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Ellen Hapner Obituary

HAPNER ELLEN IRENE HAPNER (Age 38) Of Triangle, VA died November 25, 2008 at Fairfax Hospital. She is survived by her husband of 19 years, Larry D. Hapner; her mother, Anne Carroll; sisters, Connie Goulet and Barbara Gentry; and her brother, Rick Carroll. Ellen is preceded in death by her father, Robert. Friends and family are invited to celebrate Ellen‘s life on Saturday, November 29 from 1 to 3 p.m. with a service beginning at 3 p.m. at Mountcastle Funeral Home, 4143 Dale Blvd. Dale City, VA 22193. Interment private.

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Published by The Washington Post on Nov. 28, 2008.

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Reede Hapner

November 22, 2023

I still can’t believe you are gone. It’s been a long 15 years without you. So much has changed, I wish you were still here so we could talk and laugh. Miss you girl!

Cynthia Hull

December 2, 2008

As someone who cares very deeply for Ellen's sister, Barbara, I am honored to recognize Ellen's life and all the joy she gave to her family and friends. Our thoughts and caring are with all who loved her now, and always.

Kevin & Kristie Kelm

December 1, 2008

Ellen was a very sweet person, whom we had the occasion to visit with over the the years, through her husband's famiy gatherings. Our heartfelt condolences to Larry during this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Cheryl & ALlan Stephens

December 1, 2008

We are so sorry to hear about Ellen's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of her family & friends. May you find comfort in the wonderful memories you cherish.

Lois and family

November 30, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Hapner family. Ellen will be missed by many who loved her. You are a close-knit family and you will have enough memories to sustain you until you meet again. Take care of each other and be blessed.

Reede Hapner

November 29, 2008

Ellen,
You were a special gift to our family. We don't know why God called you home so soon, perhaps the angels needed another bowler. Whenever I hear thunder I will think of you. CJ will miss playing soccer with you. Megan will miss your laughter and the conversations you both shared. All of the family pets especially "Lilly" and Katie" will miss running around the yard with you. Doug and I will miss having you at bowling and family gatherings. You were always there helping, making us laugh and "clicking" pictures. We will take care of Larry as promised.
We love you always,
Reede, Doug, Megan and CJ

Bea Grzesiak

November 29, 2008

Larry, please know how sad I was to hear of Ellen's death. I worked with her for about 9 years. She was such a happy, cheerful friend that I will never forget. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.

debbie mcdaniel

November 29, 2008

i am so very sad about losing this wonderful niece. knowing her since the day she came into this world.she was a truly wonderful girl.
ann,rick,connie, barbara and larry, i wish i could be there, but know this ,your in my heart and prayers. i love you all so very much.

Barbara Gentry

November 28, 2008

I'm gonna miss you little sis. Make sure you save a seat for me next to you and pop. I'll always love you and never forget your beautiful heart.

Larry, Mom, Connie, Rick and Zack, I'm thinking about all of you and keeping you close to my heart. While we will never understand it, we will get through it. Stay strong and know I love you all and am here for any of you at any time.

Love,

Barbara

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4143 Dale Blvd., Dale City, VA 22193

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