and good-natured, kid. There are memories of fun times with the Welthers that include happy-go-lucky Blair. I remember picking up you and Freddie and Michael at the airport when you came to our wedding in Kansas. That meant a lot to us that you came. I will always remember you fondly and think of you, especially when we gather with your family. I sense that you lived your last months with your characteristic positive attitude, even through the pain and uncertainty. Peace now and love always, Cousin John.
Jean Marie Dixon
February 17, 2002
Blair, your unforgettable smile and laugh brings a smile to my face everytime I think of you. I feel blessed to have had you as part of my life and will treasure your friendship and always keep you close in heart. All my love and deepest sympathy goes to your family and "Pookie". I love you Blair and will miss you always.
Margaret Frazer
February 17, 2002
Dear Blair,
Your short life was complete because you touched the lives of so many others with your warmth. You leave a legacy of sunshine and an example of uncomplaining courage for us to follow. You will always be with us. Thanks for spreading happiness with your big grin. Love,
Aunt Margaret
Anne Frazer Caterino
February 16, 2002
Blair, I will miss those opportunities, sometimes far between, to talk with you, spend a bit of time together, and enjoy your exuberant, fun personality. As I face fear and uncertainty during my lifetime, I will strive for the courage you have shown to lighten my heart and face life with bouyancy.
Love, Cousin Annie
Kris Swisher
February 15, 2002
Welther Family,
I would like to express my deepest sympathy to you all during this difficult time.I can only hope and pray that Blair is in a happier place.He will be missed by many.My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Kevin Albrigo
February 15, 2002
God bless Blair and his family!
Joanne Welther
February 15, 2002
Blair - Although I am not your sister, I feel as though I am. Your kindness, generosity and unfaltering courage are the envy of us all. You were a wonderful and patient Uncle, Little Freddie will miss you but we will make sure he never, ever forgets you.
We will never forget you.
Love, Joanne
Wayne and June Hosier
February 15, 2002
On behalf of the Arlington Chapter of The Compassionate Friends (TCF), we want to extend to you our deepest sympathies for the death of your son, Blair L. Welther, on February 12th, 2002.
In Deepest Compassion,
Wayne and June Hosier
(Parents of Doug 1961-1997)
Todd Albrigo
February 15, 2002
I have fond memories of playing with Blair in the old Lake Barcroft neighborhood, and will keep him and his family in my prayers.
God bless you!
Michael Welther
February 14, 2002
Blair was (and always will be) a fantastic little brother. He was presented with unsurmountable odds and fought like hell until the bitter end. His courage is unmatched by anything I have ever seen, and will always be the pinnacle for which I will always reach. We will miss you greatly and think of you often.
Stay the course,
Michael
Berin Uriegas
February 14, 2002
To Mike and the Welther Family,
My best wishes and prayers to you all.
Berin Uriegas
U.S. Mint
Craig Radley
February 14, 2002
Blair, I felt a connection to you the day I met you, and I knew we'd become close friends. Your warm sprit, kind heart, and selfless way are truly a rare find among freinds. You were a gift to all that knew you, and I thank you for every second, every laugh, and all of the memories that will be held dearly. Shoei thanks you and Taylor for giving her all of your love, and treating her as your own.
My very deepest regards go to your family, friends, and Taylor.
Your sprirt will always be in my heart and mind.
Much Love, Craig
John Coleman
February 14, 2002
Blair the times we had at RU will never be forgotten, thank you for the few years that I got to know you. To all of Blair's family and friends, may God be with you.
David Terry
February 14, 2002
Blair, I'm gonna miss you so much. You were the nicest most genuine person I've ever come across. I smile every time I think of my old roomates, you and Taylor. You have touched so many people and will never be forgotten.
Andrea Johnson
February 13, 2002
No one could make me laugh harder or
enjoy the company of friends longer. I will miss his free spirit and always admire his brave fight. My heartfelt condolences to his family.
Brian Kowalski
February 13, 2002
Blair - One of the most genuine guys I've ever known. Always in good spririt and fun to be around. He will be missed by many. Thanks for the memories. My thought & prayers are with his family and friends. He will always be remembered.
Sarah Stakes
February 13, 2002
I had the pleasure of meeting Blair (and Taylor) in Radford. I have nothing but fond memories of him. He was always in good spirits and always had a smile to share. He will be missed by many. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Joyce Harris
February 13, 2002
Mike and the Welther family:
The U.S. Mint Web team would like to express our deepest sympathy in the loss of your brother and loved one. Our thoughts are with you.
The Web Team
Denise Lucas (Dooley)
February 13, 2002
I am glad that I had the opportunity to become friends with Blair in college. He was a wonderful guy. Most of my fondest memories of him include his adorable dog, Taylor.
To his family, please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Denise Lucas (Dooley)
peyton andrews
February 13, 2002
I can only hope you're happier where you are now. I'll miss you Blair.
Rob Negron
February 13, 2002
A warm smile...a contagious laugh...someone who was always fun to be around. These are the memories of Blair that I take with me. My deepest and most heartfelt condolences go out to his family and friends.
Tino Fierro
February 13, 2002
Blair was one of my best friends in High School. So many of my favorite memories from that time include him. I'm happy he is not suffering anymore, and I am sure he is being well taken care of. My condolences to the family.
Monica Kandrac
February 13, 2002
I will always remember Blair as being a fun-loving, outgoing, friendly person with a warm bright smile! He will be in the hearts of many and I know that God will always watch over him. My heart and prayers go to his family during this time of need.
Amanda West
February 13, 2002
Blair was such an outstanding man. I will always remember that deep voice of his and his laugh - it made me smile every time. I am very grateful that I was able to enjoy his friendship at Radford. I wish him love and light in the next life and give my condolences to his family, friends, and Taylor. He will be missed.
Mike Hinkle
February 13, 2002
I have many memories of Blair from junior high and high school. He was always the upbeat one and he constantly tried to skate board (not always successfully). Blair will be missed. To the family I offer my condolences.
TK Harvey
February 13, 2002
I do not have words to explain this situation. Blair and I were friends in college and my memories of him are fond and plentiful. He is easily one of the most genuin human being I have ever met. My deepest condolenses to his family and friends.
Matt Goldfarb
February 13, 2002
i was very sorry to hear about blair's passing. having gone to junior high and high school with him and working with NV Pools with him as well, i always felt he was a lot of fun to be around. we'll miss him...matt
Kelly Salahuddin
February 13, 2002
Blair was such a wonderful guy and he always had a smile on his face. I'm glad I had the opportunity to meet him in college. He will be missed by many.
God Bless.
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