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Marilyn Melkonian Obituary

Marilyn Melkonian, visionary and founder of Telesis Corporation, died on Wednesday, February 14, 2024. Marilyn died in Washington, DC, her home of almost 50 years, after a stoic battle with a brief illness. She was surrounded by her family.

Marilyn was born in Brooklyn, New York in 1944, daughter of William Charles Melkonian and Constance O'Brien Melkonian. Marilyn graduated from Brooklyn College in 1964 with a degree in political science.

After graduating from Stanford University Law School in 1968, Marilyn was first involved in housing policy and legislation from 1967 to 1970 on the staff of Senator Edward W. Brooke (D-MA). Marilyn was a partner in the New York and Washington law firm of Tufo, Johnston & Zuccotti specializing in land use and development of housing through 1976.

Marilyn served as Deputy Assistant Secretary of the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development from 1977 to 1980 under President Jimmy Carter, first for insured and direct loans and later for all multi-family housing. In 1980, with a big leap out of Washington, Marilyn served as general counsel and business advisor to George Lucas and Lucasfilm, Ltd., where legend has it, she played a significant part in the (re)naming of the film "Return of the Jedi".

Returning to Washington to again pursue her passion for affordable housing and the regeneration of neighborhoods, Marilyn established Telesis Corporation in 1985. With its focus on livable, beautiful and safe neighborhoods, Telesis, with Marilyn in the lead, worked tirelessly on the preservation and construction of communities in the District of Columbia, Maryland, Connecticut, Tennessee, Kentucky, North Carolina, Florida, Pennsylvania, Illinois, and California.

Believing that physical and community development are inseparable in all of the Telesis neighborhoods, Marilyn addressed the diverse elements of an investment-worthy community and comprehensive revitalization— from affordable homeownership opportunities to mixed-income rental opportunities; from world-class architecture to world-class landscape design; from learning centers to employment centers; from community policing to community daycare. Through Telesis, Marilyn built equitable, sustainable communities that sparked the reemergence of neighborhoods and cities. She additionally founded the National Housing Trust, where she served as its chairperson emerita, and was on the boards of Common Cause, the Eisenhower Foundation, and the Brookings Institution's Center on Urban and Metropolitan Policy.

Outside of her innumerable career accomplishments, Marilyn was deeply devoted to her family. From bowling in the White House to taking in the nautical sights of Martha's Vineyard, Marilyn facilitated unforgettable experiences and memories with her nieces and nephews. Marilyn's family lovingly dubbed her "Great," encompassing both her status as an aunt and remarkable spirit.

When Marilyn walked in a room, everyone's ears perked up in anticipation of the stimulating conversation to come. She would swagger in, cool and casual, with the collar popped on her Oxford, a calm smile across her face, and a pocket-sized copy of the U.S. Constitution in hand.

You never knew what the topic of conversation would be, but you always knew you would leave it knowing more than when it began. When Marilyn spoke, people listened with the utmost intensity. Not because every conversation was about a particularly profound subject but because her words were sermonic.

Marilyn wielded the profound ability to ignite hope in others. She could speak about joy and peril in the same breath and still leave her audience somehow hopeful.

Her home full of books is a testament to her connection to life and love of knowledge. Marilyn's unparalleled brilliance was in no small part due to her unwavering desire to be a lifelong learner. Not only was Marilyn driven to learn herself, but she found joy in teaching others as well. Her great niece and nephews recall accumulating a small library of books gifted by Marilyn alone.

Marilyn showed generosity and empathy to all who crossed her path. She believed that happiness is a right — not a privilege — and exemplified that ideas can take you far if you work hard. Her stewardship of democratic principles was felt locally and nationally. Marilyn made a meaningful difference in the lives of many she knew personally and many she did not. Her lifetime of contributions were impactful and will be sorely missed and long remembered.

Marilyn chose to leave this world on Valentine's Day. She had a tradition of purposely scheduling meetings and events on significant dates, such as JFK's birthday and MLK Day. Her family believes she chose this day because of the amount of love she had for her family, friends, and those who needed the most help.

Marilyn is survived by her sister, Deborah Melkonian; her nephews Geoffrey Melkonian (Kathryn) and O'Brien McCarty (Elizabeth); her niece Wendy Melkonian; her great niece Evelyn (Vivi) Melkonian; and her three great nephews Frank Melkonian and Stephen and William McCarty.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Marilyn's name to Common Cause online at www.commoncause.org or by mail to 805 15th St. NW, Ste. 800, Washington, DC 20005. A private memorial and burial will take place in Georgetown. A celebration of life will be held at a later date.

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Published by The Washington Post on Mar. 1, 2024.

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David Sobelsohn

July 4, 2024

As a local elected official in Washington, DC, I found Marilyn the most community-minded businessperson with whom I ever worked on a development project. Her leadership gave my neighborhood a museum & housing development of which everyone is proud, & whose merits I never tire of promoting. It's days like the 4th of July that bring to mind Marilyn & her fabulous fireworks parties at Telesis. Her passing marks a terrible loss, way too soon.

Linda Phillips

June 25, 2024

I am so grateful for meeting you, working with you and our most personal, unforgettable moments of love and mutuarespect. I will always cherish our relationship.
Wendy and Brian keep in touch.

Thank you

Linda

Roberta Youmans

March 30, 2024

Working with Marilyn on the creation of the Low Income Housing Tax Credit was one of the highlights of my career. She could cut through the chase to solve many a political and personnel problem. And her smile could light up a room. Many lives have been improved by her dedication and passion. She will be missed.

Katt Tait

March 25, 2024

Marilyn had a way of making me feel like I was the most special person in the world and that I could do anything. She was a wonderful friend & mentor. Her spark will be missed.

david o maxwell

March 21, 2024

A sad loss for all who loved Marilyn as I did. To be with her was to be reassured about the potential kindness and generosity of human race. At the same time, she was insightful and fiercely intelligent. Her contributions to community life and housing are well reported in her obituary. I would add her indispensable participation in the Rouse/Maxwell Task Force in the late
1980's that resulted in vital legislation for affordable housing.

Jack Kerry

March 13, 2024

Marilyn always described herself as a "Builder". That she was, of neighborhoods, companies and lifelong friendships. I, along with her thousands of her friends will miss her, even as we try to carry on her legacy of building beautiful neighborhoods.

Jack

ML

March 8, 2024

Marilyn was one one my favorite ladies when she came for lunch at La Chaumière. Will miss her...
Martin Lumet
Former owner of La Chaumiere

David Kaminsky

March 4, 2024

I was a team member during my early years at HUD on several projects that Marilyn led during her HUD tenure. Working on Marilyn's projects was a highlight of my 40+ years at HUD. Her commitment to creating livable, sustainable communities was unsurpassed. Marilyn was also one of the nicest senior officials I worked with at HUD. I'll never forget that when she learned of my special attachment to Boston she gave me a book, "Blue Hill Avenue" written by a friend of hers and about a Boston neighborhood. The world has lost a very good woman.

Tom O'Malley

March 4, 2024

Marilyn was a great housing professional -- hugely successful producing housing of all kinds, and for all kinds. I will miss the occasional long lunch/dinner to review books, politics and the latest projects. My sympathy and condolences.
Tom , Boston

Dick Fleming

March 3, 2024

MARILYN MELKONIAN: OUR NATION LOSES ANOTHER BRAVE LEADER IN REVITALIZING CITIES

Marilyn made the world a better place.

I had forgotten her role in the movie industry with George Lucas on "Return of the Jedi," following our work together at HUD in the Carter Administration and prior to her forming Telesis Corporation 35 years ago.

She was a wonderful woman, a great friend, and terrific civic colleague.

Losing both Marilyn and Steve Coyle in the space of 2 months is very sad.

STEVE COYLE: NATION LOSES "A CITY BUILDING LEADER"
https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/steve-coyle-nation-loses-city-building-leader-dick-fleming-ghaoc/

The 3 of us worked together for 4 years at HUD - with Steve as the Chief of Staff to Secretary Patricia Roberts Harris, and Marilyn and me serving as Deputy Assistant Secretary for Housing and Deputy Assistant Secretary for Community Planning & Development, respectively.

Life´s simply too short.

--- Dick Fleming, CEO, Community Development Ventures, Inc., St. Louis, MO

Chris

March 3, 2024

What an amazing woman Marilyn was. A titan in Affordable housing, she created solutions for so many. The care, compassion, and commitment she put towards others was second to none. Her work ethic and impact was incredible to witness. Not a physically large person, but her personality reverberated in any room she was in. Marilyn´s impact for my family was more than can be put into words. I´ve known Marilyn working with my mother ever since I can remember. Together, they help people, listened to their needs, and did took action to create change. I loved Marilyn like a family member and I know there are many in the community feel the same. Prayers and condolences to all who feel this loss today. I know her spirit will live-on through all the people she impacted.

Thank you Marilyn, I love you and will miss you

Tutty Giordano

March 2, 2024

Your aunt has left an endible legacy. Love of her will always be you lighthouse shining a beam thru out your lives. Sent with Love from Mr. And Mrs. G.

Peter Kaplan

March 2, 2024

Marilyn, it was a joy and an honor to work with you. I worked with many fine people in my career, but your idealism and passion inspired me more than any of the others. Your achievements improved the lives of thousands!

Timothy D Naegele

March 1, 2024

Marilyn was a true delight. I met her through Ed Brooke when I became counsel to the Senate Banking Committee, and we wrote what became Section 8 housing, which has helped millions.

I lost track of Marilyn's career and accomplishments until I read her bio here.

Like many others I assume, I will always love her.

Debbie

March 1, 2024

Marilyn Melkonian was a true visionary and she made those visions a reality. Her warmth, compassion and intellect are incomparable and will be missed. What she did mattered. May her memory be for a blessing.

Florence Roisman

March 1, 2024

I've known and admired Marilyn since we met, which had to be in the '60s and probably was through DC's Housing Development Corporation. Yes, she was a visionary and an inspiration, a brilliant "houser," in the great tradition of housers. Didn't she also work for Senator Charles Mathias, or is my recollection failing me? I think my favorite memory of Marilyn was when she led the groundbreaking at what Bert Mason reminds me was called "Paradise at Paradise," where the Fruit of Islam, wildly controversial, provided effective security and the ceremony was the most ecumenical -- or shall I say "diverse"? -- imaginable. Eating a meal with Marilyn was an experience: I'm not sure I ever saw her eat anything other than French Fries. The world is much the better because she lived.

Tarahn Harris

March 1, 2024

You will be missed for your vision and inspiration. Thank you for sharing your light with us. Rest well.

Debbie Hellman

March 1, 2024

Marilyn Melkonian was a truly remarkable woman whose passion for fairness, equity and equality were foundations of her entire life. What she did mattered. May her work continue to help and inspire people for decades to come and may her memory be for a blessing .

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