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MARSHA E. SWISS (Age 82)

Marsha E. Swiss, died October 5, 2022, peacefully and without regret, following the Jewish Kol Nidre service. She died at her second home in Corrales, NM, as she had wished, at the side of her husband of 49 years, Ronald M. Costell, M.D. Until weeks before her death from colorectal cancer, Marsha continued actively to practice fiduciary law in DC. She gave good counsel and support to colleagues and clients. Her grace, generosity, good humor and intellect were appreciated by all who knew her. Marsha grew up as an only child in Pittsburgh, PA. Her father, Irwin Swiss was a U.S. attorney as well as a Shakespearian and Hebraic scholar. Her mother, Anne X. Alpern, was one of eleven immigrant children, who became City Solicitor of Pittsburgh and was appointed by Governor David Lawrence as the first woman state Attorney General in the U.S., as well as to the Pennsylvania Supreme Court. Marsha was an honors program graduate of Swarthmore College. She was one of a small group of women admitted to the class of 1965 at the Harvard Law School. At Harvard she was renowned for an audacious classroom retort to a taunt by Professor Clark Byse, model for the character Charles Kingsfield in "The Paper Chase." Marsha was active with the DC Bar in promoting alternative forms of dispute resolution, although she reveled in litigation in support of clients and patients who had been abused by the skullduggery of professionals. She had a keen aesthetic sense and delighted in both classical and contemporary art and the welcoming of guests to a beautiful dinner table set with flowers from her garden. In the Southwest she reveled in ambitious hikes in the National Parks and in the environs of Albuquerque. A memorial service will be held in the new year.

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Published by The Washington Post on Nov. 6, 2022.

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David R Henderson

June 23, 2024

I hired Marsha as my lawyer in 1973 when I was a summer intern at the White House and found out that I had been working illegally. I didn't even know what a green card was. She got me out of my scrape and I still remember the Latin phrase she used with the INS officer: "nunc pro tunc." It means "now for then." I had dug up my application letter for the job to show that in the letter I had said that I was Canadian and asked if it was alright to work there. So Marsha argued that we should substitute now for then. And it worked. She charged me the grand total of $50. She asked if I was sure I could pay because she could give me a discount. I told her I could handle $50. What a nice person she was.

leonard kopelman

July 28, 2023

I was her classmate and friend at HLS and she really could give it back to Prof. Byse. She became our hero when Byse said something and Marsha said "that's not nice Mr. Byse". Even he started to laugh and the 2 of them made the class enjoyable. It was clear Prof. Byse started to favor Marsha as his best student. I remember her well and am sorry for your loss.
Len Kopelman HLS '65.

Doug and Pat Sporn

March 10, 2023

We knew Marsha for only a brief period of time in New Mexico but feel so blessed that we had that opportunity. She was a lovely, kind person with a wonderful sense of humor.

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Caryn Bennett

March 1, 2023

Marsha was my father's cousin and best friend when they were young. Unfortunately, they lost touch through the years and I never had the pleasure of meeting her in person - though we did exchange emails and old family photos which I treasure. So many lives were touched by this lovely soul with a brilliant mind. Peace to all who knew and loved her

Yakir Lubowsky

March 1, 2023

An absolutely singular person, it was my very good fortune to sit next to Marsha at a Freer Gallery talk which both of us found somewhat disappointing and that led to a long and profoundly interesting conversation afterward.

That in turn led to many more such conversations over the years, and the joy of meeting and getting to know Ron (with yet more ensuing such conversations and our active sharing of similar tastes in art and music).

Z'L.

May her memory be a blessing, to all as it is to me.

I look forward to meeting other friends and admirers on the 26th.

God bless us every one.

Yakir

Joan Brault

January 25, 2023

I worked with Miss Swiss on a matter relating to an adult in need of Protective Services. I enjoyed my time working with her on the case. She was diligent hardworking and easy to get along with. I regret not having learned of her passing sooner. My condolences and continued best wishes to her friends and family.

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Joyce Chabot

November 18, 2022

Marsha always came into our aerobic dance class with a smile. She and Ron enjoyed the workout and were a wonderful addition to the class. I treasure my memories of this cheerful, thoughtful, accomplished woman with the beautiful smile.

Doris

November 8, 2022

Aloha Ron! I am so glad to read this. What a lovely and accomplished person she was. A good friend to us in aerobic dance class all these years. Thank you for the friendship of both of you. See you in class.

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