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Richard Warner Carlson died at 84 on March 24, 2025 at home in Boca Grande, Florida after six weeks of illness. He refused all painkillers to the end and left this world with dignity and clarity, holding the hands of his children with his dogs at his feet.

He was born February 10, 1941 at Massachusetts General Hospital to a 15-year-old Swedish-speaking girl and placed in the Home for Little Wanderers in Boston, where he developed rickets from malnutrition. His legs were bent for the rest of his life. After years in foster homes, he was placed with the Carlson family in Norwood, Mass. His adoptive father, a tannery manager, died when he was 12 and he stopped attending school regularly. At 17, he was jailed for car theft, thrown out of high school for the second time, and enlisted in the U.S. Marine Corps.

In 1962, in search of adventure, he drove to California. He spent a year as a merchant seaman on the SS Washington Bear, transporting cargo to ports in the Orient, and then became a reporter. Over the next decade, he was a copy boy at the LA Times, a wire service reporter for UPI and an investigative reporter and anchor for ABC News, covering the upheaval of the period. He knew virtually every compelling figure of the time, including Jim Jones, Patty Hearst, Eric Hoffer, Jerry Garcia, as well as Mafia leaders and members of the Manson Family. In 1965, he was badly injured reporting from the Watts riots in Los Angeles.

By 1975, he was married with two small boys, when his wife departed for Europe and didn't return. He threw himself into raising his boys, whom he often brought with him on reporting trips. At home, he educated them during three-hour dinners on topics that ranged from the French Revolution to Bolshevik Russia, PG Wodehouse, the history of the American Indian and, always, the eternal and unchanging nature of people. He was a free thinker and a compulsive book reader, including at red lights. He left a library of thousands of books, most dog-eared and filled with marginalia. His reading and life experiences convinced him that God is real. He had an outlaw spirit tempered by decency.

In 1979, he married the love of his life, Patricia Swanson. They were together for 44 years, all of them happy. She died sixteen months before he did and he mourned her every day.

In 1985, he moved to Washington, DC to work for the Reagan Administration. He spent five years as the director of the Voice of America, and then moved to the Seychelles as the US ambassador. In 1992, he became the CEO of the Corporation for Public Broadcasting, and later ran a division of King World television.

The last 25 years of his life were spent in work whose details were never completely clear to his family, but that was clearly interesting. He worked in dozens of countries and breakaway republics around the world, and was involved in countless intrigues. He knew a number of colorful national leaders, including Rafic Hariri of Lebanon, Aslan Abashidze of Adjara, Mobutu Sese Seko of Zaire, and whomever runs Somaliland. He was a fundamentally nonjudgmental person who was impossible to shock, and he described them all with amused affection.

He spoke to his sons every day and had lunch with them once a week for thirty years at the Metropolitan Club in Washington, always prefaced by a dice game. Throughout his life he fervently loved dogs.

Richard W. Carlson is survived by his sons, Tucker and Buckley, his beloved daughter-in-law Susie, and five grandchildren. He was the toughest human being anyone in his family ever knew, and also the kindest and most loyal. RIP.

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Published by The Washington Post on Mar. 27, 2025.

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Luisa M. Alvarez

April 24, 2025

A gentleman.

JK

April 24, 2025

May God give you strength and comfort during this difficult time. Sending condolences to his family and friends. He will be greatly missed and lovingly remembered. May he rest in peace with God by his side.

Dick Nussbaum

April 2, 2025

We are sorry to hear of Richard´s death-we are renters in Dunes Chalet at Boca Grande Club and observed Tucker´s devotion to his Father; God Bless the family

Judy

April 2, 2025

Tucker, I´m sorry for your lose. In reading your father´s story I know why I enjoyed you so much. I watch you whenever I see you on TV which isn´t much. My prayers are with you and your family, Now your dad is where we all strive to be, in peace with God.

Bridie Kelly O´Shaughnessy. Co Limerick Ireland

March 31, 2025

Dick Carlson and his wife donated an afternoon to an Adoptee Search group in San Diego when I asked him to share his childhood experience. With humility and humor he described how being relinquished by a child-mother led to a torturous start in life and a second chance with a supportive family. He shared his adventurous life and encouraged the attending adoptees and birth parents to be brave and follow their search for truth about their family roots. He was an earnest warm big presence who gave the impression he felt lucky in his life and wished the same to others.God be good to Dick Carlson .

Elisabeth Graham

March 31, 2025

Dear Carlson Family

We are so very sorry to hear of the passing of your beloved father, father-in-law, and grandfather. We have been neighbors in DC since early 2020. Both Mr. and Mrs. Carlson were such lovely people. On a nice day, Mr. Carlson enjoyed reading a book in the courtyard, and he always greeted us with a smile. My daughter loved to trick-or-treat at their door, as Mrs. Carlson would answer with a bowl full of candy, followed by Mr. Carlson behind her, then Lucy and Ethel, always in sweaters. They are certainly missed here. We will be praying for you all.

The Graham Family

Krish Pillay, NZ

March 30, 2025

Sad irony... I went online at work to purchase his book "Don't sweat the small stuff @ work..." for my staff ( I have all his other books in the series) and I find his obituary.... He will always be inspirational to me, as he has been for the past 25 years!

Gaye E. Passes

March 29, 2025

Tucker, when i read your father´s obituary in the Washington Post, I was so incredibly touched on so many levels, i cried and then, i posted it on facebook with the following words written by me to honor this amazing man who was your father. I am Jewish. Thus, you will notice i end with words that in Hebrew would read BARUCH DAYAN E´MET and in english are as i wrote: "May his memory be as a blessing" which i now ask, "how could it not be?" this is for you, your brother and your father:
" from our OBITUARIES OF NOTE DEPT. if ever there was a man deserving of the time it will take you to read this final tribute, obviously written by his sons who knew him best, it is this man. you will learn about someone who excelled in life in spite of the terrible cards dealt him from birth and beyond. A true hero who managed to turn it all around into a life well lived bringing the best in himself to so many others yet no one quite as much as his two sons. a man who did not seek glory or accolades. a man of great intelligence without the kinds of degrees most who achieve them go on to brag about. this was a man of great fortitude, filled with love and devotion when, and for whom, it mattered most. there is so much more and you will understand when you read the kinds of words most all of us hope are written and spoken about us when we are gone. to Richard Carlson, whom i never knew yet wish i had, i say, May your memory be as a blessing."

John Ruppert

March 29, 2025

God Bless and keep him and the Carlson family.

Peter Matthews

March 28, 2025

Dear Tucker,
What an amazing life your father Richard lived.
My sincere condolences to you and your family during this incredibly difficult time.
RIP Richard Warner Carlson.
Sincerely,
Peter

B and G Charlebois

March 27, 2025

What an amazing life. He left the best of himself...his 2 boys. Rest in Peace.

Therron Kokales

March 27, 2025

My condolences to the Carlson family. May your father's memory live on eternally.

Roger Turnill

March 27, 2025

So this is the dad that Tucker talked so much about. Reading about his arduous route to success & his free thinking independent mind it's no wonder he produced was crucial in forming the mindset of the most influential popular maverick commentator in the US

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