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Caroline Hannaford Pillsbury

04/26/1946 - 12/24/2024

Caroline Hannaford Pillsbury obituary, 04/26/1946-12/24/2024, Washington, DC

BORN

04/26/1946

DIED

12/24/2024

Caroline Pillsbury Obituary

Caroline Hannaford ("Nina") Pillsbury died peacefully at Sibley Memorial Hospital in
Washington D.C. early in the morning of December 24, 2024, surrounded by her family. Born in Minneapolis on April 26, 1946, Nina was the eldest daughter of Gaspar Pacheco Amador, a Panamanian architect whose great-uncle, Manuel Amador Guerrero was the first President of Panama, and Barbara Barnwell Battin. Nina's father and mother met and married in Panama during World War II when Barbara was working for an Army General in the Canal Zone. After Barbara remarried, Nina grew up in White Bear Lake, MN with her mother, her step-father Jule M. Hannaford III, and her siblings Chichi, Betsy, and Jule.

Nina attended Summit School in St. Paul, MN and graduated from the Shipley School and Briarcliff College. She also attended the Boston Conservatory of Music.

In 1969, Nina married Philip Winston Pillsbury, Jr. ("Phil"). Nina became an accomplished homemaker, hostess, and events planner who accompanied her husband to diplomatic posts in Lubumbashi, Zaire, Tehran, Iran, Turin, Italy, and Buenos Aires, Argentina. While living abroad, Nina immersed herself in the life of the local communities, learning French, Italian and Spanish, even taking on the care of a dwarf chimpanzee "Samantha" in Zaire. Whether she was skiing the slopes of Iran, Europe, Argentina or the Colorado Rockies, horseback riding at the HF Bar Ranch, entertaining friends at home or enlivening Embassy parties, Nina maintained an immaculate and consummate sense of style and elegance.

In 1984, Nina and Phil settled in Washington, DC where Nina dedicated herself to the advancement of the choral arts as a stalwart member of the Women's Committee of the Washington Opera and the Choral Arts Society. Throughout her volunteer work as a fundraiser, Nina organized numerous charity events, including serving as chairwoman of the Red Cross Ball in 1997, with Lady Diana, Princess of Wales, as the guest of honor, one of Lady Diana's last public events. Nina and Phil were enthusiastic supporters of the Alliance Française, united in their love of France, the French language, and French culture. Nina was on the Alliance Française Gala Committee helping to plan the 120th anniversary of the organization to be celebrated in May 2025.

Nina was a member of the Sulgrave Club and the Chevy Chase Club. Her favorite songwriting duo was Rodgers and Hammerstein. "Getting to know you, getting to know all about you, getting to like you, getting to hope you like me. Getting to know you, putting it my way, but nicely," captures how Nina lived her life.

Nina was preceded in death by her husband Phil, and is survived by her children, Caroline and Philip III, her son-in-law Drew Oliver and daughter-in-law Cynthia, seven grandchildren, Andrew, Elizabeth, Serena, Anna, Winston, Thomas, and Millicent; and Phil's daughter Fendell Pillsbury, her husband Michael Lang, and their children Dustin and Dalton; and her sister Chichi Steiner, her brother-in-law Tom Rassieur, her sister Betsy Hannaford, and her brother Jule Hannaford.

Services for Mrs. Pillsbury will be private.

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Published by The Washington Post on Jan. 5, 2025.

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Anne L. Howard - Tristani

January 30, 2025

I was so sad to hear the news of Nina's passing. Nina and her late husband Phil, were close friends of my family, especially of my late Mother, Frances Humphrey Howard, and of mine and my husband Dennis after we were married in 1983. Nina was always the most positive and one of the warmest persons I have ever known. We saw Nina and her late husband Phil at our annual holiday parties and also at the Choral Arts Society and Washington Opera performances at the Kennedy Center. We even saw them in Barcelona, Spain when we all attended the wedding of the daughter of our mutual friend, Anita D'Aselme, in September, 2015.

I will never forget Nina's warm smile and she radiated her joy and happiness when she was with friends or meeting new friends. We also shared family stories about Nina's growing up in Minnesota and about Phil's family in Minnesota as well as his work in the U.S. Foreign Service at the U.S. Dept. of State, where my late Mother, Frances also worked as a career FSO during the 1960's for both the USDOS & USAID. Nina would share her wonderful experiences in various diplomatic posts of Phil.

My sincerest condolences and deepest sympathies to Nina's adult children and family members. She will never be forgotten and her life impacted us all. I am also so grateful to our mutural friend Nicole d'Amecourt, who shared the news of Nina's upcoming funeral service in April. Thank you.

Anita d'Anselme

January 22, 2025

Nina was a sunshine for me and inspiration... beautiful, clever, joyful, a marvelous mother, a marvelous friend, a marvelous hostess, a flamboyant decorator.
She had all the qualities.
She was very dear to me. We had such extraordinary memories with Phillip and Nina. I shall never forget our trips together.
Nina was the perfect woman, very clever, so elegant, full of tenderness for me. I shall miss her terribly.
I offer my sincere condolences to Carolyn, and Philip, Fendell and Chichi that I had the great pleasure to meet.

Anita d´Anselme

Kandie Stroud

January 15, 2025

Nina was one of the sweetest and warmest people I have ever known. She was always upbeat and cheerful. She loved to laugh and loved to welcome you into her home. I always felt happy whenever I saw her. She was regal in her carriage and elegant in her dress and was always impeccably turned out with stunning clothes and jewellery.
She was really a bright light and was an authentic friend. She didn´t play games
I loved her and ai will miss her terribly.

Nina T McKee - wife of deceased Charles McKee who was son of Bates and Kath

January 13, 2025

Nina was an enthusiastic, vibrant, stylish, interesting, fun and exceptionally "can do" woman!! My deceased husband, Charlie McKee, son of Bates and Katharine Pillsbury McKee, was the cousin of wonderful Philip McKee. When we had a home in Spring Island, SC, Nina and Phil would stop to visit en route to Florida etc.
Sadly, we lost track of her after we sold our SC home. I am so grateful to my friend, Julie Banks Johnson, for sending Nina´s obituary. I send deep sympathy and love to all of the family. Nina was one remarkable woman who will be missed by so many.

Joan Tobin

January 8, 2025

Nina was my idea of the woman ( and, to use the word of my generation, lady) that I always wished I were. Beautiful face, beautifully turned out alway, and beautiful and generous in manner and spirit. And with sparkle and humor as well. She leaves a lasting memory of grace and warmth.
Joan Tobin

French Wallop

January 5, 2025

Oh I am so sorry to read this news. Nina and I shared many happy years in Washington and working on charities over the years. She was always charming, beautiful and funny when called for. I had just seen her in September She adored all her children and grandchildren so much! And she will be very missed in our dwindling circle of old friends French Wallop

John Knutson

January 5, 2025

To Philip, Caroline, Fendell, Chichi, Jule, Betsy and all the kids, I am heartbroken to hear of Nina´s passing. We had such a long history together at Dunbarton and really bonded after so many projects and events. Despite the numerous eye-rolls over one thing or another, I grew to love her very much and will miss her dearly. She was a force to be reckoned with, but always showed me her soft side.

I consider Phil as a second father and get teary every time I think of him, and only hope they´re back together and keeping each other good company.

My love to you all, fondly.

Bernt Johan Collet

January 5, 2025

In spite of living in Denmark Nina and Phil were our best friends. We were present at their wedding, we lived, travelled and skied with Phil and Nina all over the world, and were godparents to each other's children. With Nina gone a big, big pillar under our life has disappeared. And we greve. Catharina and Bernt Johan Collet

Lynda Webster

January 3, 2025

I first met Nina when she chaired a gala, something she often did with great aplomb and passion.

Later, Bill and I enjoyed having Nina and Phil as our guests in the country, where we enjoyed walks, fine local restaurants, and chatting with friends by a fall fire.

Nina was beautiful inside and out but never behaved like she knew it. Of all her many extraordinary characteristics, Nina possessed the one I believe to be the most important- a caring heart.

My life has been much richer for knowing Nina. I shall miss delivering peonies from my garden to her next spring. Nobody appreciated their beauty more.

I offer profound condolences to Nina and Phil´s beautiful family.

Dorothy & William McSweeny

January 3, 2025

A beautiful woman in heart and appearance. Her presence was joyful and caring to all. She will be missed
Dorothy and William McSweeny

Adrienne Westerfield

January 2, 2025

This isn´t about Caroline but it´s about her mom.

Beautiful in an immaculate silk pantsuit with kind of cigarette pants at the Field Club with Caroline and Drew. Had the pleasure of seeing her on many more occasions, mostly Christmas at an open house at my home or at the Oliver´s. One thing that made me laugh was when she and Phil crawled up my backstairs from the party (upstairs to the bedrooms) to look at some photography and were "caught". I certainly didn´t care at all and neither did they. Even though she could seem fancy she was very relatable.

Caroline, your mother was an engaging and lovely lady. My thoughts are with you and your entire family. Xx

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