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ERIC HARDER Obituary


ERIC JOSEPH HARDER, DSc  
Of Cheverly, MD, on February 14, 2018, aged 58, after a valiant fight with cancer. Beloved husband of Elizabeth (Ryan); devoted father to Brendan, Séan (Sarah Blorstad), Patrick and Deirdre; loving son of the late Dr. Robert Harry Harder and Judith McCarvel Harder; older brother of Paul (Anne), Ted (Debbie) and Beau (Robin). Deeply regretted by his extended family: father and mother-in-law, Robert J. and Anne P. Ryan; brother-in-law, Robert J. Ryan, III (Kathryn); little sister-in-law, Anne Ryan Hanafin (Michael); and his many aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, and nephews.Eric's grace, courage, and strength in the face of his extended illness were an inspiration to all who loved him. His intelligence, kindness, compassion, and above all, his sense of humor, will continue to resonate in the lives of countless people, including: his professional colleagues from over 25 years of service at the Department of Defense, Washington DC; his many former students and student-athletes, especially those from DeMatha Catholic High School, Hyattsville MD, Elizabeth Seton High School, Bladensburg MD, and the United States Naval Academy, Annapolis MD; his former Scouts and fellow Scout Leaders at Troop #257, Boy Scouts of America; his fellow alumni from the College of William and Mary (BS, 1983), University of Maryland University College (BS, 1988), and George Washington University (MS, 1993, DSc, 1998); his neighbors in the Cheverly community; and his many friends, locally and elsewhere.A memorial service honoring Eric's life will be held on Saturday, March 3 at St. Andrew's Episcopal Church, 4512 College Avenue, College Park MD, with visitation at 10 a.m., prior to services starting at 11 a.m. A reception will follow at the DeMatha Convocation Center, 4313 Madison Street, Hyattsville MD. In lieu of flowers, donations in Eric's memory can be sent to the DeMatha Catholic High School Crew Team [dematha.org] (or by check payable to DeMatha Crew, "In Memory of Eric Harder" and mailed to 4313 Madison Street, Hyattsville MD 20781) or Doctors Without Borders [donate.doctorswithoutborders.org].

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Published by The Washington Post on Feb. 25, 2018.

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Brenda Betz

May 10, 2018

I just could not believe this when I saw Eric's obituary today. He was far too young and I know it should not make me angry but it does. Condolences to Beth and the rest of the family. I am sure he is missed.

Wendy Sevilla

March 15, 2018

I cherish the memories of talking to Eric in high school, sharing a table in AP Physics, and the surprising hello when I walked in Williamsburg and found that he was still at William and Mary. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Bill Thornton

February 28, 2018

God bless Cousin Eric. My heart goes out to Aunt Judy, everyone in the Harder and McCarvel clans, and all the other fortunate folks who knew Eric well.

Ruth Quigley

February 27, 2018

One more hug.
Aunt Ruthie

Juliana Hunt

February 26, 2018

Taken from this world far too early. As a mother, my heart aches particularly for his mother, my dear Aunt Judy. Eric touched so many lives which is the greatest of successes.

Anne Ryan Hanafin

February 25, 2018

"The body comes to its ending / But there is nothing to fear." with best love always from your little sister

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