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Brendan Hart Tash

Brendan Tash Obituary

TASH, BRENDAN HART

Passed away suddenly on Sunday, March 6, 2005, of Springfield, VA. Son of Sandra Jean Moore and Steven F. Tash; brother of Adam Leland Tash; grandson of Leona Moore of Madison, WI and the late Ralph Moore, Ida Tash and Lewis Tash of St. Louis, MO. Friends will be received on Tuesday, March 8 from 6 to 8 p.m. at Prince of Peace Lutheran Church, 8304 Old Keene Mill Rd., Springfield, VA 22152, where funeral service will be held on Wednesday at 10 a.m. Interment Fairfax Memorial Park. Contributions may be made in his memory to the Prince of Peace Memorial Fund. Inquiries may be made to Advent Funeral Services, Falls Church, VA, 703-241-7402

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Published by The Washington Post from Mar. 8 to Mar. 9, 2005.

Memories and Condolences
for Brendan Tash

Sponsored by Steve Tash & Sandra Moore.

107 Entries

Keara McCombs

March 6, 2024

You are so missed by so many...

Adam

January 11, 2023

Dear Brendan,

It's my birthday today. I can't believe now I am 41. Time flies. I wonder how things would be if you were still here....I don't think of you every day...I think it's easier to block out painful things...but sometimes I have dreams that you are alive and it feels so real and happy and exciting during the dream....then I wake up and slowly realize I was just dreaming and it's so weird....still can't believe what happened....

Steve tash

March 6, 2022

For Brendan,
How many years since we lost you, precious one?
It does not matter, you are indelible in our hearts, thoughts and memories.
We will visit, hopefully today - a balmy day, just the opposite of when stood on that bitterly cold, wind-swept day of agony.
Always on my mind, Love Dad

Moni B

April 5, 2021

Hi B. I just woke up at 0315 am suddenly and felt like I couldn't breathe because I was so happy. I was driving with Keara endlessly throughout all over the east coast because this man told me that you were alive and kept giving us clues to where you were.... (I know, strange) I can't remember now all the middle of the dream details but it was an excitement I've never felt before...trying to find you. We finally found you and Keara pointed you out across the parking lot of this shopping center and you were standing there just looking over at us!!!! We were about to get out the car to run over to you and my heart was so heavy and happy and then all of the sudden I woke up and reality set in and now here I am just all heart broken all over again. I hate this part. We get to live happy memories and made up moments God gives us for brief moments where we feel infinitely happy and then they are taken from us. I just really hope and pray every day that that afterlife we all dream of is everything you ever could have hoped for and will still be there for when those of us down here are ready to go too. I pray to God now more then ever...and I have to believe this. You are never forgotten Brendan....we love you and miss you where there's no words to describe how much. Kearas sister, Courtney passed away shortly after your birthday and I want you to take care her of her for us and make her laugh! Also, we are going to get matching tattoos on Saturday with some gemini stuff of course!!!! But also we are adding an infinity symbol and a SERENITY symbol to keep a part of you with us all the time. It's my first one you know. :) I will add a pic after we do it.. love you- Monica Lily

Moni Beck Burgess

April 5, 2021

Moni B

April 5, 2021

Moni

April 5, 2021

Steve Tash

March 7, 2019

Brendan always would put others before himself; I warned him about do so in dangerous situations. I just read that one does not learn most from one's own experiences, but from others' experiences -- would that it would have been so with BHT and me.
I just met yet another person who knew you and was even there that fateful night ~~ a woman named Sarah who commiserated with me, emotionally.
When I think of you my thoughts often go to the time YOU bailed me out as a pre-teen, taking a scary taxi ride -- by yourself -- because I badly needed your help. Why you just happened to be home alone that day even now befuddles me leaving me with nary an explanation.
Does fate and fore-ordination really impact and impinge on our Earthly lives; or is it just coincidence?
I know one thing for sure your life on this Earth was far too short, yet it was impactful in a very positive way, and was filled with love, both from you and certainly to and undoubtedly for you.
I think about you and miss you most in those early morning pre-waking moments, half dreaming and half awake -- fighting, I guess, that you are really gone -- having severed my bonds from temporality for a brief moment.
Love always, Dad

Keara Vest

March 6, 2019

Missing you always ♥ Especially today ... 14 years seems like it was yesterday...

Monica

September 16, 2017

Brendan was always special. From the day I laid eyes on him I could feel his energy through his eyes. Then he spoke to me. I got to know him on an intellectual level unlike no other. I don't think anyone I meet in my life will ever even come close to the depth Brendan had. A lot of the people I meet seem so "simple" and that's when I think of him the most and when he really stands out. I always love you Brendan. You were made to bring life to my soul and make the world more interesting. I am so bored without your presence it makes me damn sick but I know you want me to live out your legacy smiling and enjoying life like you made me do every time we were together. I argued with you because I loved you but I know you know that now. You will always be diff then all the others I meet...you are always the most special thing along with my children that God has ever given me and I thank him for that all the time. I love you and miss you so much.

September 15, 2017

So much love

Steve Tash

September 14, 2017

It's late ~ I just read thru all the kind words from everybody quite tearfully. It pleased me to discover how many people Brendan impacted on a deep emotional and human level. He was quite a young man; and reading all the words revealed the level of his positive impact on people. In a naive way, I guess, I thought only I knew it! **** Always **** thinking of and about you Brendan, Love, Dad.

Monica Lily

March 7, 2016

My heart glitters and cries during these months. I can smell the memories in this kind of weather....looking back I can't believe how many we made in such a short amount of time. ♡♡♡♡♡

March 7, 2016

Hi BHT, Little Cindy, your surrogate Aunt came down with a 102° cough and cold; so I was being her care giver over the weekend and today. I wish I could still be your caregiver, if you needed me to do that. Love, Dad

Keara

March 6, 2016

Always thinking of you on this day... xoxo we miss you B

Steve Tash

March 27, 2015

Hi Brendan,
It's raining on your birthday! I'll try to come over to say I Love You in person; with some grass seed. I have told you this before, but when I wake up in the middle of the night, you always fill my thoughts, and then I cannot go back to sleep, and if I do, I dream of you and our times together. If there is one thing I know, it is that you never ever doubted that I loved you unconditionally,,,, and if I had a wish for this world, it would be that all kids knew that their father loved them as much as I grew to love you... you were simply delicious!!
Readers would you please send emails to: [email protected]

Moni B

March 26, 2015

Brendan,

Today is so painful as I can almost smell in the air the times of when I had your presence at the same time of year it was taken from me. It is still so unreal to me sometimes. I have only been able to let a little bit in my mind at a time because it hurts too much to try and face all at one time. I feel like a piece of you leaves me and I mourn a little more each day but at the same time my strength grows rapidly learning to face lifes deepest moments of pain with serenity and hope that there is something great to look forward to like seeing your face and wrapping my arms around you (you gave the BEST hugs). I love you so much and I hope you get to remember even the smallest fraction of the bond we shared while you embrace heaven. I want you to remember so I can have that special moment with you that I won't stop waiting for. You are so damn special. I miss you damn much please stay with me sometimes okay????? Love Monimoopumpkin roo

Steve Tash

March 8, 2011

Six years without you now. That's what people do -- count -- but the real, unsolvable problem is you not being here and able to experience those years, that time; and all of us not being able to witness and share, intimately, what you might have done and accomplished.

I put down some more grass seed Sunday; sent a balloon up to the skies, as your Mom did yesterday, to meet and greet you in that hopefully better place. We are watching over your final resting PLACE; and we know you are watching over us, and smiling and grinning and laughing, no matter wherever we might go or travel.

Rest gently and peacefully, my son; our love for you continues to grow each and every day -- we are not enured to losing you, but we still try to cope and gather strength every day -- it is the only avenue we have.

Once I started loving you, I never stopped... Dad

March 7, 2011

Thinking of Sandy, Steve, Adam, Monica, and all of those who still miss Brendan. May my prayers give you strength. Alot has changed in the last 6 years, but change and time doesnt change that Brendan is still dearly missed. I think about Brendan, his mom, dad, brother, and Monica often. I KNOW Brendan is watching over all of you with a BIG smile on his face. Love to you all...and Brendan, thanks for the memories:)

Steve Tash

March 27, 2009

Fri 03-27-2009 15:10:40

Trang and I stopped by Wednesday, on her
day off, so the we could give you some
brand new, fresh flowers; and put some
new grass seed down for you.

Surprisingly, the attendants had already
put down some seed, but we added more
anyway, and watered both varieties with
the 5 gallons jugs of water we brought along.

When I mention water, I always think
about how your mom ever-so-carefully
handed you to me when you were an infant
when I was in the shower, and I guarded
your face and and eyes against the water
ever-so-gently to make sure that you
would think showers were always a good
thing, and fun, and not negatively
reinforce you to them...

And the authorities wanted to know what
impact your loss had on us; and wanted
us to try to put into mere words what
our feelings of total annhilation and
decimation of not having you in our
lives anymore was.

Impossible; ludicrous; hypocrisy. I
still miss you more everyday; the
memories fade a little; but the pain
does not wane; the hurt does not go
away; the tears still well up
uncontrollably. I will miss you until I
take my last breath. Rest in peace, my
son. Today would have been the big 25.
Love, Dad

Stephanie Woodson

March 6, 2009

You are not forgotten. You're missed everyday. Love to B, family, and friends.

xoxo, Steph

Sandra Moore

December 11, 2008

Brendan - i will never understand and cannot be thankful that God chose to take you home, but can be forever thankful that He sent you here through me.

...... from a believer who has gone to God,
addressing loved ones who have yet to go to God.
It said:

Death is nothing at all . . .
I have only slipped away into the next room.
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still,
Call me by my old familiar name,
Speak to me in the easy way which you always used.
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be the household word that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effort.
Faith says love is never severed.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was;
There is absolutely unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of your mind because I am out of your sight?
I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near just around the corner.
All is well. We are in the Lord. Nothing has passed; nothing is lost.
One brief moment and all will be as it was before – only better,
Infinitely happier and forever – we will all be “one” together with Christ.
-Daughters of St. Paul, Boston, MA -

Keara Nadeau

December 9, 2008

I was thinking back today about how i have spent my past new years.... I have to say that the one spent with you, monica and my brother in New York has been my favorite and most memorable! Miss you B Tash!
Love,
Keeerra

Monica Beck

September 22, 2008

You are always on my mind, in some way or another, like I said about my dad in his guestbook.. God truly must be great if he made you.

Monica Beck

July 7, 2008

I miss you so much Brendan

Stephanie Smith

June 4, 2008

Thinking of you and your family...miss you B

~Rogue aka Steph

Keara Nadeau

March 17, 2008

The thought of you gone makes my heart ache
The thought of where you are makes it easier to take
your spirit lives on with the angels above
strengthening my heart and making it easier to love
my faith had been broken when you were taken away
but inside I know that you are with me today
as I smile at the clouds and embrace the sun
I want you to know that you are the one
the loss of my mother was almost too much to swallow
no one could expect you'd be the next to follow
I miss you both more than you could ever know
sometimes its impossible to not let it show
keep me with you as i keep you with me
and for now this is all ill just let it be

Carole jacobson

March 5, 2008

We said good night to you Brendan on March 6,2005 but every morning we know you rise with the Sun.
You touched people in so many ways...with your enthusiasn for life
and energy level, you were something to behold. Your compassion and concern for others, including the animal kingdom were enviable to say the least. Your athletic ability (love of baseball) and physical coordination, prevented what could have been several trips to the emergency room.
Your musical gift, we got to hear, and love, we will never forget!
I can only admire and respect your Mother's strength, she lives each day knowing that you, and all of us, will meet again.
You are so missed and loved by your family...
Forever, your Aunt Carole

Sandra Moore

February 13, 2008

The Broken Chain

We little knew that morning
God was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly,
in death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
you did not go alone,
for part of us went with you
the day God called you home.
You left us peaceful memories,
your love is still our guide,
and though we cannot see you
you are always at our side.
Our family chain is broken
and nothing seems the same;
but as God calls us one by one,
the chain will link again.
-author unknown-

I miss you so much

Steve Tash

December 13, 2007

LOVE NEVER FAILS

Pat & Everest Ogu

December 13, 2007

Wanted to express our thoughts and prayers at this time of year for Brendan and his family. We think of you often and keep you in our hearts always.

Stephanie Smith

December 12, 2007

I want to wish Brendan's family Happy Holidays. You are in my thoughts and prayers. He is still loved and missed by many.

Keara Nadeau

March 28, 2007

" when I look to the sky something tells me your here with me ...."

Sandra Moore

March 27, 2007

Twenty-three years ago today - March 27, 1984. An important and special day in my life - your arrival into the world! Your dad had a dream that your name was heart, which became your middle name "Hart". A prophetic dream, as we had no idea that you would possess such a beautiful one. You burst into the world with incredible energy, humor, charm and a loving and caring heart. What a blessing and a joy to be your mom. Words cannot express how much you are loved and missed. There is never a minute that your absence is not felt in my heart. I love you Brendan.
mom

Steve Tash

March 8, 2007

8 Mar 2007

For Brendan,

Your mom and I visited you Monday; just like you, we didn't plan it; we just showed up together, that's all.

It was really cold and windy; but nothing like the day we picked your final resting place; or the day we laid you to rest.

I have seen snow and ice blast my face and my body SIDEWAYS just a couple of times in my life because it was so bitter cold and windy; and one of them was the day we were forced to pick where you would lay forever.

Somebody was pretty angry that day when we had to do this, so that's why HE made the winds HOWL in HIS grief and agony at losing you.

I just told Stephanie I think about you every day; and often wake up in the middle of the night, and realize I have been dreaming about
you.

You remember when you were a kiddle and I would take you for a spin in my TR6 late at night to chill you out and let you unwind from the day's stresses a two and a half year-old has to try and cope with.

You would wake up the next morning in your crib, never the wiser that I carried you from the TR6 and put you to bed and tucked you in.

I can't see this computer screen anymore; it has just become a blur because of my tears.

I love you Brendan and always will.

You NEVER spoke a harsh word to me, EVER!

I know you loved me too.

All you did was enrich my life; and now I know you did that for a lot of other people too.

Stephanie Smith

March 7, 2007

Rest In Peace Brendan...you are deeply missed and loved.

Steve Tash

December 4, 2006

Remember any good times you may have had with Brendan.

Remember all those times Brendan was there for you when you
needed him and keep that with you.

The following are things I think Brendan
would say and encourage:

"Don't take life for granted."

"Give people the respect they deserve."

"Always try to rise above pettiness;
and be as big a person as you can."

"Be honest."

"Be a faithful, loyal, and devoted friend."

Always leave loved ones with loving words;
it may be the last time you see them.

If everyone had a little bit of Brendan in them,
the world would be a better place to live in.

And that's the truth.

Rest in Peace, my Son.

Keara Nadeau

December 2, 2006

miss u more and more everyday....
"hey umm krra u got some glitter on your face"
thanks babe ...

Monica

June 15, 2006

Brendan,

I want you to know I will always love you. Nothing could ever replace what we had and stil have together. My 21st you know was last week and I never thought in a million years I would be spending it without you. You taught me so much, you were only 20 on this earth and now I have surpassed YOUR time on THIS place but I know you are still growing stronger and smarter in a better place with the Lord above. And even though I'm one year older...I'm a million wiser and grateful to have had you in my life for the time I did. I "8+14=22 put 2 and 2 together = me and you. I love you Monica Lily Beck."

Well I love you too Brendan Hart Tash.

Stephanie Woodson

May 20, 2006

Brendan you will never be forgotten. We all love you so much. Watch over your Mom, Dad, Brother, Monica and all your friends. Rest in Peace

Keara Nadeau

March 7, 2006

i miss u everyday but today more than ever!!!! love u B!!!

Keara

Patricia Ogu

March 6, 2006

Sandy,

Thank you so much for inviting Everest and I to the Celebration of Life for Brendan yesterday, March 5, 2006. It was a moving, wonderful and beautiful tribute.

Pat and Everest Ogu

Stephanie Woodson

March 6, 2006

Its been a year and i still cant get over it. Keep your family strong and watch out for them and Monica and all of your friends. Rest In Peace Brendan.

love you.

Robert Leonard

March 2, 2006

Dear Brendan,

I know that your mom Sandy,your dad Steve, and your brother Adam will be thinking of you this weekend as they mark the difficult first anniversary of your passing. May the memories of you in happier times offer them a measure of comfort.

Here is a verse of Scripture that has gotten me through some tough times and may be of help to them now:

"So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." Isaiah 41:10

May God hold you in the palm of His hand.

-- Rob Leonard

keara nadeau

March 1, 2006

i miss u and my mom more than words could explain its been about a year since u came over to try and help comfort me !! im sorry for not feelin it !!! i miss u !! i appreciate everything u did for me!! i love u brendan hart tash!!!

Steve Tash

February 11, 2006

It will be almost one year soon; the pain is still searingly intense;

it does NOT diminish with time.

I have just put 5 picture collages online. If they show up too small; I will update the photo gallery with the individual pix.

Anyone out there who has a photo of Brendan, please free to upload it; or send it directly to me.

Brendan's Still-Disconsolate and Grieving Father.

Brendan Collage 05

February 11, 2006

Brendan Collage 04

February 11, 2006

Brendan Collage 03

February 11, 2006

Brendan Collage 02

February 11, 2006

Brendan Collage 01

February 11, 2006

Stephanie Woodson

January 13, 2006

Brendan, I'll be 21 tomorrow. I remember when you came to my 16th birthday party. How time flies. I miss you and i think about you all the time. Keep watching over us and keeping us safe. We love you.

Pam Rutkowski

November 28, 2005

To Brendan's Family,

Andrew and I knew Brendan at Keene Mill, Irving and West Springfield. He was so precious to so many friends and touched so many lives. His life here had a very special purpose. His spirit is strong and soaring. May your wonderful memories of him help you to heal your broken hearts.

Love, Pam Rutkowski

Sarah Bashaw

November 3, 2005

I will never forget the first time I met Brendan in 2nd grade. He was such a goober. I was lucky to have met him so early in life. His presence in my life has impacted me more then I even know. There isnt a single day I dont sit and think about him and how special he was to me and all who knew him. Everyone's life that he touched is truly blessed. We all have a wonderful angle looking over us...always in our hearts...

Chelsea Poling

November 2, 2005

I'll never forget Brendan playing "Lean on Me" on the piano for me every and any time I would talk to him on the phone. He will always live in that song for me! I wish I could have just one more Brendan hug! I miss you!

Elizabeth Ingram

November 2, 2005

We spent time together

Always thinking there would be more.

Maybe someday I will understand

Where all that time went that was

Wasted and taken away.

But everyone has to die someday

To live again and be happy and content

In spirit and in my heart

Is where I will keep you.

Till the day we can see each other again.

I love and miss you Brendan.

I admire you, Sandra for your strength and composure during such a tragic time. I would hope if anything similar happened to me, I could handle it with your grace.

Your Friend,

Elizabeth

Vivian Dobud

November 2, 2005

Dear Sandra, Steve and Adam:

I am so saddened by your loss of Brendan. He was so close to our family and always had a special place with us. Just know that our thoughts and prayers are with you constantly.

Vivian

Kristi Poling

November 2, 2005

Forever in my heart and mind. Not a day goes by where your charming smile doesn't run across my face! Thank you for watching over us Brendan.

Stephanie Woodson

October 28, 2005

I know your watching down on all of us right now. We miss you....

Stephanie aka Rogue

keara nadeau

October 23, 2005

" cannot forget refuse to regret so glad i met you!!" just want you to know i think of u everyday..........

Monica Beck

October 13, 2005

I miss you Brendan. I miss you I miss you I miss you. I cannot say it enough. I think about you all the time. I love you, I'll always love you Brendan. You are my only one. And you'll always be my number one. My greatest love.

Monica B.

August 20, 2005

So many things have changed...life altogether seems so different. I miss you so much Bren you have no idea. I look at it as life's gift... LOVE... it's so powerful..but like in a quote "if love is not madness..it is not love" - b and i would be able to relate. i love you sweetheart.

i pray everynight..and its comforting to know how many people will never forget his big heart. Memories ARE with us everyday, i see it in people and i hear about it constantly, it makes me smile to know how much he has TRULY impacted SO many. Without realizing.. i search.. and find more and more love each day for him. God Bless.

Keara

August 7, 2005

just wanted u to know i think about you ever day!! i miss u like crazy even though we didnt always get along!!! hope you and my mom are together protecting monica and i being our guardian angels!!!! i miss u and love you both!!!

Yvonne Mar

June 28, 2005

Sandy, Steve, and Adam,

I can still see Brendan in the hospital soon after he was born. Even as an infant, Brendan had a magic touch! Those big, bright sparkling eyes and wide smile melted the hearts of everyone who came in contact with him! Brendan was special not only because he was so friendly. He genuinely loved life and his spirit now soars among us, reminding us all how Love conquers fear. Thank you, Brendan, for showing us how to appreciate the Gifts of Life. You have touched so many and have given so much.

June 27, 2005

Brendan - My youngest grandson

I've always been so proud of you, especially when you were playing the piano or when you were playing baseball. I loved to watch you play and cheer you on.

I cherish the little things you made for me when you were growing up. I still have them. You are my sweet angel, Brendan, and I will always love you.

Your gramma Leona

Keara Nadeau

May 27, 2005

THIS IS A COPY OF THE WORDS I SPOKE AT BRENDAN'S FUNERAL! I MISS U TIZ!

Hi my name is keara nadeau I have known Brendan for almost two years but it has felt like forever. Some of you may already know that I lost my mother on February 24th to a sudden heart attack. Her memorial service was held a week ago today. My mom was my best friend and I miss her soooo much. When I first heard about what happened to Brendan the first thing I wanted to do was run to my mom to console me. She was the one I wanted to talk to. And then it hit me they are together right now watching over us, helping us to get through this difficult time, and asking us simply please do not cry!

I met Brendan through my best friend Monica when they first began dating. Ill never forget that day. I met about half of Springfield while we rode around with him going here and there. Brendan knew everyone. I used to love meeting up with him and Monica because I knew we would have fun even if we weren’t doing anything. Brendan was so nice and was always making sure that everyone else was having a good time. It didn’t matter wether we went to a huge party or spent a simple night riding around in the car listening to music Brendan made it eventful. He introduced Monica and I to so much different music because it was his life he knew at least a little bit of everything.

Over time something else became is life.. Someone else ...... I had the pleasure and sometimes not so pleasurable experience of watching Monica and Brendan fall crazy in love with each other. It sure wasn’t the most perfect relationship ( what relationship is perfect?) But no matter what Brendan gave Monica all that he could give and was always by her side.

I used to call Brendan b tizzle and for the most part we got along really well.. One day we put on boxing gloves and played outside of Jerry’s house for a good 15 minutes... I won!! Hahahaha I respected Brendan and the love that he had for Monica and I know he respected me too. He used to call me KRRRA and one night he told me that I was his favorite of all Monica’s friends. In December of 03 Brendan, Monica , my younger brother Curtis and I went on a road trip to new york Brendan drove the whole way there and took care of carrying food and bags from the car to my older brothers house ( where he let us stay without him there) ill have you know each trip back and forth to the car was about 5 blocks each way!!! he was a real angel although we found ita little hard to wake and get him motivated in the mornings we had a really fun time.

Speaking of getting Brendan motivated!!!!! raise your hand if you have ever had to wait on Brendan!?!?!?!?!?! YEAH mr. Bojangles!!!! know one could ever figure out what he was soo busy doing while he kept everyone waiting for him. As Monica said to me he took his sweet time. There is a sublime song that Monica and I changed the ending lyrics to just for him ........ “oh all these things I do.... and waiting for Brendan” almost every time we came to pick him up we waited at least 5 minutes and when he finally did come out his first words were always the same “ hey whats up aaahh lemme drive”

its hard to believe that we wont hear these words from him again. Im positive that everyone here has numerous memories of Brendan. Im asking, take with you these memories to be your sunshine after the rain. Although soon the rain will lift, the days may seem dark but please remember that on the darkest day there is always light. That light can be anything or anyone, Brendan, my mom. They are all with us. They may be gone from the earth but as they say in a song your body is a vehicle transporting your soul its whats inside of people, their beauty to behold. So we know you are the shining down on us from heaven like so many friends we’ve lost along the way and we know eventually we will all be together one sweet day.... so until then Brendan, mom I love you both

sometimes it’s a sad song but I cannot forget refuse to regret im so glad I met you!

Monica Beck

May 25, 2005

I caught myself singing over the music to one of keara and bren's fav. song these lines:

Oh ohh Brendan babe

how i love your face

and i know its there

in another place

so way up high, up in the sky

and i don't know why

it makes me cry

ohh brendan babe,

wanna be with you

turnin in circles here

don't know what to do

but i love you

oh yes i do

and this is true

love moni moo

Monica Beck

May 25, 2005

Brendans Family & Friends,

It has almost been three months without Brendan and my intellect has grown a great deal.Brendan was sucha intellectual person. There was just something about him. Everyday I think of a different memory of brendan..its hard to take it in all at once.. i let my random thoughts of him though help me through everyday. I smile when i think about him, i get goosebumps and the chills when i think about certain moments. I miss him infinitely but know that he is INFINITE. I look forward to the time i get to see him again. He is in my heart forever. Peace and love be with everyone.

Stephanie Woodson

May 22, 2005

The day he left

Was the day our hearts were ripped from our chests

As we rewind to all the memories

We know his soul will be with us for eternity

Alot of us never will get over it

And our love and respect for him will never quit

His Mother, Father, Brother, Lover

They can never have him replaced by anyone other

We all wonder why

Someone so talented, funny, and smart had to die

But dont get so sad

Because "B" knows it's really not that bad

We will all see him again

We will all see him in the end

By: Stephanie Woodson Written: 03/27/05

R.I.P. Brendan Hart Tash forever in our minds,hearts, and souls

Brendan "chillin" at Dad's house

April 18, 2005

Brendan's Father

April 18, 2005

Brendan Tash, who tragically died just before he became 21, knew more

people, was loved by more people, and affected more people's lives in

a positive way than any other person I know -- young or old. So many

people sought out Brendan just to be in his presence. People ALWAYS

felt better for having spent time with Brendan.

Brendan was a contented man when he died, because he was madly,

passionately in love with a wonderful, loving, beautiful, and now

inconsolably sad girl. The bullet that killed Brendan will not kill

the love she feels, and the love that, literally hundreds of people in

Springield, feel for Brendan. Brendan's time on Earth was short, but

his impact on other people's lives was immense.

What better purpose to a life could there be?

How many of us will have those same words be true

about us when we go?

Brendan knew how to love, too. He was always ready to be there for

the people that counted the most to him, his family and hundreds of

friends.

Brendan did not have any acquaintances! All of those people were

truly friends. Brendan was an instantaneous friend maker! Again, how

many of us can say that? Eventually we all go and leave a void in

survivors' lives. It is not a contest, but the void left by Brendan's

absence is so huge, so vast, and so immeasurable.

If we could all follow Brendan's lead of friendship, fellowship,

camaraderie, and love, murder would vanish, vendetta would vanish,

terrorism would vanish, and, of course, war would vanish.

People would become human beings, in the very highest sense.

O that this were true. We miss you Brendan. You don't know how much.

I know you are now resting in peace and serenity. We will ALWAYS LOVE

YOU Brendan. You are one that will NEVER be forgotten.

Rosey Greer

March 19, 2005

To the family of Brendan Hart Tash - We are so sorry for your loss. There cannot be any words to adequately express our sympathies or relieve your sorrows. For your grief and loss and for Brendan's soul, we have sent a Prayer Card to the Washington National Cathedral in your family's honor. The Prayer Card will be placed on the High Altar with all other Cathedral prayers to be offered on Easter morning in celebration of our Savior's Resurrection and in remembrance of that dear one who has departed in our belief and hope in Brendan's rebirth and resurrection with the Lord. By submitting this prayer card, the congregation will say a prayer for your family and for the soul of Brendan. May he rest in peace and remain forever in our hearts.

With deepest sympathy for your loss, we send you our thoughts and prayers.

Rosey, Abigail, Kristy and Margeaux Greer and our mutual family friend, Stephanie Woodson

Pat Hendrix

March 18, 2005

Sandy,

I just learned today of your loss. There are tears in my eyes...and my heart is in mourning for you and Adam. Blair knew Brendon from grade school and always spoke highly of him and his devotion to you. You will be in our prayers today and always.

Trisha Cookson

March 16, 2005

Brendan was DEFINATELY the funniest guy that I knew. He was always there whether it be to help you out of a jam... Or just to make you laugh. It has been a week since the funeral, and I guess it hasn't set in yet...But I hope his family knows that they are in my prayers. I miss you Hashbrown!

Erin Grimm

March 11, 2005

Ms. Moore, Mr. Tash, and Adam,

I am so sorry about Brendan, he was truly one of a kind. I graduated with Adam, but was much closer to Brendan. He was one of those people who you look forward to seeing, just to brighten your day. I would see him around Springfield sometimes, and I would always remember how much fun we had. He was truly a special man. I feel blessed that I knew him, even if only for a short while. I hope that you know that tons of prayers are being said for Brendan, and your family. I hope that we can learn from this, but I am sorry Brendan had to be the one to help teach this lesson. I promise you Brendan will never be forgotten.

Ashley Kennedy

March 10, 2005

Sandy,

Brendan was a good friend of mine. I knew i could always count on him to be there. He had a big heart, and never failed to make me laugh. I will miss him dearly. You are in my prayers.

Caryn Caton

March 10, 2005

Dear Sandy,

I just wanted to tell you how deeply sorry I am for your loss. I know Brendon was loved by many so I hope and pray that you will now feel that love in your time of pain. You are welcome at our house any time. We all LOVE YOU so much! "He'll bring his charms to gladden you, and should his stay be brief, you'll have his lovely memories as a solace for your grief."

Love- Caryn Caton

June Hardy

March 10, 2005

Sandy, I am so sorry to hear, as everyone else, of the loss of your son. If he was anything like you at your work place, he was a very special person. Again, I am sorry and know he is going to a better place.

June Hardy

Ellen Ogu

March 10, 2005

I am deeply sorry to hear about you and your family's loss. Some of my friends knew him and said he was very laid back and just a genuinely nice guy. My heart goes out to you all.

Corinne Ogu

March 9, 2005

Sandy,

I am very sorry for your loss. I hope everyone can make it through this tragedy. My heart goes out to you.

Carl Peters

March 9, 2005

I have met many of the local kids through the area’s music scene, some really stood out as special. Brendan was one of those people. He and his possibilities for the world will be deeply missed. My heart goes out to all of Brendan’s family and friends I know there is no real comfort or closure for the loss of a child and spirit like this. I hope you can take some solace in knowing, he has all the answers now. Brendan you were one of my Bruthas and you will be remembered and missed always.

Anne Ogu

March 9, 2005

Sandy,

I am sorry to hear about your loss and my heart goes out to you and your family.

Avida Sarvestani

March 9, 2005

Sandy,my prayers will be with you and Adam.

Jill Alvarez

March 9, 2005

Sandy, all of our thoughts and hearts and best wishes are with you and your family on this tragic passing of your son. Jill

Lynda Beck

March 9, 2005

Thank you for your friendship to Monica. It was a joy to know Brendan. We had a wonderful time with him on vacation in Myrtle Beach last summer, and several other

family gatherings over the last two years.My husband was pleased to have

a talented ballplayer on his roster.

It is difficult to understand what happens in the blink of an eye.We will miss him. He was always there

for our daughter. Stay in touch.

Stephanie Woodson

March 8, 2005

I've known Brendan for 6 years now. I found out on Sunday and I was so upset. I know he loved his mother. he had a tattoo on his arm that said "Mom"...he said he got that because she is the only woman he loved and she would always remain consistent throughout his life. He loved his mother and he still does. Hes watching down on all of us right now. My heart goes out to Brendans mother and father, his brother and his grandparents. We all love you & miss you, Brendan. Forever in our hearts and souls.

Sachin Agarwal

March 8, 2005

Dear Sandy, Brendon was like my little brother, we grew up together from the apartment complex to the townhouse in springfield, he will always be in my heart. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

Regards,

Sachin Agarwal

Cheryl and Ron Shymoniak

March 8, 2005

Our son Jon is a friend of Adam's and Brendan. Both young men have been to our home and were nothing but respectful and gracious. Our prayers go out to all that loved Brendan. He was a delight to sit and talk to about music. No words can express our heartfelt sympathy we are feeling. May GOD give you strength.

Brian, Jayme and Holly Kaniewski

March 8, 2005

Sandra and Adam-What a wonderful young man that we all had the pleasure to know. Our hearts go out to you and your family at this time. May God grant you His peace and comfort.

Donna Shumaker

March 8, 2005

Sandy: You and your family are in my prayers. My deepest condolences on the sudden, tragic loss of your son Brendan.

Elise Favin

March 8, 2005

Dear Sandy,

My thoughts and prayers are with you. I'm so sorry for the loss of your son. May God's strength be with you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Sandra Lengyel

March 8, 2005

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Brendan will always be remembered.

With sympathy,

His friend and classmate

Tameka Delmar

March 8, 2005

Hi Ms. Moore,

I just want to say God will be with you during and after this difficult time. We may not understand why but He knows best. Please know your son is in a better place now and will rest in peace forever. God bless you and take care.

Tameka-former Intern with EBG

LaReine Miller

March 8, 2005

Sandy:

You and your family are in my prayers. Let's remember to celebrate his love for life and rejoice in his love for you. God bless!

Katherine Phillips

March 8, 2005

Sandy, my sincere and loving sympathy goes out to you and your family at this time. Sandy, for the strenghth to get through this grief, please try to focus on God's power and goodness. Keep your faith centered on God, for He is the God of grace and mercy. He loves you and will never leave you. Peace be with you, my friend, at this time and forever.

Gina Wege Melendez

March 8, 2005

Dear Sandy. We want to express our deepest condolences to you and your family. Be sure to know that we love you and care for you. May God grant you strength in these moments of sorrow. We are here for you.

Denise Harrison

March 8, 2005

In Isaiah 66:13, the Lord says:

"As a mother comforts her child, so will I comfort you;"

Sandy, may the Lord comfort you as only HE can in your time of bereavement. I can't imagine the pain you may be feeling now but what I do know is God will take you through step by step, and day by day. Trust and lean on Him for He is your Comforter.

My prayers are with you and your family.

Rikki Redfern

March 8, 2005

Sandy & Adam, Words cannot begin to express how terribly sorry I am about Brendan. I wish I could do something about it, but I can't. Please know you are in my heart and prayers. Love to you both - Rikki

Gail Smith

March 8, 2005

Sandy, during a time such as this, I think about the scripture, "Weeping may endure for a night, but Joy SHALL cometh in the morning." As God gives you strength one-day-at-a-time, I pray that the "morning" will come soon to you and yours.

Patricia Reed

March 8, 2005

Sandra,

I wanted you to know how deeply sorry I am for the loss of your son. My prayer is that God sustain and protect you through this very difficult time.

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