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Raymond Willis Obituary

Colonel, U.S. Army (Ret.)
Ray passed away peacefully surrounded by family on May 21, 2024. He was born
in Arcadia, LA as the first child of Earl and Willa B. Willis and sister to Auburn Davis. In 1961, Ray wed Joan Mathieu and had three children who survived him: Stephen Willis, Denise Levenberry, and Joy Carter (Jerry); nine grandchildren: Nathaniel Causley, III, Benet Willis, Eric Levenberry, Jr., Dasia and Lena Willis, Jerry Carter, Jr., Danielle and Elise Levenberry, and Brandon Carter; two great granddaughters, Hayden and Joanet Willis, and a host of nieces, nephews, and cousins. Ray served for 30 years as an officer in the Army and retired at the rank of colonel. A memorial service will be held at Fort Myer Memorial Chapel; burial will be at Arlington National Cemetery at a later date to be determined. Arrangements by Demaine Funeral Home, 520 S. Washington Street, Alexandria, VA.

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Published by The Washington Post on Jun. 2, 2024.

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Michelle Davis

December 4, 2024

I am deeply saddened to hear that Ray has passed away! I so enjoyed hearing the many stories of his life in the military. He was such a kind man to me and supportive in my work. I considered him a true friend and he will be missed. God Bless Ray and his family.

Colonel Robert J Warren

June 19, 2024

Ray Willis was a mentor and role model for me and countless others he impacted and set example for us to emulate. He always had a kind an encouraging word for all. He is dearly missed.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Robert J. Warren, Colonel USA Retired

Glenn A

June 6, 2024

Ray was a great man to work for. Ray was a wonderful leader and mentor at DVS. He was well respected at Fairfax County. Rays family and friends have my condolences.

Kelly von Schwanitz

June 5, 2024

Ray was such an amazing gentleman to work for. He also had such a kind heart. My years with him in DVS were unforgettable.

Joan Pearson

June 4, 2024

Mr. Willis also worked for Fairfax County government for many years. Many of his coworkers there are sad to hear of his passing.

Dave DuVal

June 4, 2024

Great guy. Able to be your supervisor and your friend without letting either relationship get in the way of the other. Rest in peace, my super and my friend.

Phil Simpson

June 4, 2024

What a great guy who helped me find my way as a young man. I enjoyed working along side him for many years and seeing him in the cafeteria long after he had retired.

Mary Smallwood

June 2, 2024

Ray was one of the good one's. I meet him when I came in as a temp. the got on was with DVS 25yrs. he will be missed RIP Ray condolence to the Willis family and friends

Jeff Mullins

June 2, 2024

He was my mentor and friend

Liz Pierce

June 2, 2024

Sorry for your loss. Was always a pleasant fellow employee Fairfax County.

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