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CLARENCE EARL HARDY, JR.
Passed away on March 28, 2011 in North Potomac, Maryland. He was born on July 2, 1944 in Edenton, North Carolina. His civil service with the federal government spanned over 30 years, most of which were spent at the Environmental Protection Agency. He retired in 2001 to spend more time in his gardens and to travel the world with his wife. He is survived by his wife of 42 years, Mae Brewer Hardy; a son, Clarence (Dawn Mays-Hardy) of Cheshire, CT; a daughter, Melva Hardy of Plainsboro, NJ; a granddaughter, LaRae Mays-Hardy of Cheshire, CT; a mother-in-law, Ella Maclin of Memphis, TN; and a host of other family and friends. Services will be held Saturday, April 2, 2011 at Rockville Assembly of God 14225 Glen Mill Road in Rockville, MD. Visitation 10 a.m. Service to follow at 11 a.m. Arrangements by SNOWDEN FUNERAL HOME.
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Mae Hardy
March 28, 2025
On this date fourteen years ago, family, friends and I were adjusting to the fact that Clarence Hardy (my beloved husband) had transitioned into eternity. Using the letters of his first name to describe him, Clarence was a caring, loving, ambitious, reliable, energetic, nifty, compassionate and emphatic person.
I am forever grateful for the family and for the times that we shared. You blessed us throughout your earthly journey. Sweet, vivid memories continue to bless us.
Mae Hardy
March 28, 2024
The man who was my beloved life partner, my anchor, my soulmate and so much more completed his earthly journey thirteen years ago. I miss him every day; I celebrate him every day and daily I thank God for our journey together. Clarence Hardy was a brilliant, compassionate, friendly man who had such a zest for life. He was also a dedicated husband, father and grandfather. Precious memories, how they linger...
Mae Hardy
July 2, 2023
Today I celebrate the anniversary of Clarence Hardy's birth. He was my better half for forty-two and a half years. I bask in cherished memories of our family circle. We all not only loved each but we also appreciated each member's contributions to our family. CH, you're forever loved and we celebrate you!
I traveled this year on 28 March and did not write in this space. However I relive much of that day twelve years ago too often.
Mae Hardy, the Wife
Mae Hardy
March 28, 2022
Eleven years ago at this time I was still in shock. Our children (also in shock) had arrived home. We were all adjusting to the sudden break in our small circle. None of us knew that the circle would be broken again in 2012 and in 2016.
I am so grateful for the lives that we shared. I celebrate each family member. We were/are blessed to have been a part of such a dynamic group. The love and precious memories are embraced daily.
Mae Hardy
July 2, 2021
Asked to list ten things about himself, Hardy (my husband) once wrote I am "1) a Black male and proud of it, 2) a father of 2 fine children, 3) a devoted husband, 4) a spiritual person, 5) an energetic person, 6) a hard/smart worker, 7) a creative person, 8) warm sometimes, distant at other times, 9) a dedicated public servant, 10) an opinionated person." This man was also my soulmate, my partner in every sense of the word and my better half. I love and miss him on this anniversary of his birth.
Mae Hardy
March 30, 2021
I grieve the loss of his physical presence but I celebrate Clarence Hardy's life and legacy every day. For me the ten year absence seems more like a lifetime. Sometimes our lives together as one seem to have been a dream. I cherish sweet memories, hundreds of photos and all that was and still is us.
Thank you to the anonymous person who kept the site open and thank you one and all for leaving comments.
DONNECKA ANDERSON
March 30, 2021
Hi Uncle Clarence. Just taking out a little time to tell you that you are missed, especially by Aunt Mae. Thank you for being such a great husband to her and loving her like you did. Many of us can only wish to have a love like yours. Rest well Uncle Clarence and we love you. ❤
dorothy m. van steinburg
March 25, 2021
Dear Mae & Family, after years of not seeing Clarence after he left AEC/DOE, we reconnected at a retirement party. This was shortly before his passing and I was heartbroken that I was not able to attend his memorial service. I worked with many personnel specialists over the years but Clarence always held a fond place in my heart. He always called me "Little Sis" and I would bring him my homemade ketchup to take home. Clarence was a kind, gentle spirit and he will always be remembered by me. He loved you dearly, Mae, and when he spoke of you and his children his eyes would light up and would get that mischievous grin. He was a special soul. Sending hugs, Dottie Van Steinburg
Mae Hardy
March 29, 2020
I celebrate Clarence Hardy every day. He was a brilliant, compassionate, insightful human being who chose to be happy. I was so blessed to have shared more than half of his life's journey; we were happily married for more than 42 years. You left me behind on March 28, 2011 but I will forever cherish our years as partners, as parents and as grandparents.
DONNECKA ANDERSON
March 25, 2020
It was 9 years ago today that you left us, Uncle Clarernce. I never got to spend a whole lot of time around you, given you and Aunt Mae lived up North. But when I was around you, it was a joy. You were a funny man that always made us feel welcomed and I always loved how you loved my Aunt Mae and your family. RIP Uncle Clarence. We miss you. ❤
Sue Stevens
March 30, 2019
I was a neighbor of Mr. Hardy. My husband and I loved sharing a chat, smile or wave with Clarence anytime we went by and he was out tending his yard and gardens. Such a nice man, taken much too soon. We moved away from the neighborhood five years ago, and now live on a lake in NH. However, I still like to see these remembrances of Clarence every year in his anniversary. He was a special person.
Donnecka Anderson
March 29, 2019
Uncle Clarence, it is 8 years later, as of yesterday. Aunt Mae still thinks of you very often with fond memories and I often remember how you loved telling the story of me crawling up on the kitchen table when I was very very young and getting caught. Lol. Just wanted you to know that you are still missed and we love you. ♡
Mae Hardy
March 28, 2019
I still feel the love and generosity of spirit that you so freely shared with us. I will be forever grateful for our shared journey. Eight years later I love, honor and celebrate you Clarence Hardy.
Mae Hardy
March 31, 2018
March 28, 2018 was the seventh anniversary of your transition. I thought of and celebrated you. But then, I think of and celebrate you everyday. I am so grateful for the journey that we shared. We not only loved each other; we liked and enjoyed each other. I miss your physical presence and I revel in so many cherished memories. Love you always!
Mae Hardy
July 2, 2017
We spent more than half of our lives together as one. Today marks the 73rd anniversary of your birth. Still miss you, still love you, still grateful for cherished memories.
Donnecka Anderson
March 29, 2017
Uncle Clarence, I am a day late posting; but you are definitely never forgotten. It is hard to believe that you have been gone for 6 years. It is still hard to believe that you are gone period. You were definitely the love of my Aunt Mae's life. Melva and I always said we wanted the Lord to bless us with a mate that loved us as much as you loved Mae. Thank you for loving my aunt the way that you did and bringing joy and laughter into all of our lives. We all love and miss you Uncle Clarence. ♡
Mae Hardy
March 28, 2017
March 28, 2017
CH, you were my husband and Love of my life for more than 42 years. Your sudden departure on this date six years ago stunned all of us. Melva started recognizing both your birthday and your transition day on Facebook rather than in this guestbook. I honor both of you today and I am grateful for the years that we all had together. My heart still aches with the losses and yet I am eternally grateful for the beautiful lives that we shared.
Melva Hardy
March 28, 2012
Love you more than words can say and miss you more than words can express.. . .
Donnecka Anderson
March 28, 2012
You are truly missed Clarence on this 1 year anniversary of your home going. You and my momma, Jean, just keep watching over all of us you that you left behind. We will see you both again one day. Love and miss you much!!!
Melva Hardy
July 2, 2011
Happy birthday, Daddy! When I came to hang out with your for your birthday last year. . . never did I imagine that it would be the last one we celebrated together. I love you dearly and miss you lots!
James Brothers
April 8, 2011
My deepest sympathy goes out to the Hardy family. Clarence was my cousin, just found out today (4/8/11) of his passing. "Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal".
Chuck Spath
April 5, 2011
Dear Mae & Family:
Our thoughts and prayers go your way. I had the wonderful privilege of working with Clarence earlier in his career when he worked for the Atomic Energy Commission in Albuquerque. He was a terrific guy and a favorite among the many employees because of being so friendly and competent! Someone so special is easy to remember!
Our love and care, Chuck and Donna Spath, Grand Junction, CO
Dorothy Van Steinburg
April 2, 2011
Dear Mae & Family, please accept my sincere sympathy for your loss. I was so shocked and saddened when I received the news of Clarence's passing and so sorry that I can't be there today for the celebration of his life. Clarence is one of a very few extra special people in my life. When we worked together at the AEC in Germantown, he was very kind and caring and made everyone feel important and special. He even called me "Little Sis" and I thought of Clarence as my "Big Brother." We didn't often see each other after he left AEC, but he still held a special place in my heart and thoughts. He was a role model as a family man--he deeply loved and cared for Mae and the children. The last time we spoke was at his retirement party--Clarence will be sorely missed not just by me, but many whose heart he has touched. Sincerely, Dottie Van Steinburg
Jacqueline Hardy-Lassiter
April 2, 2011
Greatest condolences for your loss. Unfortunately we've not had the opportunity to meet. I am the daughter of Frank Hardy, elder brother of Uncle Clarence, sorry to hear this way, but perhaps our sincere prayers and heartfelt loss can lead to us meeting and getting to know each other someday soon.
Al & Sue Stevens
April 1, 2011
Clarence was a great neighbor and member of our community. We always enjoyed stopping and chatting with him while he was out working in his yard. He always had a smile, a wave, and something positive to say. He will truly be missed.
Donnecka Anderson
March 31, 2011
Uncle Clarence, I sit here with grandma still in complete shock and disbelief that you are gone. Our hearts hurt and it just breaks for your wife and kids. I keep thinking about how when grandma talks to Mae she always ask her, "so where and how is that son-in-law of mine" and I wait for her to get off the phone and tell me what you and Mae were up to and listen to her fuss about you being out there working hard in that yard. That's usually where you were if you weren't in the kitchen cooking up something good to eat. We will miss your laughter and smile, your sense of humor, your kindness, the stories you liked to tell when going down memory lane, and your zest for life. You might be gone, but you will never be forgotten and we will miss you very very much. We love you Clarence.
Your Mother-In-Law Ella and your Niece Donnecka
March 31, 2011
He will be missed by more then you know. He was an amazing man.
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