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Mark Fleshner Obituary

FLESHNER Mark L. Fleshner, Ph.D., J.D. Born on August 10, 1960 in Lake City, Iowa, Mark began his undergraduate education at Iowa State University. He earned degrees in German, Mathematics and Physics and went on to complete his Masters Degree in Physics. Mark attended Wichita State University, where he authored a patent for a Laser Radar System, under the Boeing Company, while concurrently earning a Ph.D. in Electrical Engineering. Mark then continued his education by earning his Juris Doctor in Patent Law from George Washington University. Mark went on to spearhead the law firms of Fleshner & Kim, LLP and The Fleshner Group. Mark embraced the joy of family and friends. He was a loving husband, father, son, brother and friend to many people. Mark was a brilliant mind and an exceptionally kind and generous soul, whose life was cut short after a tragic car accident. His passing leaves a large hole in the lives of many, and the world has lost a true visionary and leader. He is survived by his wife Kara, his baby daughter Gudrun Grace, his parents Leonard and Gudrun Fleshner, his siblings Eric, Chris, Moni and Vanessa. Services will be held at 11:00AM on January 10, 2008, King of Kings Lutheran Church, 4025 Kings Way, Fairfax, Virginia 22033. Donations can be sent to American Funds, For the benefit of Gudrun Grace Fleshner, College America, PO Box 2713, Norfolk, VA 23501-2713.

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Published by The Washington Post from Jan. 7 to Jan. 9, 2008.

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Cousin Pat Beck

January 2, 2023

Thanks for the reminder of Mark's passing.
I cherish many memories of Cousin Mark and his sisters & brother and parents as I was growing up.
Even though several years have passed, Mark is still missed by many.

Patricia Beck

January 6, 2022

Thanks for the opportunity to send a tribute for Mark. I am one of Mark's older Iowa cousins. Therefore most of my memories of Mark are as a child. He was an adorable, curious little boy. I feel blessed to have had the gift to know him.

Lise Miller

February 3, 2008

No words can describe the pain in your hearts. I will always remember Mark, as a handsome, BRILLIANT, and talented older brother of my bestfriend. The brother that always was a peacemaker. The brother that LOVED so deeply. I will always remember Mark Fleshner as someone who really had a mind for things beyond this world. I beleive Mark is up with our precious LORD, making a way in the new KINGDOM. The LORD needed that BRILLIANT mind to do things up there, that we can't even imagine down here. Mark, will be missed,...but the JOY comes in knowing that GOD let us have him for the time that we did. Gudrun, Leonard, Eric, Chris, Moni and Vanessa Kara and baby Gudrun,,,remember that GOD is ultimately in control...and that we are just visiting this earth, our real home is with Jesus. Mark, is home now, and his memeories will see you through until the day, we can rejoice together with the angels. Prayers are going up...blessings and love,,..sincerely, Lisa Rickwa-Miller Sioux City, Ia.

Georgette Young

January 29, 2008

There is not a day that goes by that I don't miss our dear friend Mark. The goodness he brought to my heart and soul is lacking and I'll forever miss his genuine smile and kindness! Rock on my dear friend! Love xoxo Georgette

Mary Fleshner

January 26, 2008

At a time like this, no words I write will erase the pain you feel. I sometimes wonder why God takes our loved ones but he knows best. Mark was my nephew and a wonderful boy. We will all miss him.

Aunt Mary Fleshner

Nikki Harris

January 24, 2008

From all of us at Freestate Copier Services, we would like to send our deepest sympothy to Mark's family and friends. We worked with Mark for 15 years and are saddened by his tragic loss. If there is anything we can do please don't hesitate to ask.

Uncle Harvey & Jean Fleshner

January 21, 2008

Dear Kara & Family:
We were saddened to hear of Mark's death. It must have been a terrible thing for you to endure. You are defintely in our thoughts at this sad time. It is so hard to believe; of course, we know it to be true. Must have been tough for you and your daughter. Try the best you can.
God bless you and your daughter

Harvey & Jean Fleshner

January 21, 2008

Dear Len, Gudrun & Family:
We are really shocked to hear of the untimely death of Mark. We never know when it is our turn. Mark was always a go-getter & hard to imagine his passing. We must accept it as God's way. This is hard for the immediate family to accept. It breaks you up. Try as best you can, and accept our sympathy as best you can.
Our love to all of you.

Laarni (Martin) Jamison

January 17, 2008

Dear Moni and family,

My deepest sympathy to you at this sad time.  Prayers for peace and understanding...God bless you,

Susie Clinton

January 17, 2008

To Moni, my classmate and childhood friend and Chris, my friend, and all of the rest of the Fleshner family: I just heard and read online of Mark's death, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope your happy memories give his spirit and love a peaceful place in your heart and mind. You are in my prayers.
Susie (Renfro) Clinton, Florida

Pete Johnson

January 16, 2008

Sienna and I will miss you forever. You made us feel part of the fun. Everything was easy and possible. Very very sad...

Leslie Garman

January 15, 2008

To Mark's family:

We were so very sorry to hear of your sudden loss.

Mark was both a unique and gifted man. He touched so many people in different ways. I know that I will never pick up my guitar without thinking of him, and his open and giving spirit.

God's grace and healing to you all,

Leslie, Brian,Vanessa and Adam Garman

Gayle (Fleshner) Dean

January 13, 2008

I am so fortunate to have known Mark his entire life. His passing is a great loss to his family and all who had the priviledge of having Mark in their lives. Years ago Uncle Leonard introduce us to his new bride -Gudrun. This was a truly beautiful beginning of an incredibly loving, supportive, spiritual and fun-loving family. A family all aspire to have. Please accept my sincere sympathy and prayers for all who greive the loss of Mark. God now has an angel to help us thru our current pain and our lives forever.

Jennifer Cross

January 13, 2008

I am deeply saddened to hear of Mark's death. He truly was a brilliant, beautiful man with an amazingly warm heart and generous smile. My strength goes out to his family, friends and wife, Kara. I am so sorry for your loss.

Phil Wendzillo

January 13, 2008

My condolences to your family. My heart and prayers go out to the family in this difficult time.

Jerry Fleshner

January 12, 2008

To Mark's Family & Friends,
Mark is my first cousin. He is also my friend. Growing up I spent many hours playing with him and his brothers & sisters. He and his family are a big part of the happiest of my childhood memories. I know how badly he will be missed. I have not met Kara and little Gudrun. If I could I would give you both a hug and tell you how much Mark meant to me. To my Uncle Len, Aunt Gudrun, Eric, Chris, Moni, Vanessa and the rest of Mark's family, I wish to express my deepest regrets for your loss. Love to all, Jerry Fleshner

Claudia Bannwitz

January 12, 2008

Liebe Gudrun, lieber Len,
"Den eigenen Tod stirbt, mit dem Tod eines geliebten Menschen muß man leben" Wir sind geschockt und wünschen Euch, Kara und allen Kraft, diese Zeit zu überstehen. Claudia, Lotte und Fritz

Jim and Sara Balinskas

January 11, 2008

My husband Jim heard about Mark's accident just last evening. They hadn't spoken in awhile - Jim had never stopped thinking or of speaking of Mark. Such is the impact special people have. Jim was hurt to realize he'd missed Mark's service. He didn't sleep much last evening - that I do know, and today he drove down Gum Springs Rd and sat for awhile to think about Mark.
We are proud to have had the privilege of knowing Mark. You have our very deepest sympathies.

Lyle and Pat Fleshner

January 11, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with Mark's family. Such tragedy is hard to understand but I hope it helps to know that he was such a good man and made a difference in others lives while he was with you.

From Lyle(first cousin) and Pat Fleshner of Denison Iowa

Patricia (Fleshner) Beck

January 11, 2008

To the Fleshnr Family: There just are not the right words to describe the sadness I feel in the loss of Mark. But please be comforted in knowing my thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I realize Mark was a loving husband, father and son; however I remember him best as a special cousin for whom I had respect and admiration. My love to all of you.

Jay Evans

January 10, 2008

I knew Mark in High School and College in Sioux City, IA. Mark was a friend, and an amazing jazz guitar player! When Mark transferred to Iowa State I lost contact, but never forgot him. I had always hoped to be in touch again someday. I'm sorry I won't get the chance. My sincere condolensces to his family and family of friends. May Mark rest in peace.

Tom Poznanski

January 10, 2008

We are deeply saddened by the loss of such a great man. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you as we reflect on past memories of Mark.

douglas asher

January 10, 2008

Fleshners
Please know that we are sadden to hear of your loss and will ask GOD to look after you and support you in this time of mourning.
Mark did not leave us, he went home to GOD.
Doug&June Asher (don asher's son)

Matt Devost

January 10, 2008

We are so saddened at the loss of our friend Mark and extend our deepest sympathies to all who loved him.

The Devost Family

Cindy (Fleshner) and Alan Hesse

January 9, 2008

To all the Fleshners: We are so sad about the loss of Mark, and pray that the pain of this loss will lessen for you in time. With sympathy, love, and prayers from Mark's cousin in Sioux City, IA.

Russ Batson

January 9, 2008

I am very saddened by Mark's passing. Such a bright man with so many talents and interests. I wish you and your family strength in the months and years ahead.

Rosemary and Bob Maione

January 8, 2008

We feel so fortunate to of had you in our lives.

John & Arpi Dilanian

January 8, 2008

Kara, we are deeply saddened to hear of Mark's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughter during this difficult time.

Elizabeth

January 8, 2008

Kara, Gigi and Family,

My heart aches for you. Words are not enough to convey my sorrow and sympathy.

With prayers and love,
Elizabeth

Dave & June Hilton

January 8, 2008

We are thinking of Leonard, Gudrun, Kara and the entire family at this difficult time.

Steve Lemson

January 8, 2008

I was so saddened to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your grief.

Kathleen Ford

January 8, 2008

We will miss you in all of your brightness -- your wife, your daughter, your family, your friends, even the world, has suffered a great loss.

Vanessa Johnston

January 7, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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