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Paul Abbott Obituary

Paul Abbott, 80, of Arlington, Virginia passed away Sunday, December 2, 2024. He is survived by his wife of many years, Elaine Barker; his sisters, Ethelyn Owen and Nancy Clarke; one niece and three nephews; an aunt; and many cousins and friends. Paul was born in Washington, DC and grew up in Arlington, VA where he graduated from Wakefield High School. He attended the University of Virginia and George Washington University.
Paul was a Vietnam veteran and was an interpreter/translator in Vietnam. Paul worked for the Federal Highway Administration for 15 years. In the past 35 years Paul focused on renovating single family homes in DC, Northern Virginia, and Baltimore. Paul had many friends, including many in the local music community. He and Elaine enjoyed spending time listening to many local bands and spending weekends in Cape Charles, Virginia. He also had a special adopted family, the Khaydarova/Kasymov family, that includes three sons who adored Paul and considered him their grandfather.
Paul's family and friends will gather to remember him and celebrate his life on March 15 from 12 to 4 p.m. at JVs Restaurant, 6666 Arlington Blvd, Falls Church.

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Published by The Washington Post on Feb. 23, 2025.

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Martha F. Barkley

June 28, 2025

Paul was always sharp during our high school and college years, family friend from NCCC. May I write Elaine? Address?

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Mary M Wilkinson

February 27, 2025

Dearest Elaine...treasure those memories...sending so much love to you.Mary Wilkinson

Mohamed Hashish

February 23, 2025

I´ve known Paul for a while but I wish I had known him even longer. It was always nice talking to him and getting to know him. He´s a blessing to all who know him intimately as a person with genuinely good intentions. I will definitely miss my long conversation with him about anything and everything. I hope you´re watching over us and keep us in mind when our time comes and we reunite our friendship in the hereafter. Thank you Paul

Kenneth Kennon

February 21, 2025

In a visit to DC Area several years ago, I had the good fortune to get more acquainted with Paul. Having lived life miles apart we finally had an opportunity to get acquainted as adults. He took me to see several pieces, shared family photos and memories. It was significant time for me to better appreciate my extended family. Mary Ellen and I will be joining you in spirit, wishing we could be with you on March 15. Love all from Tucson, Kenneth Kennon

Cherie Newberry

February 21, 2025

Paul,

We Had Lots Of Fun At Wakefield High School!


Cherie Newberry

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6666 Arlington Blvd., Falls Church, VA

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