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RALPH CARESTIA Obituary

CARESTIA Ralph John Carestia Ralph John Carestia was born on June 19, 1936 in Pottsville, PA. to Angeline and Anthony Carestia and passed on July 8, 2021. As a young child, he enjoyed spending time with his parents, brother, Johnny, his sister, Mary and visiting with his relatives. He played the accordion and performed on the radio, making several records. Ralph loved sports and was very athletic. He made the National High School All American Football Team and was a talented track athlete. He graduated from Pottsville High School in 1954. Ralph had numerous scholarship offers to college but chose the United States Naval Academy to receive his BS in Engineering. He was always very proud of being a Navy man. He played football, ran the low hurdles and threw the javelin on track. He made it to Penn Relays throwing the javelin. Along the way, Ralph traded in his cleats and married his bride of 63 years on June 14, 1958. After he graduated from the USNA in June of 1958, he served in the Navy for four years and then joined his father-in-law, Paul Stromberg, at Stromberg Sheet Metal Works, Inc. After over 25 years at Stromberg, Ralph sold the company to his employees. Ralph is survived by his wife, Shirley P. (Stromberg) Carestia, their five children, Debbie Thompson (Randy), Sandy Mercer (Duke), Karen Crocker (Randy), Angela Tranquill (Michael) and Anthony Carestia (Karin), 12 grandchildren: Michelle Shank (James), Steven Mercer, Amanda Lee (Ian), Vincent Mercer, Kristina Crocker, Leo Mercer, Ralf Carestia, Paolo Tranquill, Nino Tranquill, Katiana Carestia, Fio Tranquill and Rocco Tranquill, and two great-grandchildren, Daniel Shank and Harrison Lee. Ralph always loved to be involved in the community around him. He was a 4th degree Knights of Columbus member, active in Kiwanis, and President of the neighborhood Association for Willerburn Acres. He coached soccer and could be found at almost every football game of his son and grandsons, coaching from the sidelines or the stands. He loved to watch his grandchildren ski race and attend their swim/dive meets. He was a true believer, without fail, in the Washington Redskins. He was inducted into the Pottsville High School Football Hall of Fame. He loved the game of golf and won many Tournaments, even one in Australia! The more pressure, the better he golfed. He always loved a challenge and he preached to never give up. In 2006, Ralph was diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease. Following his own mantra, he never let it stop him, he never let it get him down. He pushed himself to do as much as he possibly could, including skiing just two short years ago. Many people, family members and friends, would come to Ralph for advice. He was great at bargaining and was an incredibly persuasive and charismatic person. Ralph had a corny sense of humor, was always ready to play a joke on someone and in general loved to laugh and enjoy life. He was always up for the next adventure and often with only a moment's notice. In an effort to always have a place where family could gather, he and his wife had two vacation homes: Lake Anna and Blue Knob. He designed the chalet at Blue Knob from start to finish. Of all of the accomplishments and awards in his life, that which he cherished most was the times he was surrounded by his family and friends. The celebration of life for Ralph Carestia will be on Thursday, July 15, 2021 from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. at Michael and Angela's home in Rockville, MD. 20854. All are welcome! In lieu of sending flowers and meals, donations may be made to Ralph's caregivers. Please contact the family directly for more information. www.goinghomecares.com www.goinghomecares.com

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Published by The Washington Post on Jul. 11, 2021.

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Art and Cill Fuccillo

July 12, 2021

Our deepest and heartfelt sympathies. He was very generous in selling us the property that would become our home now for over 33 years in Manor Country Club, Rockville Maryland. He will always be remembered by us fondly. We still remember the night we visited him before his big event in the Tuffy Leeman member member event...he was as determined as ever to do well.........Best to Shirley and the rest of the family... Shirley introduced us to the very first other "Fuccillo's" we had ever met in our lives....He will be missed....
Our warmest regards,

Art and Cill Fuccillo

William R Freed

July 10, 2021

Condolences to his wife and family . He was a valued member of the class of 54. I have a vivid memory of him going directly into the academy during a time when football players were encouraged to prep for a year. He was one of the few who passed on that choosing to start immediately after graduation. I always enjoyed talking to him at our class reunions, the most recent one being our 65th in 2019.
A good man who was upbeat and happy.
Rest in peace Ralph.

Bill Freed

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