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Haskell Behrend "Hal" Small

1948 - 2024

Haskell Behrend "Hal" Small obituary, 1948-2024, Washington, DC

BORN

1948

DIED

2024

Haskell Small Obituary

Haskell "Hal" Behrend Small, 75, passed away on June 1, 2024 in Washington, DC.

He is survived by his wife of 54 years, Betsy (Elizabeth Howard) Small, their daughters Sarah and Rachel, and his sister, Sherry Sundick.

Haskell was born in Washington, DC, on June 3, 1948, the son of Ruth Behrend Small (a classical and jazz pianist) and Colonel Charles Haskell Small (a chemical engineer and real estate developer).

He attended John Eaton Elementary School, Georgetown Day School, and Congressional High School, followed by Carnegie Mellon University (CMU) where he double-majored in Electrical Engineering and Physics.

During his freshman year at CMU, he formed a band called The Plant, for which he played the organ. This experience shaped his decision to leave his university studies and move to San Francisco's Haight Ashbury to pursue his goal of becoming a rock star. While there, his musical focus shifted. He began studying classical piano and composition with Robert Sheldon at the San Francisco Conservatory, inspiring him to return to CMU to major in piano and composition.

He met his future wife Betsy in harmony class at CMU, and they married in 1971 at the home of Betsy's parents in Massachusetts.

In 1972, Haskell and Betsy moved to Washington, DC. Haskell joined the faculty of the Washington Conservatory of Music where he served as Piano Department Chair and taught piano and composition to children and adults for more than four decades. He was known for his patient and personalized approach to teaching and his dedication to mentoring students with diverse learning styles, having been sensitized to these issues by his own dyslexia. He extended his love of sharing piano by volunteering at Sitar Arts Center and performing at senior residences. He continued his own musical education, studying with renowned pianists Leon Fleisher and William Masselos.

Haskell's repertoire was vast and he amassed an extensive discography, including works by J.S. Bach, Gershwin, Hovhaness, Brahms, and Mompou, as well as his own compositions, which range from energetic, tense, and dynamic to quiet, spacious, and mystical, incorporating elements of contemporary, atonal, classical, and jazz.

He performed around the globe, both at quaint, quiet monasteries, as well as at prestigious venues, including Carnegie Hall, Lincoln Center, and The Kennedy Center. He was heralded by Musical Times for his "dazzlingly prodigious technique," and The Washington Post wrote, "Small wove a spell...sheer musicality...each note a liquid jewel."

Haskell's love of varied forms of artistic expression resulted in collaborations with and compositions for a wide range of multidisciplinary projects, including co-creations with dance companies, orchestras, art museums, and children's classrooms.

Haskell was an avid player of the ancient Chinese strategy game called Go. He organized the first US Go Congress in 1985, and in 2016 he was instrumental in founding the National Go Center in Washington, DC. He composed A Game of Go, a multimedia piece for two pianos and animated film. This piece interprets a famous Go match in which each piano represents one of the players; the music is synchronized to the game's progress as stones are played across the board.

Haskell's love of peace and quiet, as expressed in his music, was also reflected in his activism. Finding it difficult to work in his home studio with the noise of gas-powered leaf blowers, he organized a committee of Wesley Heights residents, who eventually succeeded in banning gas-powered leaf blowers in DC, a movement that is gaining momentum nationwide.

In February 2021, Haskell suffered a stroke which rendered the left side of his body paralyzed. He used his longtime dream of learning and playing Beethoven's monumental Diabelli Variations as a creative muse for his rehabilitation. During this time, as he practiced this exceptionally challenging piece with unwavering commitment, he also wrote arrangements of masterworks and new compositions for right-hand only. He eventually returned to playing with both hands, culminating in a performance of The Diabelli Variations at Philadelphia's Benjamin Franklin Hall, and a "Celebration of Healing" tour.

Haskell received a diagnosis of pancreatic cancer in January, 2024. After a series of complex surgeries, he ultimately lost his battle with hospital-acquired pneumonia and passed away on June 1, 2024. He was buried in Columbia Gardens, an arboretum cemetery, on June 5, 2024, the day he had been scheduled to perform The Diabelli Variations at Carnegie Hall. He was laid to rest with a copy of the score, adorned with flowers and surrounded by loved ones.

A Celebration of Life ceremony for Haskell will take place on Saturday, September 14, 2024 at 1 p.m. Please contact his family at [email protected]">[email protected]">[email protected]">[email protected] for additional information.

Donations on Haskell's behalf can be made to:
Washington Conservatory of Music
Sitar Arts Center
Arts Club of Washington
American Go Foundation

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Washington Post on Sep. 10, 2024.

Memories and Condolences
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Lisa L. Muse(Bettie Muse daughter)

September 19, 2024

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Edward Zhang

September 14, 2024

Hal was a dedicated leader in the American Go community. His creativity, and ability to execute, lead to the first ever US Go Congress (1985), which has continued till its 40th edition in 2024. I was honored to play several tournament games with him. Despite competitive, he always demonstrated great sportsmanship. Betsy and Hal always play Pair Go -- they are a lovely, exemplar couple. "It's good for our marriage." Hal once proudly told me.
Betsy, Sarah and Rachel, may your hearts filled with wonderful memories of joyful times. Sincerely, Edward

Ching-Sung Chin

September 13, 2024

It is with a heavy heart that I reflect on the life and legacy of Haskell Small, a truly remarkable person who touched the lives of so many with his warmth, creativity, and intellect. Haskell had a deep love for the game of Go, and I had the privilege of playing with him at several tournaments over the years. Those memories remain cherished moments in my life. I vividly remember several occasions when my family, along with many fellow Go players, was welcomed into his lovely Washington, D.C. home to celebrate the New Year in the early 2010s. His hospitality and graciousness were a testament to his character, and those gatherings became a symbol of community and friendship.

His home, decorated with Go equipment, reflected his deep connection to the game. I remember being fascinated by the way he seamlessly intertwined Go and music, two art forms that, at first glance, seem so different yet, in his hands and mind, harmonized perfectly. I´ll never forget reading his insightful article, Reflections on Go and Music, which left me in awe of his ability to connect the complex strategies of Go with the structure and flow of music. Perhaps one of his most astonishing accomplishments was composing a piece of music based on a game of Go in 1987-an artistic feat that highlighted his extraordinary creativity.

I was also grateful when Haskell accepted my invitation to speak at a local Chinese Book Club, where he delivered a captivating lecture entitled "Music and Go: Relating Two Art Forms." His talk resonated deeply with the audience, who were inspired by his thoughtful approach and the mastery he displayed in both Go and music.

Haskell's contributions to the arts and his passion for Go were truly one-of-a-kind, and his legacy will live on in the hearts of those who knew him. May his soul rest in eternal peace, surrounded by the music he so loved and the game of Go that brought him such joy.

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Soheil Nasseri

September 12, 2024

Haskell Small was a great musician who I had the priviledge of working with. He wrote several pieces that were dedicated to me and I recorded them for Naxos Records at his request. Such a gentle man, working with Haskell was one of the few occasions where a composer and I both thoroughly enjoyed every step of the process. Which is not to say he was boring pushover - he was funny and fun. I will remember him fondly and with affection and hope to return to his music time and again. Best, Soheil Nasseri

Jane Ribakow

September 11, 2024

May Haskell rest in eternal peace filled with music
surrounding him. Always Jane Rosenblatt Ribakow

Matthew Bengtson

September 11, 2024

Hal was a gentle soul of multiple talents who will be missed by music lovers and go players alike. Sincere condolences to the whole family.

Bonnie Gould

September 10, 2024

Betsy, I am so sorry to learn of your husband's passing. What an accomplished talent whose musical discipline no doubt aided his ability to recover from his stroke to play again. May the good memories you shared soon replace the pain of your loss. I always think fondly of our time performing with the Abbey Chamber Singers.

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