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GRAHAM EDMONDSON HAYES, II
On Friday, September 16, 2011, of Upper Marlboro, MD. Loving husband of Jennifer M. Umbles Hayes; beloved son of Graham E. Hayes, I and Juanita Hayes-Hill (Charles); devoted father of Jasmine Monique, Zoe Janai and Graham Edmondson Hayes, III; brother of Sondra Jenkins, Karen Rodman and Alisa Hayes. Also survived by his maternal grandmother, Lucille Merriweather and maternal aunt, Emalyn Rogers (George); special mentor, Willie E. Jeffries, Sr. and longtime friend and business partner, Braddock Boyd; a host of other relatives and friends. Family will receive friends on Monday, September 26, 2011 at Ebenezer AME Church, 7707 Allentown Rd., Fort Washington, MD from 10 a.m. until time of funeral service at 11 a.m. On Saturday, October 1, 2011, a memorial service and interment will take place in Wichita, KS. Donations can be made to the Clayton E. Umbles Scholarship Fund at the University of Toledo College of Pharmacy and Pharmaceutical Sciences, or Ebenezer AME Church (Ft. Washington, MD) Scholarship Fund for High School Students. Local arrangements by STRICKLAND FUNERAL SERVICES. Out of town arrangements by JACKSON MORTUARY, 316-262-5431. www.stricklandfuneralservices.com
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aisha richardson
November 23, 2011
I'm so saddened to hear of graham's passing. heart felt and warm sentmiments to his entire family. graham was a true confidence builder for me and i am so honored to have had the opportunity to have known him. God bless you all.
Ervin Colvin
November 16, 2011
To a friend that i have known for many and played football with he will be missed dearly and may heart and prayers go out to the family from the colvin/mccray family. Better know for our trash services in wichita, You are missed Eddie. Ervin Colvin
Lisa Saunders
November 4, 2011
RIP Eddie , I love ya like a Brother
Lisa A Saunders-Holliman
tim pellegrino
November 2, 2011
For me to know Graham on a professional level was a great pleasure. His integrity was refreshing and concern for his customer's inspiring. Strength to those left behind and blessing to all that knew him!
Tim Pellegrino, Carlsbad, CA
Marye Harris
October 31, 2011
This is such a touching and heart wrenching tragedy. I watched the strength each of you carry through these very trying times, and I know your dad, your husband, is so PROUD as I am, watching you all display HIS strength inside you in your own "special" ways. I'm reminded of how fragile we all are in times like these; but also shown how strong we become from the power of God. No words can depict or imply the love you all display daily as you walk in a world, that no longer has the light of your Dad, your Husband, but know that his light shines forever as you continue to glow. Love you much...You are the Light!! Well Done - Eddie
Reginald Moore
October 2, 2011
Eddie you will truly be missed. I remember when you help Brooks win the junior high championship game, when we were in the eighth grade, man you was a great athletic. My heart an prayers go out to the Hayes family.
Reginald Moore
October 2, 2011
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve. Eddie you will be missed dearly.
Patricia Fox
September 29, 2011
When my daughter called me this morning to tell me of Eddie's passing, the first thing that flashed in front of me was Eddie's beautiful smile. My daughter, Tonya; and son, Timothy, went to school with Eddie in Wichita, KS from grade school through high school. My heartfelt sympathy and condolences go out to his children and family. May you be comforted by God's love and peace in the days to come. With Love, Patricia Fox (Los Angeles, CA)
Phil Wortz
September 29, 2011
Eddie was the kind of person that we all wish we were. His smile and laugh are burned into the best corners of my memory.
Sweetriena Garner
September 28, 2011
Jenn, my prayers for you, the children and the entire family are endless during this most trying period. Just remember that 'earth has no sorrow, that heaven cannot heal!' You will find peace and comfort. BE BLESSED in spite of any situation.
ScharMaine Chappell
September 28, 2011
All my love, prayer and condolences. I pray your hearts will not be troubled long and that when you start to remember and feel down, that you reflect on the good memories and live life to the fullest as he would probably want you to. Much Love, ScharMaine Chappell.
Tyrina Hardiman
September 28, 2011
Jenn,May God continue to keep you and the children during these very difficult days ahead.
John Shaw
September 28, 2011
Eddie and I played little league football together for years and we remained frineds through high school. While we were both in college I unexpectedly received a call from him one day, he was attending Howard Univ. in D.C. and that was the last time I spoke with him. Eddie and I were always the biggest on our teams, he could always out run me but I could always kick the football further. I have thought of Eddie often, I look forward to the day I get to tease him and laugh with him again. John Shaw
Jimmy Hall
September 27, 2011
Eddie was HUGE to say the least when I seen him the first day of school in fifth grade. He towered over everyone. I became his friend right away. I found later he was gentle giant. Rest in peace gentle giant.
Angela McCarther
September 27, 2011
Eddie I remember sitting next to you in class at Chisholm Trail, and they had to get you a larger desk because of you were one of the tallest kids in our class, you kept us all laughing with your humor and soft smile. You drew me a picute of a football once and gave it to me...you will be missed my friend.
Sally Ziegler
September 27, 2011
What a terrible and unexpected loss!
Von Marks
September 27, 2011
It was my pleasure to know you Eddie. You were one of the first people I met at Brooks. I will be praying for your family. Rest in peace.
TRACY BOYD / HARRIS
September 27, 2011
MY HEART GOES OUT TO THE FAMILY I WILL KEEP YOU ALL IN MY PRAYERS LOVE AND GOD BLESS
Lorraine Davis
September 27, 2011
Thoughts and prayers go out to the Hayes family.. So very sorry for your loss.
Kimberly Carroll-Robinson
September 26, 2011
Eddie was a good friend and will be truely missed. My prayers go out to the Hayes family.
Darrell Gettis
September 26, 2011
I'm going to miss you my friend
Robert Kenemer
September 26, 2011
Eddie was an awesome teammate, I really enjoyed his presence on the football field. Peace, prayers, and blessings to his family.
Karen Brooks-Albright
September 26, 2011
My Heart goes out to the Hayes Family our prayers are with you all,Eddie will be truely missed God Bless
Dr. R. Lee (Reggie) Tate
September 26, 2011
This hurts way too much! A friend, protector, and leader. Entrusted to eulogize Eddie...May God grant the words! Our Love goes out to all the family!
Jay Agnew and Family
September 26, 2011
Our prayers go out to the family and friends of Eddie.
Gayle Martin
September 26, 2011
My prayers are with the family
Kimberly Hoy-Hobenu
September 25, 2011
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Lelia Bush
September 25, 2011
saddened beyond belief... but found it very ironic that our elder's talk at services today focused on more than 15 scriptures instructing us that God is the "Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort"... It will be hard ... but let him comfort all of you now!
Valerie Moore
September 25, 2011
Eddie will be certainly missed, I remember Eddie and Roderick Redo being the first black atletics to play football at Kaupaun. RIP baby you are in a better place.
Delia Carson-Winegarner
September 25, 2011
Eddie was a kind and wonderful friend. He will be greatly missed. Our prayers go out to your family.
Ronald Anderson
September 25, 2011
To the Hayes family so sorry to hear about the passing of Eddie.
May you be comforted during this time of loss
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