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REBECCA BOBA GRIFFIN (Age 36)

On December 28, 2006 of Accokeek, MD. Beloved wife of James T. Griffin; daughter of Robert C. and Geraldine O. Boba; granddaughter of Ruth Ost; mother of Ben, Katia and Jimmy, whom she died giving birth to. She is also survived by brother, Jed and wife, Joey Boba; sister, Rachel Boba; nephews, Holden and Atticus Boba. Friends received on Monday, January 1, 2007 from 4 to 8 PM at the RAYMOND FUNERAL CHAPEL, La Plata, MD, where service will be at 7 p.m. Interment private. Memorials contributions may be made to Becky's Kids College Fund, c/o Willkie Farr & Gallagher Law Firm, 1875 K Street, NW, Washington, DC 20036-1238. Arrangements by Raymond Funeral Service, La Plata, MD (301-934-2920).

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Published by The Washington Post on Dec. 31, 2006.

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Tina Kouvelas

January 30, 2007

Jim,
I can't even begin to express my sadness at this tragic news. Becky was a wonderful woman and I loved her dearly. The year we spent living together in college was full of laughter and joy. She was a beautiful person inside and out.
Lots of prayers are coming your way from Arizona. Please give the children a giant hug for me.
Love,
Tina

Beth Nolan

January 26, 2007

Dear Jimmy,
We were so saddened to hear of your loss. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Beth Nolan (Cummins)
Marianne and Dennis Cummins (Fair Lawn, NJ)

Keith and Kelly Casey

January 25, 2007

Jim,
Sorry for your loss, I just learned of it. Hope you're doing well. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your kids. Remember to praise the child is to praise the mother.

Pat Blue-Roushakes

January 19, 2007

Dear Jim,
I'm sorry I never had the pleasure of meeting your lovely wife. My heart goes out to you in this tragic loss.
As you know, I do understand the depth of your sorrow and the pain of your loss. Plese let me know if there is ever anything I can for you or your family. Nothing could please me more than to be of assistance to you.
With love and affection,
Pat Blue-Roushakes

Rick Miller

January 17, 2007

Jim,

It's such a shame. Becky was a gem. Hang in there buddy, you've got lots of friends.

Rick

Larry Laurent

January 11, 2007

Jimmy, I am so sorry for your and your family's loss. I cannot even imagine what you must be going through. Always remember that you have family and friends that will do anything to support you.
Larry, Colleen, Sara and Anna

Juliette Aguilar Kempe

January 11, 2007

Dear Jimmy,
I'm so saddened to hear of your loss. Please know my warmest thoughts and prayers are with you, your children and the Boba family always.

Jim and Cristi Martin

January 10, 2007

Jim,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your wife.There is nothing words can say to comfort you and your family in these difficult times.Please know that we are thinking and praying for you and your children. If there is anything that we can do to ease your pain, please let us know.
God Bless you and your family,

martin cummins

January 10, 2007

Jimmy,
Please accept my heartfelt condolences for your family's loss. My prayers are with you.

Eric Sawyer

January 7, 2007

I attended high school with Rachel & Becky in Big Piney. Although we were not particularly close, people who share life growing up in a small town in Wyoming are like family. I just wanted to convey my condolences to Becky's husband & children as well as to her parents and siblings. She is in a better place with the Lord though that is difficult to comprehend through grief. God bless you all.

Aldo, Sheryl, Isabella & Jacey Dossola

January 7, 2007

The
Griffin/Boba Family - Sending you much love and warmest wishes during this difficult time. What can be said? Griff - you have always been
like a brother (like you need another!?) so that makes Becky a sister.
Know that her legacy lives on in the twinkling eyes of Ben, Katia and
Little Jimmy. She is someone who enriched all the lives she touched --
I am grateful to have been able to call her my friend. Please know I am here for you!

Marcie McMillen-Maser

January 7, 2007

I attended Jr. High and High school with Becky and Rachel. Becky always had a smile on her face and a kind word for everyone who met her. I remember the Boba family being close and so supportive of one another. She no doubt passed all of her wonderful qualities I remember so well along to her children. I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family.

Ted Castle

January 7, 2007

Jimmy –
We are deeply saddened. Know that you and your family are in our thoughts and in our hearts. Let the love and support of your family and friends give you strength during this difficult time. Please contact me for any reason…even if it’s just to reminisce about the memorable times we’ve shared.
Ted & Jeanne

Tammy McMillen Reed

January 7, 2007

To the Griffin and Boba families,
I attended high school with Becky and her sister, Rachel. I have many fond memories of Becky while playing basketball and spending time together after school. She always wore a smile and had a fantastic attitude about life. Her passing is truely tragic and hard for me to understand. I had email correspondence with Becky a few years ago and we shared photos of our children. She was a loving mother, wife, sister and friend. Her spirit will live through her beautiful children and her loving, close-knit family. My deepest sympathy goes to you.

Chris and Molly Tobias

January 7, 2007

Jimmy,
We are still in shock and deeply saddened by the loss of Becky. She was a wonderful person with a very kind heart. If there is anything we can ever do for you and the kids, please don't hesitate to call. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Michelle Anschutz Blomfelt

January 7, 2007

To the Boba and Griffin families,

I went to high school with Becky in Big Piney and Rachel is a dear friend of mine. I am shocked and saddened to hear of her passing. Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Willow Christensen

January 6, 2007

Jimmy, I am truly at a loss as to what to say. I just keep remembering our visits to your home and Becky's eyes when she smiled. I am so sorry I was not at the funeral. But I hope to see you and the kids soon. I am glad you have family with you now...

Anne Whitaker

January 6, 2007

Jim, I was so sorry to hear about this. Your and Becky's friendship really helped me get through my months in DC and I never thanked you enough. My thoughts are with you.

Dave Blanchard

January 5, 2007

Jimmy, stay strong you have the support of many wonderful friends and family around you. We are deeply sorry for your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please don't hesitate to call if you need anything in the months to come, or if you just want to talk. Dave, Miki, Nicholas and Gracie

Jerrie & Don Ballard

January 5, 2007

Dear Jim & Family: We were so very saddened to hear of Rebecca's passing. Although we met only briefly at Anne and Dan's wedding, we remember what a beautiful person she was. Our hearts go out to you. Jerrie & Don Ballard,

Matt Hult

January 4, 2007

Dear Jim,

Elizabeth and I are still in shock about Becky's death. It is so sad and utterly incomprehensible. It was only a few months ago that we were sharing rides with you and Becky at Dan and Anne's wedding. Your wife was vibrant, kind, smart and warm and she made a positive impression on both of us in the short time we shared. Her death is a true tragedy. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Regards,
Matt Hult and Elizabeth Falk

Ben Geise

January 4, 2007

Jimmy,
So sorry to hear of your loss.
Ben and Belinda Geise and Family

Harry and Shirley Forquer

January 4, 2007

Dear Jim. You don't know us but we were told of the tragic death of Rebecca by our daughter, Jennifer and son-in-law Jim Camlek. Please know that our prayers are with you and the children. May many hands reach out out to help you.

Jim Camlek & Jen Forquer

January 4, 2007

Dear Jim and Family,
My wife Jennifer and I had the pleasure of meeting you both at Dan and Anne's wedding. Becky was kind enough to entertain me (at great lengths) during the wedding, bridal party photo shoot and throughout the course of the day. I remember fetching her cucumber juice and questioning her clear enjoyment of same. She was a super sweet person and I will always cherish that time we got to spend together back on that beautiful day in September. Jen and I were both deeply saddened to here this awful news. We will keep you all in our prayers for a long time to come.
Wish our best wishes,
Jim and Jen

Steve & Donna Landau

January 4, 2007

Hi Jimmy
When Alyson called and told us what had happened, we could not believe what we were hearing. Both Donna and I would like you to know we are deeply saddened by the news! know that people care and will be there for you and your children. Stay strong!!
Most sincerely and with love, Steve & Donna Landau

George and Dani Heath

January 4, 2007

Griff,
I am so sorry for this tragic loss. I know how much Becky meant to you and how great she made you feel. You will always be in our prayers.

Eddie, Dana, Jake, and Aiden Geise

January 3, 2007

Jimmy,
Our hearts are heavy. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face;
the rains fall soft upon your fields and until we meet again,
may God hold you in the palm of His hand.

Stephanie & Marc Dall'Era

January 3, 2007

Jim-
Marc & I want you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. We will forever remember the wonderful conversations we had at Dan & Anne's wedding. We are grateful that we had that time to share with both you and Becky.

Patti and Scot Lundberg

January 3, 2007

Dear Jim: We knew you and Becky for only a moment in time, at Anne and Dan's wedding celebrations. We are so deeply saddened to hear of the heartbreaking loss of your beautiful wife. We extend our deepest sympathy to you, your children, and extended family.

Tom, Laura & Francesca Carrubba

January 3, 2007

Jimmy- we are deeply sorry for your loss. Nobody should have to endure something like this. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family. Please try to stay strong for your kids- time will heal all.

A beautiful couple, Sept. 22, 2006

January 3, 2007

Vic and Joyce Masterson

January 3, 2007

Dear Jim and children: We are deeply saddened by your loss of Rebecca. You are in our prayers.

Mimi & Orbelina (Glory to God cleaning service) Johnson

January 3, 2007

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.

Eddie and Barbara Peabody

January 3, 2007

Jimmy: We were deeply saddened to hear of Becky's passing. You and Becky were such good friends to our daughter and son-in-law, April and Cameron, in college. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your children in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Graham Farrell

January 3, 2007

To Jim and family, to my good friend Rachel, and to all the family Boba.

Becky always had a smile and was always such a positive force. She would want you to continue to thrive.

Thinking of you all, Graham and Mystie

Dan and Anne Trudeau

January 3, 2007

Jim, I am very thankful that we were able to talk yesterday. Anne and I are shattered. Our thoughts and hearts are with you and your children. As you well know, we are here for you always to help with absolutely anything--just say the word.
I was fortunate enough to have met Becky shortly after you started dating in 1989, and have the fondest, happiest memories of the times we spent together. Having you at our wedding meant the world to us.
So many indivuals were blessed to have Becky as a close friend; you were the wealthiest of all. The sadness is only overcome by the joy and smiles she brought each of us.

Gwyn (Cornforth) Goebel

January 2, 2007

Dear Jimmy,
When I think of Becky, I think of her sunny smile and her peaceful nature. May God's love give you the comfort you and your little ones need. Your family is in my prayers. Love, Gwyn

Denise Bleyle

January 2, 2007

Jimmy, Ben and Katia. I am so sorry for your loss. Becky was one of my best friends and I will miss her dearly. I am thankful, at least, that I was able to be there for the service and to share such wonderful memories with everyone. You all are in my hearts, thoughts and prayers. I love you guys.

LASHAWN A GRIEVING PARENT

January 2, 2007

FAMILY JUST KNOW THAT AS GOD WAS TAKING HIS BEAUTIFUL FLOWER FOR HIS GARDEN HE BLESSED YOU WITH TWO ANGELS "A LIVING ONE" & "A SPIRITUAL ONE"......
HOLD ONTO HIS UNCHANGING HANDS AND HE WILL SEE YOU THRU.....
JUST MAKE SURE THE LITTLE ONE KNOW HOW SPECIAL HIS MOMMY WAS ON EARTH...

Mike Becker

January 2, 2007

Jim - Very sad news. My condolences to you and your family.

Kim Chamblin

January 2, 2007

Jim--

I never told you, but you and Becky were role models to me as I embarked on parenthood. The love each of you had for your children was so apparent--I hope you can continue to shine on for each of them. We love you so much! Kim Chamblin and Family

Hugh Marks

January 1, 2007

Jimmy,
While I am terribly upset I'm not able to be there today, I know that you are surrounded by wonderful people who love you and will help you through this difficult time.

Justin

January 1, 2007

Jimmy-
I am grieving with you, Brother. I haven't a bad memory of Becky--she was wonderful. God Bless you and the three beautiful kids she has given you.

Svetlana and Craig Hart

January 1, 2007

James, we are so sorry about Becky's death. There are no words to explain how shocking this was for us and how difficult it is to except it.
Unfortunately we are not in the country right now and not able to attend the service, but we are with you in our souls.
We always will be remembering Becky.

Tammi McKinley, CPM

December 31, 2006

I am so sorry to hear of Ms. Griffin's death. I just happened to read the obituaries today and there she was. I am a homebirth midwife and can only imagine the tragedy this is for all of you.

When you are up to it, consider submitting a quilt panel in Rebecca's memory.

Hugh Marks

December 31, 2006

Jim, please accept our heartfelt condolences. We will keep Becky and Jimmy in our prayers. May the Good Lord bless you and give you His strength.

Hugh & Ann Marks

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