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Ludwig Kuttner Obituary

Ludwig G. Kuttner, 89, and Barbara L. Kuttner, 87, passed away after 67 years of marriage within 48 hours of each other at their home in Alexandria, VA.
Both succumbed to age-related illnesses. Mr. Kuttner died in his sleep on June 12, 2024. Mrs. Kuttner died in the evening of June 13, 2024.
Mr. and Mrs. Kuttner are survived by their six children - Ann of Philadelphia, Stephan (Anya Wayne) of Berkeley, CA, Nicholas (Mysia) of Alexandria, Elizabeth (Bobby Nitahara) of Phoenix, Jessica Lefkow (Chris)of Washington, DC, and Anthony (Michele) of Alameda, CA - plus 11 grandchildren and eight great-grandchildren.
Mr. Kuttner, the oldest of Stephan and Eva Kuttner's nine children, was born Dec. 8, 1934 in Rome, Italy as a German refugee. In 1940, the family escaped the war in Europe and came to Washington, DC., where Mr. Kuttner, "Lou" to his friends, grew up.
Mrs. Kuttner, the daughter of Bergan and Dorothy Mackinnon, was born July 6, 1936 in Tuckahoe, NY and grew up Mt. Vernon, NY. She was educated at the Ursuline School in New Rochelle, then was a Fine Arts student for two years at the College of New Rochelle.
The couple wed in 1957, and for the next nine years, the military and civilian jobs had the Kuttner family moving to Oklahoma, North Carolina, New York, Washington, DC, Michigan, then finally back to Washington where the Kuttners remained for the next 25 years.
They retired to Hereford, AZ for the next 24 years before returning to the DC area in 2019.
His entire life, Mr. Kuttner was staunchly loyal and devoted to the groups and institutions that shaped him. He was a proud graduate of Gonzaga High School ('52) and Holy Cross College ('56), and spoke often and admiringly of the Jesuits who educated him.
A Navy ROTC scholar at Holy Cross, upon graduation Mr. Kuttner elected to serve as an artillery officer in the United States Marine Corps. Although he served just four years on active duty, and another two in the USMC Reserves, Mr. Kuttner's devotion to the Corps and to his fellow Marines was unwavering for the remainder of his life.
When their children were young, household management commanded much of Mrs. Kuttner's attention. In 1977, with childcare no longer demanding too many hours, Mrs. Kuttner combined two of her great passions – art and the world of books – and trained at the Library of Congress as a bookbinder. She then ran her own business creating custom bindings and restoring antique volumes until finally closing shop in the 2010s.
Everywhere they lived, Mr. and Mrs. Kuttner placed a priority on community involvement and civic engagement. Both were very active on of the board at Blessed Sacrament Parish in Washington, then at Our Lady of the Mountains in Sierra Vista, AZ, and finally were very pleased to be welcomed into the community at St. Joseph Catholic Church in Alexandria.
The Kuttner children all attended Blessed Sacrament Elementary School, Alice Deal Jr. High School and Woodrow Wilson (now Jackson-Reed) High School, and Mrs. Kuttner at various times served as PTA president for each of those schools.
The Kuttners were also deeply involved in establishing a thriving Christian Family Movement (CFM) with fellow Blessed Sacrament parishioners, and in CCD education for the community. The friendships the Kuttners built through CFM remained central to their lives for more than half a century.
In Arizona, Mrs. Kuttner spent more than a decade as a volunteer mediator for the Cochise County Family Conciliation Court. At the same time, Mr. Kuttner served on many boards, including Goodwill Industries of Southern Arizona, and was proud to volunteer with the Cochise County Sherrif's Assist Team. He was also honored to be inducted into the Arizona Veterans Hall of Fame in 2019. Together, the couple worked with others in the Sierra Vista community on the restoration and management of Carr House in the Coronado National Forest.
Mr. Kuttner began his professional life in Information Technology sales, first with IBM and then with Honeywell and later GE, focusing on distribution and manufacturing industries in New York and Detroit, and civil agencies in Washington, DC, where he settled in 1966.
The bulk of Mr. Kuttner's career was spent as an executive with the federal government, first with the Department of Health, Education and Welfare. In 1975, Mr. Kuttner joined the Internal Revenue Service. Other than a 6-year return to the private sector in the early 1980s ("We had six kids in college," he used to say), Mr. Kuttner spent the remainder of his career with the IRS, primarily in systems procurement and resource management.
Mr. Kuttner's final IRS posting was in San Francisco, until his retirement in 1995. From there, he and his wife moved to their property in Cochise County, Arizona.
Mrs. Kuttner's friends and family have said they knew no reader more avid. She loved the wide-open skies of the desert southwest, and took much joy from the mountain views and natural life surrounding the dream house the couple designed for their retirement.
Mr. Kuttner loved tennis, and was a constant reader in a wide range of topics and genres. Especially in his retirement, he maintained an active correspondence focused on politics and culture with hundreds of friends from almost every stage of his life.
Joint services for Mr. and Mrs. Kuttner will be at 11 a.m. Friday, June 21 at St. Joseph Catholic Church, 711 N. Columbus St., Alexandria, VA. Visitors are welcome to join the family at the church at 10 a.m., and there will be reception at the church immediately following the mass. The funeral mass will be livestreamed on the church website, www.stjosephva.org.
In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations to the Archdiocese Of Washington's Annual Catholic Services Appeal (www.adw.org/ways-to-give-annual-appeal) or to DC Central Kitchen (www.dccentralkitchen.org/donate).

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Published by The Washington Post on Jun. 18, 2024.

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Hugh kelly

June 22, 2024

My late wife Donna & I shared a friendship with Barbara & Lou that began in 1949 when Barbara and I attended Miss Ferguson´s Dancing School in New Rochelle, NY. She and Donna shared a major in Speech and English at the College of New Rochelle while Lou & I paid our dues as classmates at Holy Cross. We stayed in touch as we raised our respective large families & followed our career paths criss crossing the country.Once retirement beckoned , and our nests were finally empty, we saw each other regularly in Hereford and in Massachusetts. Faith , family and friendship were the pillars of Barb & Lou´s approach to life and Donna & I were honored to have them as true friends and soulmates. May this beautiful couple continue their exemplary togetherness in the hands of Almighty God. R I P

Wendy Niehaus

June 22, 2024

Suzanne, Paul and Family,
Sending our sincere condolences, and love.
What an amazing couple. Amazing to the end of their journey in this lifetime.
Love, Rich & Wendy Niehaus, and Alex and Lindsay Stuart.

Sarah Hennessey

June 21, 2024

Sending love to all the Kuttner´s. The Kuttner´s lived at the bottom of the hill from my family. Our parents were dear friends, members of the CFM and parishioners at Blessed Sacrament. Many years of family and community gatherings.
Every year many families would gather for a 4th of July firework display in tiny park outside the Kuttner´s house while an assortment of fathers lit off fireworks. The sparklers burned down to your fingers back then! A wonderful evening enjoyed by everyone.
Our parents shared a vision for what the Catholic Church could be- inclusive, service to those in need and guided by love not fear or intolerance.
To this day whenever I see a Mulberry Tree, it makes me think of all the Kuttner´s.
Sarah Hennessey

Kristin Valenzuela

June 20, 2024

I was a foster parent for many years and worked with Mrs. Kuttner, on occasion. She had the difficult job of sorting out stories and deciding what was in the best interest of the children. I found her to be intelligent, compassionate, and fair. The Kuttners continued to serve our community in retirement and we are most thankful. May they rest in peace, and may God bless their family!

John McGlothlin

June 19, 2024

I had the pleasure of serving as Lou's Exec and later Assistant Director through challenging organizational changes. Lou was always supportive and understanding while expecting the best from you. We had many good times together and after Lou retired one of my highlights was getting together on his trips to the West Coast. Barbara was a jewel and Lou was absolutely besotted with her. He loved talking about his children and their accomplishments. He cared deeply about the effects of organization changes on his employees and worked to make change work. I'm so glad I had the chance to work with Lou and get to know Barbara. Joanne and I will miss them!

Jessie Tromberg

June 19, 2024

Farewell Barbara and Lou. My condolences to all the family

Patricia L McCann

June 18, 2024

So sorry for your loss. It was lovely they got to enter eternity together.

Kathleen McManus

June 18, 2024

I did not know Mr. and Mrs. Kuttner. However, just reading their joint obituary makes me sad that I never knew them! What an exciting and fulfilling life they had. It's people like the Kuttners who make this world a better place. I offer sincere condolences to the family and friends of this inspiring couple.

Stephen McKenna

June 18, 2024

I first met Lou when I was 12 years old. He was my brother John's roommate at ?Holy Cross, and since it was too long a trip for the 4 day Thanksgiving Holiday for the trek to D.C. he came and stayed, with John, at my parents home on Long Island. I, like my parents , brothers and sister, admired and respected him for his love of God, his Faith, his Family. We always stayed in touch, and I am honored to have been his friend and "brother" for more than 72 years.

Joseph O. Burden

June 18, 2024

Lou and me became brothers when I was transferred to "Hotel Battery" and deployed to the war in Lebanon in 1958. He was the Executive Officer of that Company and my big brother up to now. I love you my brother and will miss our togetherness with your Barbara and my Barbara.

Semper-Fi,
Joe Burden

Joseph O Burden

June 18, 2024

Lou and me became brothers when I was transfered to Hotel Battery and deployed to the war in Lebanon in 1958. He was the Executive Officer of that Company and my big brother up to now. I love you my bother and will miss our togetherness with your Barbara and my Barbara.

Semper-Fi,
Joe Burden

Fred Thompson

June 18, 2024

I had the pleasure of knowing Lou in his role as an IRS executive. I applied for a job - which I did not get - working for him. Along with some others, Lou helped me get a less senior job at IRS and a couple of years later I got the promotion I had applied for. While some in the "old guard" were actively hostile to the "modernization" group that I worked with, Lou was a notable exception. He took almost a fatherly interest in my career and gave me support and career advice to help us achieve common work goals. It was a pleasure to work with him.

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