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Ray Samuel Bolze

12/16/1935 - 11/10/2025

Ray Samuel Bolze obituary, 12/16/1935-11/10/2025, Rockville, MA

BORN

12/16/1935

DIED

11/10/2025

Ray Bolze Obituary

Ray Bolze passed away peacefully on November 10, 2025 in Rockville, Maryland.mHe was predeceased by his parents, Arthur and Geraldine, and his brother Ken.
Born in 1935 in Carlisle, Pennsylvania, Ray graduated from Carlisle High School in 1953 where he was active in band and orchestra as first chair trumpet and in the thespian club. Ray's grades and test scores earned him a full scholarship to Penn State University (1953-1957) and he was a proud member of the Navy ROTC program and served his senior year as president of the NROTC Quarterdeck Society. He was also a member of the Penn State Blue Band (trumpet) as well as Theta Xi fraternity. He received his BA degree in 1957 and was commissioned as an Ensign in the US Navy where he served as a Navy officer on the Destroyer Compton DD 705 and the Submarine USS Wahoo SS 565 stationed in Pearl Harbor.
Following four years of active military duty, Ray received his Law degree with Honors from George Washington University Law School in 1965. He worked as a law clerk for Judge Marvin John at the Federal Court of Claims and joined the Howrey and Simon law firm in DC as an antitrust trial lawyer. He had a distinguished career handling many antitrust and other complex cases, and presented arguments before the Supreme Court. Ray was an engaged member of the American Bar Association in the Public Utility, Communications, and Transportation Law section where he Chaired the Antitrust Law Committee for ten years and also served as Chair of the Section. In addition, he was pleased to represent a number of conservation organizations including obtaining a prohibition on the poaching of the African Elephant. In later years he served on the District of Columbia Court of Appeals Board of Professional Responsibility (2006-2012).
As an avid history buff along with his father who was a high school history teacher, Ray thoroughly enjoyed leading tours as a volunteer docent at the Smithsonian American History Museum for 20 years. He also served as Chair of the history museum's docent organization from 2004 to 2008.
Above all, Ray loved spending time with his wife Marlene and all of his family, and treasured many international trips with family and friends. While his children and grandchildren are spread out geographically, they were a true joy to him and he cherished all of the fun times together at their home in Maryland and summers in Chatham on Cape Cod with many boating adventures. Both Ray and Marlene remained active at Penn State establishing academic scholarships for DC area students and a scholarship focusing on Study Abroad programs. Ray attended St. Columba's Episcopal Church most of his life, and two of his children were married there.
Ray is survived by his wife of 67 years, Marlene; three children Dorene (Claude Carmichael - Franklin, TN), Stephen (Alicia - Duxbury, MA) and John (Cheryl - Rockville, MD); seven grandchildren Michael (Duxbury, MA), Brian (Neptune Beach, FL), Julian Carmichael (Franklin, TN), Andrew (Arlington, MA), Heather (Chicago, IL),
Elena Carmichael (Franklin, TN), and Samantha (Rockville, MD); and 3 great- grandchildren. Ray is also survived by his four sisters Deanna Seibert (Carlisle, PA), Esther Gibbs (York, PA), Norma Emerson (Penney Farms, FL), and Kathy Donkus (Penney Farms, FL).
A Celebration of Life will take place on December 12, 2025 at 1 p.m. at St. Columba's Episcopal Church, 4201 Albemarle Street, NW, Washington, DC 20016. For those interested, in lieu of flowers please consider donating to the Smithsonian National Museum of American History in Ray's honor.

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Published by The Washington Post on Nov. 24, 2025.

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Richard Colman

January 2, 2026

Marlene, I just now learned of Ray´s death last month. He was a valued colleague for many years, and more importantly, a good friend as well. Please accept my deepest sympathies. I shall keep you and him in my prayers.

William Jay Hunter, Jr.

December 31, 2025

Ray hired me from GW Law and I worked with him for years at Howrey. He was a kind, patient teacher and colleague for all my years at Howrey. I took my first depositions when he came down with the flu, but did not hesitate to send me to Idaho with the instruction: "make sure they each take a week" once a client explained to Ray and me that we had to stop flying first class, but cut the meeting short to catch the Concorde. We has lots of fun and hard work together. Marlene had Jenny and I to supper, then played piano for us.

My heart is full of affection and gratitude for Ray.

Bill Hunter

Bernie Power

December 31, 2025

Dear Mrs. Bolze and family. My heart was saddened to learn of the passing of Mr. Bolze. I think on the many years that we worked together, starting when John was only three years old, having seen Dorie, Steve and John go up to become such wonderful adults. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you all. I pray that God comforts and strengthens your hearts as only he can as you reflect on the wonderful memories and the great legacy that he leaves. Love and Prayers, Bernie Power. Note in my email address there is no "e" in Power.

Bernie Power

December 31, 2025

Dear Mrs. Bolze and family. I just learned today of the passing of Mr. Bolze. My heartfelt thoughts and condolences are with you all. I reflect on the many years I worked with him, starting when John was three years old. I pray that God comforts and strengthens each of you as you think of the great legacy that he leaves. Love and Prayers! Bernie Power

Nona Wagner-Babischkin

December 12, 2025

We were so sad to hear of Ray's passing. He and Marlene were such wonderful neighbors to my parents in Chatham, MA. They were always so nice and welcomed us into their home whenever we went to the Cape for a visit. Ray was so kind to our sons- taking them out on the boat so they could enjoy tubing or (attempted) waterskiing. As they got older, he would lend them their kayaks so they could venture out on Oyster Pond. We will always have very fond memories of our time with Ray and Marlene.

Ray Lombra

December 12, 2025

A wonderful person and a great friend of Penn State and the liberal arts; he and Marlene were both generous leaders in helping Dean Susan Welch raise the quality of the college and in helping deserving students. To a life well lived, Ray Lombra

Guy Warner

December 8, 2025

From 1980 until 1984, I was an economist at Howrey and Simon where Ray mentored me. He took the risk of giving me assignments just beyond my experience that enabled me to expand my capabilities. Since 1990, I have run a very rewarding business financing electric power microgrids. I am sure that I would not have found my way without Ray's advice and encouragement. Thank you Ray and condolences to your family.

Barbara Naef

November 29, 2025

I shared Ray's years on our Museum of American History Docent Council and had many engaging discussions with him in our Docents Lounge during our lunch breaks. He was as generous with his friendship and very positive attitude as he was sharing his knowledge of our American History.

Peter Boyne

November 26, 2025

Worked with Ray as a fellow docent during his 20 year service at the Smithsonian's National Museum of American History conducting tours for many visitors and veterans. Fond memories of his friendship and sharing of ideas to improve visitor's experience.

Varghese Robert George

November 26, 2025

Our condolences on Ray´s passing. His life and legacy indeed is very inspiring.
The George´s´ Varghese, Rani, Matthew and Melanie and Anjuli)of Circle Drive , Rockville

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