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Daniel Wedderburn
May 5, 2020
Fred was a wonderful caring person to his lovely wife, Skila, and children. His rise as a reporter/journalist from the Nashville Tennessean to the NYTimes followed by being CBS Legal Reporter for Walter Cronkite's Evening News during tumultuous times, and later for Steven Brill's daily Legal Channel was remarkable in his honest unbiased analyses. His sensitivity and human kindness to others will always stand out.
Will Martin
April 5, 2020
For thirty-two wonderful years, it has been our great fortune to know, respect and love Fred and Skila, first in Nashville, then in DC. After we lived in separate cities, we continued to maintain and cherish the close friendship, and the frequent visits, with them.
It started with Skila and Jeanies 1987-88 adventure, running the Tennessee campaign (and victory in Tennessee!) of Gore for President 1988. Campaigns often make for fast friendships, and Fred and Skilas hilltop home in Nashville with a sunset view became the scene of many great gatherings.
Fred (affectionately called Mr. Fred from time to time by Skila and us) had the winning combination of a razor-sharp mind and easy Southern charm (and accent). He was not hesitant in expressing his opinions, and we loved our discussions with him. We cant recall having such a broad scope of substantive conversations with anyone to compare to the ones with Fred.
Skila and Jeanie joined the Gore team again for the 1992 Clinton-Gore campaign. Fred and Will suffered for the cause at their respective homes while Skila was in Little Rock and Jeanie was on the road. Freds sense of humor helped salve the stress of campaign work.
To the surprise of all, the tide turned in favor of Bill and Al no doubt in great part because of the work of Skila and Jeanie and a Democrat was in the White House again. Soon, we were in government appointments in DC for the new administration, and Skila and Fred were absolutely wonderful in welcoming us and introducing us to their fabulous circle of friends and family. Our five years in DC included many dinners, parties, and weekend visits to their Stafford vacation home, all filled with talk, talk, talk and loads of laughter.
Fred Graham was a dear friend. He was smart, talented, articulate, funny, charming and ever-positive. We miss him very much.
-Will Martin and Jeanie Nelson, April 5, 2020
Alix Burns
March 28, 2020
We had the great fortune of growing up a few blocks away from the Grahams in Washington D.C. Between overlapping at grammar schools, high-schools and running around the neighborhood, it was not uncommon to see Burns and Graham kids up to some kind of mischief.
As a kid, I was always in awe of this incredibly brilliant, smart, dashing dad that was Fred. And I'm able to bookend this memory with a lovely one where I ran into Fred and Skila at a neighborhood restaurant in D.C. Years had passed, but it felt like a minute. The always present, twinkle in the eye of intellect and curiosity and they easy nature of Skila and Fred. What an amazing, ever changing country and world Fred was able to bear witness to and share with us! And what wonderful children and grandchildren!
Wishing peace and love to the Graham family on both coasts and everywhere in between. xo
Bobbi and Greg
March 20, 2020
We will miss Fredhis warmth, intellect, affability and insights and the way he always listened to people. We send our condolences and love to Skila who was so devoted to him and who we are fortunate to have as a friend
Bill Kovach
March 13, 2020
Fred along with David Halberstam opened the New York door for a generation of journalist from The Nashville Tennessean. The quality of his work told editors that the Tennessean was the place to look to build a staff worthy of New York readers. His entire career helped a growing audience learn what they needed to know to make wise decisions in the political marketplace.
William (and Lynda) Webster
January 19, 2020
Fred was an extraordinary man- a journalism pioneer, and one of the most most professional reporters I encountered during my years in government.
More important, he was a kind, loyal friend who will be long remembered and sorely missed.
Lynda joins me in sending our sincere condolences to the entire family, especially to the love of Fred's life, his beloved wife Skila, who was his devoted partner and caregiving angel over the past few years.
Always a proud Marine
Grier Graham
January 17, 2020
2nd Lieutenant Fred P. Graham
Dean Monroe
January 8, 2020
would see him on the street in DC and he seemed so affable. His wife Skila has worked with me at DOE all this time so best to her and the family. Dean
Lys Graham
January 7, 2020
Dad told me in the last year that his life had been happy, successful and lucky. His end was peaceful. Not sure you can ask for more.
Birthday Celebration 2018
Grier Graham
January 6, 2020
The kids and I loved celebrating dad's birthday (2018).
Cyndee Lord
January 5, 2020
I co-anchored with Fred during his time in Nashville. He told amazing stories, worked hard every day to bring depth to our newscasts, valued others' input, and above all was one of the kindest and most respectful men in the business. I am honored to have worked with him and thankful for his friendship.
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