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PATRICIA STOKER Obituary
PATRICIA Stoker
Passed away on December 20, 2019 after a short illness. Trish is survived by her partner, John Good; daughter, Ann Stoker of Portland, ME; son, Gregory Stoker; former husband, Jim Stoker, of Austin; mother, Ann Black; brother, Roger Black; and sister, Katherine Black of Maryland.Trish was born in Bethesda, Maryland on March 29, 1960, where she lived until moving to Austin in 1996 with her husband and children. She attended the University of Maryland and grew up enjoying the beaches and natural areas of the east coast whenever possible.Trish loved nature and spending time with friends hiking, walking, biking, and cooking. She so appreciated the support of the Austin Shambhala Sangha, friends, and especially her caring Partner, John Good, whose unwavering support sustained and nourished her. She enjoyed volunteering for Big Brothers and Big Sisters, the Boys and Girls Club of Austin, and at the Shambhala Center. Donations to these organizations are appreciated. She thanked all those she knew for the profound love and care she felt during her life. A private service will be held in Austin, Texas in January.
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Lisa Bixenman
January 28, 2020
Although I only knew Trish for a short time, she was kind, sincere, and had a sparkling personality. Her passing leaves a void in many lives.
Alejandro and Diana (your neighbors)
January 9, 2020
Stoker Children, Black Family and John;
It is with a heavy heart and unexpected news to hear the loss of our dear neighbor's passing. On our very first move day, her sincere welcome approach to meet and greet to us in the neighborhood, brought an immediate bond as caring, loving neighbors should. It was a delight to find someone as Trisha to uplift with encouragement of loving neighbors. We looked out for one another, asked if we needed anything and just a hug when we saw each other. The writer of Hebrews says, : "Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds... Encouraging one another" (Hebrews 10:24-25)
When we found her travels to care and visit her mom, tiresome and trying to catch up home life here on Rutledge, my spouse immediately stepped up to the plate and became her " the garbage out" fairy, as she called him. He told her not to worry, stay focus in the care of her mother and all would be okay here at the home front, if you will. We pulled together to care for her loving plants and landscaping she took pride. In return figs and peaches were at our door step from time to time. Many times, coming from a bike ride, arriving at her front porch, she'd text me, "I can smell Mexican food with Cominos (cummin herbs) in the works". I'd quickly would bring her a hot plate of my "arroz con pollo" to break bread.
When John came into her life, her heart was whole again and we found her presence at her happiest moments. Thank you John for allowing God to use you in ways he brought you both nurturing endless love.
To the entire family;
May God bring you comfort and peace.
Blessings
Neighbors on Rutledge Lane
"Ve con Dios, y descansa con Paz" (Go with God and Rest in Peace)
David Topper
December 31, 2019
So many wonderful memories from Bethesda and from Bethany. Trish brought life to every occasion. My sincere condolences to Anne, Kathy and Roger
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