MATTHEW JAY COULSON (Age 31)
Of Poolesville, MD died suddenly on Monday, September 25, 2006.He was the husband of Monika Kadi Coulson. Also surviving is his son, Besmir Coulson; his parents, Larry and E. Moana Coulson; two sisters, Larana Sales and Rebecca Pinheiro; one brother, Dan Coulson and his paternal grandmother, Virginia Coulson. Funeral services will be held at 10 a.m., Saturday, September 30 at the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, 18900 Kingsview Road, Germantown, MD with the family receiving friends one hour prior to the funeral service. Interment will be at a later date in Colorado. Arrangements by HILTON FUNERAL HOME, Barnesville, MD.
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Dong
October 23, 2017
Peace ...
Dwayne
February 9, 2014
Randomly thought about you.
April 11, 2013
Happy Birthday, Matt!
Miss you so much!!!
Larry & Moana Coulson
April 11, 2011
Dear Sweet Matthew:
Today you would be 36 years old.
We miss you and we think of you every day.
We know that you are in the loving arms of Our Heavenly Father. We know that you are busy on the other side preaching the gospel and enjoying the time with our ancestors.
Just remember, we love you and we miss you.
Happy Birthday.
Love
Mom and Dad
Moana Coulson
September 14, 2008
Matt:
We miss you alot and our love is always with you.
Monika has entered into a new phase of her life with Steve.
The wedding was beautiful and we know that you were there too.
Steve is really nice and will be very supportive of Monika and Besmir.
We are happy for them and we know that this is what you would want too.
Keep doing the Good work on the other side.
We love you
Mom
moana coulson
February 28, 2008
Matt:
We are missing you lately. Our love is always with you. We know that you are busy on the other side doing what you love best...missionary work.
Know that you are always with us and we think of you often (every day) and we love you.
Mom
Moana Coulson
April 12, 2007
Dear Matt:
You are now 32 years old. We miss you alot.
Dad and I spent your birthday in the Nauvoo Temple.
We felt your presence there and we had such a calm feeling to know that you are indeed busy on the other side.
Yes, tears were shed and fond memories were re-lived.
We miss you!
We Love you!
Mom and Dad
Monika Coulson
April 11, 2007
Matt would have been 32 years old today (April 11.) Besmir and I feel both, his loss and his presence every day and in every single daily activity, but we are ever grateful that Matt was and still is part of our life. Thank you to all you, friends and family members, who have continued to pray for us and help us throughout this difficult time.
Monika
February of 2006 (at Stevens Park, behind our home in Poolesville)
February 2, 2007
Disney World, July 2005
February 2, 2007
Matt diving in Cayman Island_April 06
January 19, 2007
Dean Benson
January 18, 2007
Dear Monika and Besmir,
My heart fell when I read your email tonight. We have not been in contact for a while now, so I did not know about your tragic loss until tonight. I did not know Matt, but from what I have read here he must have been a wonderful person. May God's love take care of you until you are together again. I know that words cannot take away the hurt, but just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you both.
Gino LUKA
January 18, 2007
I wish to express my sympathy in your loss and to let you know that my thoughts are with you.
At a time such as this, words cannot express my feelings.
Julie Taylor
November 29, 2006
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
i am sorry for your loss; i did not know of his death until i recieved your christmas letter; i can remember matthew in sunday school class;
Neal & Nancy Campbell
November 8, 2006
We are so saddened to hear of your tragic loss. Our prayers are with you that you may feel the Saviours comfort in your times of deepest sorrow.
We love you, Neal and Nancy
Linda and Dennis Clayson
November 3, 2006
Dear Monika, Besmir, Larry, Moana, and all of Matt's family,
It has been wonderful to sit down and read all of the memories and tributes shared about your husband, father, son, brother, and friend. When I think of Matt, I picture his twinkling eyes and his great big smile. He had a wonderful enthusiasm about him. I saw him last at Becky's wedding in Iowa. He was visiting happily with everyone. His curly hair and sparkling eyes set him apart, and he was having a great time. I also remember his mission farewell some years back. We sang a hymn that Matt had chosen -I had never heard it before, and I loved the words and melody. I later found out that "If you could hie to Kolob", #284 in the LDS hymnal, was his favorite hymn. The last verse says: "There is no end to glory; There is no end to love; There is no end to being; There is no death above." I know these are true words. I will never hear them again without thinking of Matt, and knowing that his lively spirit is rejoicing in being with Heavenly Father and those family members who had gone before and who now embrace him. Much love, Linda and Dennis Clayson
David Oesterle
November 2, 2006
My deepest condolences to the family. I hope that through this time you will be comforted by the pure love of the Lord and know that he is being taken care of.
With Love David Oesterle
Christine Oesterle
November 1, 2006
Dear Monika and Besmir; Larry, Moana, and family,
How saddened we were to hear about the death of Matt. It was so hard to hear the news because it tugs at every parent's heart to hear of the loss of a child. Immediately we turned our thoughts to our own children and thought how fragile life is and called down blessings from the Lord not only for peace and comfort for you and yours, but also upon our own family for safety in this world where sorrow can come in an instant and we often take our well being for granted.
May the peace that comes from the Holy Spirit bless you and give you the comfort at the times that are the most difficult. We know that they will come and that you will be flooded by happy memories that will help to fill that hole in your hearts and in your life. At some point you will ask as Enos, "How is it done?" and the peace will be there that you call for.
We love you and can just picture Matt's choice and sweet smile that we all can remember and so enjoyed. We remember his mischievousness, life, inquisitiveness, sense of humor; characteristics that can frustrate and yet we delight in. Would we want him any other way?
We think of all of you often and pray for your peace and happiness. "Men are that they might have joy!" That is what he would want for all of you.
Love,
Steve, Chris, Tim & Alicia, Jeff & Keshia, Heidi, David, and Katie Oesterle
JOHN & KATHIE OHRT
November 1, 2006
ARE PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AT THIS TIME OF GRIEF ,WE REMEMBER MATT PLAYING WITH JAY AND THE REST OF OUR KIDS AND KNOW THAT HE WILL BE MISSED AGAIN ARE SORROW AND HEARTFELT CONDOLENCES JOHN AND KATHIE
Chris/Tim Storey
November 1, 2006
Dear the Coulson Family:
Tim and I really sadden when we heard the news. When we loose someone in our ward family it touches us. We know he was an awesome person and he was so willing to do things for anyone. He will be miss so much. Let us know if there is anything we can do to help in anyway. We love you guys a lot.
Take care and love,
Tim, Chris, KJ, Kev, Sam, & Liz Storey
E & K Marshall
October 18, 2006
Dear Monika, Besmir, and Matt's family-
Our family prays that you will be able to feel the Lord's comfort and peace at this time of deep sorrow.
Our hearts are with you and we are anxious to help in any way possible.
Bev Schons
October 17, 2006
Dear Larana, Moana, Larry, Dan, and Becky. I was so saddened to hear the tragic news. Larana and I had been corresponding via e-mail intermittantly, and while I was in Texas-another classmate called and told me the terrible news. I am so sorry this has happened to you. While it has been 20 years since I have seen Matt...I still remember him very vividly from the times I went to church with you and your family. He always had such a bright smile and was quite the conversationalist..even at that young age. Those were very nice times that I still hold dear in my heart. Your entire family was always so nice and generous. It saddens me greatly to know you are experiencing such pain and sorrow. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all, and that Matt will live in the special place in your hearts forever. I pray that he comes into your dreams often and you find his spirit surrounding you each and every day. God Bless,
Hannah Kennedy
October 17, 2006
Monika,
We have been praying for comfort for you & your family. Stay Strong. Keep focused what you need to do to reach your goal for eternal life.
My heart & wishes of strength go out to you and your family.
Hannah Sales Kennedy,
Troy's younger sister
Monika Coulson
October 16, 2006
Dear friends and family,
Thank you for all your kind messages and support. It has been three weeks today from the accident, and it still seems surreal. I still wake up in the middle of the night, asking myself: Did I just have a nightmare or is this real? Unfortunately, it is real. Matt's life was interrupted suddenly. He had so many dreams for the future; we had made so many plans together, as a couple and as a family, which were waiting for us ahead.
Besmir and I already miss his presence in our home. We both miss his beautiful spirit and smile. We both miss the jokes Matt made in almost every thing he said. Besmir lost the best daddy one could ever have and imagine. I lost my best friend ever. Matt was the rock of my life. I have learned a lot from Matt during these last nine and a half years of marriage, things that have made me a better person. I met Matt about 12 years before him passing away. For both of us it was love at first sight, even though we were afraid or shy to admit it first. Our love did not know boundaries, we wrote to each other for two years, even though we were in different continents: he was in Australia, I was in America and then I moved back to Europe. We had such a difficult time getting together after the two-year period was over, due to immigration issues on my side. However, nothing was impossible for Matt and he made it so that I finally came to the US, even though, initially, the American Embassy gave me no hope of coming here.
Throughout our marriage, I saw Matt grow to man who was capable of doing anything to help others. There were few things that Matt could not do and this was the main reason why I still have such a difficult time accepting what happened. Even at the hospital, three weeks ago, I thought he would make it. Matt lives in Besmir’s heart and in my heart now. Our love for Matt will never go away because he was the reason for love and he is still the reason for love. There is no distance, space or time that can separate our family. It will be difficult without Matt though; he spoiled both of us.
Matt was the type of person who gave everything he had, even his heart, to others, and that is why his heart stays with us now.
Monika
LeeAnn Trujillo
October 13, 2006
Hi Monika and Besmir,
My sincere condolences for your loss, your cousin always.
Jill Knudson
October 13, 2006
Dearest Monika and Besmir,
We are so sorry for your tremendous loss and for the pain and greif that you have to endure. I wish that there was a way to take the pain away from both of you.
I know that through the miraculous gift of our Saviour's resurrection we will all have the chance to be together again. I know that words don't help you much right now, when you are aching and lonely, but please never lose sight of the hope that the Saviour gave to us. It will be your iron rod.
Matt will always be near you. He continues to love you and I know that he misses you as well and will be anxiously awaiting you and Besmir to join him in our home above.
We love you both so much and are here to help you in anyway possible.
All of our love and hugs Jill, Dan, Lenox and family.
Mergim Korça
October 11, 2006
Dear Monika,
The Lord knows what He is doing. We not. If He decided to take your beloved husband and father of Besmir, God knows why. You should be proud of the husband you had and grow up His son as your beloved husband wanted.
With great respect for Mathew and love for you,
Mimoza and Mergim
Dorothy Crow
October 7, 2006
Please accept my sincere condolences my thoughts and prayers are with you and Besimir and the family
Moana Coulson
October 6, 2006
Monika and Besmir:
You are so very special to us. We are blessed to have you part of our Eternal Family.
We will miss our son, Matt. As I reflect on his life...he lived it to the fullest and he blessed many lives. He is thoughtful and kind and loving. I am going to miss his smile and laugh. I am going to miss his computer help when I need it.
He is with a loving Heavenly Father now who loves him and who loves you and Besmir.
He is very busy on the other side and what a glorious reunion we will all have in due time.
Matthew, you are a very special son.
I love you and miss you.
Mom
sylvia hill
October 6, 2006
Dear Monica and Besmir,
no words can explain the deep loss that we feel when we loose someone close to us. It does not make any sense at all. Questions stay answered. Having the faith that we see our loved ones again, gave me the strength to go on. I hope that you will find out, that Matt is not gone, but next door, you cannot see him right now, but he is always there. Till you see each other again, stay strong and live day by day.
Sylvia
Al & Amy Crow
October 5, 2006
Monika, Besimer
We are lucky to have know Matt. He was such a kind and loving person. He was unique and gifted, and his spirit touched all that knew him. We share your sadness, he will remain with us forever.
Brock and Edi Crow
October 5, 2006
Monika and Besmir
No words can ever take away the pain for your loss. The loss of Matthew as a loving and tremendous Husband, Father, and Brother In Law is unbearable and unfair! His kindness, loving spirit and personality will never be forgotten. We love him dearly and he will forever be a part of our lives.
We miss you and love you Matthew. Even though you are gone you will always be with us.
Laura Hunt
October 3, 2006
I'm so sorry for your loss. May God bless you and guide you during this difficult time.
Wesley Underwood
October 3, 2006
Our sincere condolences to all of Matt's family members. We have many memories of scuba diving with Matt, he was one of my most enthusiastic scuba diving students! We hope to see you at the services in Colorado.
Albana & Paul Lifschin
October 2, 2006
Dear Monica,
Please accept our deepest sympathies on the loss of your husband Matthew. Our heart is with you and Besmir.
Vjollca & Andres Martinson
October 2, 2006
Dear Matt,
You hurt!!! I hope you know you are still my favorite brother-in-law. I am going to miss your jokes, smile, and your pizza. --Vjollca
Matt, you are the best brother-in-law!!! I will miss you. Thank you for all the help you have given us!--Andres
Rest in peace till we meet you again!
Ilda Ruci
October 2, 2006
Monika,my deepest condolences, for the lost of your husband.I am very very sorry for you and Besmir too. Try to be strong as much as you can.
Monte Stewart
October 1, 2006
Dear beloved Sister Kadi (Coulson):
From Sister Amy Jo Loveland (Kikumoto), Sister Stewart and I just learned, with great shock and sorrow, of the death of your husband. Our hearts go out to you, our prayers are for you and your dear son, and our deep desire is that the Lord will bless you with peace, comfort, and His sustaining power at this time of deepest grief. We remember you so well as a choice daughter of God with strong faith in the Savior. We grieve for your grief but are sure that the Lord will be with and bless you. We love you.
Monte & Anne Stewart
(Georgia Atlanta Mission)
Harry Grant
October 1, 2006
Dear Monika,
Such an honor to visit with your family the other night: I witnessed profound grief yet hope and vision in the midst of such sadness. I grieve with you. I did not know your husband well but I have known grief. And I love to RIDE a motorcycle as he did. This has been a passion for many years and many thousands of miles. How sorrowful that something so exciting and beautiful can end so tragically. I am sorry beyond words.
Please call if there is anything I can do.
Love,
Harry Grant
Philip Hamm
September 30, 2006
Deepest Condolences to all the family. I was just beginning to get to know Matt, and suddenly he's gone. You'll be missed at the office, your enthusiastic and sharp-witted take on life was so refreshing.
David and Nevila Taylor
September 30, 2006
Dear Monica and Besmir,
Our deepest condolences for the loss of your wonderful companion and father. We will always remember Matt as a wonderful individual who loved life and was passionate about his family as well as the gospel. May Heavenly Father grant you the peace that only He can grant in this time of sorrow and heartache. May you always know that you are very loved by us and that you will be in our prayers.
Love, Always
Nevila and Dave
Helga Strazimiri
September 30, 2006
Monika,my deepest condolences, for the lost of your lovely husband.Try to be strong,
Brian Vo
September 30, 2006
Matt,
Your early departure means no more free candy and dry fruit?:-(
You will surely be missed, Matt.
Rest In Peace!
Terri Buettell
September 29, 2006
Dear Larry, Moana, Larana, Dan, and Becky; I am so sorry for the terrible loss you are experiencing. It is clear that Matt's return to our Heavenly Father leaves a huge hole in our world, but he leaves a wonderful legacy as well. It is obvious through reading these messages that he was much loved and respected by those who knew him best.
Monika, I met you when you were a young newlywed and was impressed at that time with your quiet strength. I am very sorry that you are being called upon to demonstrate that strength in such a tragic way. Please know that our Father in Heaven envelops you in His love, if you can find a way through the grief to feel it. And your precious son will keep a bit of Matt with you always.
All of you are in our thoughts and prayers. The Buettell/Sinclair family
Nathaniel Mikesell
September 29, 2006
The profound impressions you've left behind makes us all better people, we lucky few who got to know you. Thanks Matt, for your patience, the good times, the laughs. Good men can die, but death cannot kill them... and so you live on... forever in our hearts we lucky few.
Toni McGowan
September 29, 2006
To the Coulson family near and far - your husband, father, son and brother was one of the brightest lights and kindest souls I had the good fortune to work with at the FCC. His keen intellect and unmatched smile will be truly missed. My prayers for Matthew and my sincere wish for the peace that only God can bring you continue.
Min Myo
September 29, 2006
Monika,
My deepest condolences to you and your son. Matt- we've already missed you very much since the day you left and will miss you forever. Our thought and prayer are with your wife and son.
in peace,
Dave and April Honeycutt
September 29, 2006
I remember how Matt always had a smile on his face when I would come over to hometeach. He really had a way of putting me at ease, and always making me feel welcome. He will always be an example to me of how to be both a father and a best-friend to my children. We offer our hearts and prayers to you, his family, always.
Val C. Nwakibu
September 29, 2006
To the Coulson family, please accept my deepest sympathy on the passing of your loved one. Matt was very dear to many of us who worked with him. Matt provided me with such detailed help that I have to always make sure I have enough time before I asked him for help!!. We will all miss you, Matt!! May our Good Lord welcome home your cheerful spirit as we continue to pray for His blessings, support and consolation for your loved ones.
Rest In Peace, Friend!!
AJ Loveland Kikumoto
September 29, 2006
To my angel companion and her son,
My heart cries for you at this very difficult time. Know how much we love you. Know how much the Lord loves you. Know you are not alone. God Speed.
Laury Santiago
September 29, 2006
Matt,
Thanks for being you and always helping others. You will be truly missed. My sincerest condolences go to your family. You all will be in my prayers.
Laury
Dwayne Holmes
September 29, 2006
You stood me up for lunch. Unfortunetly, someone higher than I needed you more. Your going to be missed. Your legacy will live on because, I see your best qualities in your son.
Jeff & Amy Zimmerman
September 29, 2006
You are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so very sorry for your loss.
With love,
Ricardo Camargo
September 29, 2006
Dear Monika and Besmir,
Just as Spring brings new life to God's beautiful nature, so God’s promise of eternal life keeps hope alive. May the reality of the resurrection made possible by Jesus Christ comfort you and give you peace. Love, The Camargos
Arian Turhani
September 29, 2006
Monica,
My deepest condolences to you and all your family.
NGUSHELLIME!
Arian
Margarita Papazisi
September 29, 2006
Monika I cannot find words to say to you in this moment. I heard it yesterday from Mira & Ilda and I couldn't believe it. I cannot imagine how you feel those days. I feel very-very sorry for Besmir too. My deepest condolences.
Brian Nash
September 29, 2006
I am so sorry about Matt being taken so young. Matt I am really going to miss you. You were so unique and bright and your mind was so active and interesting to talk to. You made me laugh almost every day. You had this effect on so many people and I know everyone will be missing you. I will always remember you and your wife and son will be in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless.
doreida aleksi
September 28, 2006
Dear Monika:
I am so sorry to hear about this tragedy of your life. Please accept my condolences. Me and my family will pray for you and keep you and your son in our thoughts.
Be strong and never give up.
God bless you.
Jim, Renee, and family
September 28, 2006
Matt, your are by far the best admin I have ever met.
We shape our lives not by what we carry with us, but by what we leave behind.
Your happy memories and insightful influence are among the gifts you left us, that we will always treasure.
You will be sadly missed,
bash #
Maggie and Jim Smith
September 28, 2006
Our prayers and love are with all the family at this difficult time. May God Bless you.
Enrique Cavalitto
September 28, 2006
There is no reason in death, no logic, no fairness. It takes us away and leaves behind unfinished tasks, some half-read book, an empty hole in the lives of our loved ones...
Dear Monika, dear Besmir, time will bring consolation. Matthew will stay within you for ever.
Deborah Russell
September 28, 2006
To the Family:
May God Bless you and your entire family and peace be with you. Matt will truly be missed, he was a great person to talk to and I will miss his smiling face.
Jerzy Czopik
September 28, 2006
We are shocked and I can´t find the right words now. We wish you strength.
Kevin Smith
September 28, 2006
Monika and Besmir,
I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you, and may God bless you through this time. Ngushellimet e mia me te thella.
Teresa Holladay
September 28, 2006
Dearest Monika and all the other family...
I know you through Jason here in Colorado. This is an unbelievable, unbearable loss. I am so sorry. Please accept my condolences and my love. You and your family will continue in my prayers for a long, long time. God bless you, Teresa.
Bill Cunningham
September 28, 2006
I enjoyed listening to your colorful conversations. You were unique and we will miss you.
Arta Greblleshi
September 28, 2006
Monika and Besmir,I'm very sorry for your lost.
All my thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.
God bless you.
Orjola Alimadhi
September 28, 2006
Monika and Besmir my deepest and most sincere condolences. Matt will always be with you but you should go on and be strong!
Lee Weekley
September 28, 2006
Matt,
We will all truly miss you. It was my pleasure to have been able to work with you. My prayers are with Matt's family as they go through these hard times.
Lawrence Pickett
September 28, 2006
Monika and Besmir, our deepest condolences to you and all your family. You are both in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely Larry Pickett
Evert Deloof-Sys
September 28, 2006
Sincerest condolences, dear Monika. Lots of strength to you and the whole family.
Keep as well as can be.
Mirlinda Angoni
September 28, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Nancy Lynn Bogar
September 28, 2006
Monika, Besmir, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Please be strong. Matthew is with you in spirit always.
With our sincerest condolences,
Wanda Sims
September 28, 2006
Matt - Every time I walk by your empty chair, I'm reminded of how much I miss seeing your smiling face. I also miss eating your dried fruit and candy (smile)! The Information Technology Center at FCC will be forever grateful for your contributions to the IT program. We were fortunate to have you on our team.
To the Coulson Family,
Please know that your husband, father, son, brother, was a good and decent person. Although Matt is not with us he will forever be in our hearts. Thanks for sharing him with us.
Sincerly,
Wanda Sims
Deputy CIO
Federal Communications Commission
Baldwin Arce
September 28, 2006
Larry, E. Moana Coulson, Larana Sales, Rebecca Pinheiro, Dan and Virginia. We have never met, but your Son and Brother was a great person, super co-worker and friend. My sincere condolences in your lost from my heart. You are all in my prayers that God may grant you peace in this most difficult of times. Sincerely Baldwin Arce
Robert Behm
September 28, 2006
May God watch over you and keep you.
To Matt's Family,
May God Bless you and provide you the strength and guidance that is needed to get through the time that passes until you see Matt again. Do not be sad as Matthew enters into God's Kingdom, he will be there waiting to see all of us when we arrive.
Baldwin Arce
September 28, 2006
Monika and Besmir, our deepest condolences to you and all your family. You are both in our thoughts and prayers, may God give you the peace that only He can grant you in this difficult time. Sincerely form our hearts... Baldwin and Nancy Arce
Bryan Ringrose
September 28, 2006
You will truly be missed by everyone you touched.
Wayne Sepe
September 28, 2006
Gonna miss ya matt. Thanks for everything. Watch for me, I will be there sometime in the future..
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