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Robert Nagata-Zingg Obituary
NAGATA-ZINGG, ROBERT THOMAS
Passed away on August 10, 2003, at age 33, from injuries sustained in a motorcycle accident. Loving husband of Chie Nagata-Zingg and father of Myra Nagata-Zingg of Fukuoka, Japan. He is survived by his mother, Linda Zingg and her fiance, David Williams of Manassas, VA; his father, Frederick Zingg of Newport, NC; his sister, Tracy Zingg of Manassas, VA. He is the beloved son-in-law of Mamoru and Kiyomi Nagata of Fukuoka, Japan. Robert is also survived by his grandmothers, Aileen O'Hearn of Woodbridge, VA and Mary Zingg of Chico, CA, as well as a host of aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews and numerous near and dear friends. Robert was a 1993 graduate of Virginia Tech and was employed as a graphics design architect by the Sanko Corporation and Kankyo Design Kikoh in Japan. Services previously held. Memorial contributions may be made to: National Motorcycle Safety Foundation, 2 Jenner Street, Suite 150, Irvine, CA 92618 (949) 727-3227
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Linda
August 11, 2025
It was a Sunday, just like today, when I got the call that you had died in a motorcycle accident. I remember the shock and disbelief as we went through the motions of scheduling an emergency flight to Japan where you were and where your funeral was being held. I remember walking our dog after the flights were scheduled and being surrounded by dragonflies. I remember it all, and the subsequent flight, the funeral, the pain of seeing your widowed wife and your daughter, like it was yesterday. Yet it has been 22 years. Time is a funny thing. I miss you every day but know that you continue to watch over us. More and more these days, when I look at the clock, it is 8:08, which was our code for BOB. It makes me smile whenever I see it. Love you always. Mom.
Tracy
August 9, 2025
22 years! Hard to think it´s been that long since we said goodbye. You are always in my thoughts and my heart. You´d be so happy to hear of some of the trips I´ve made recently. Hope you can be proud! Love you and miss you always!
Tracy
August 10, 2023
20 years! How is that even possible? I think of you EVERY day and use losing you as a harsh reminder to live my best life! So many things I wish I could share with you. Time does not always heal all wounds. Continue to watch over mom and the rest of us. We miss you everyday! Love you, Bob!
mom
March 18, 2023
Another year of missing you but I still feel your presence, especially when I need it most. I received so many wonderful notes from your friends and family in honor of your birthday this year. Everyone was, and continues to be, better because of knowing you. All my love.....Mom
Tracy
March 17, 2023
Hard to believe you would be 53 today. Wishing I could share so much with you and man do I wonder how things would be so different had we not lost you 20 years ago! I will have a toast in your honor and always try to do you proud! Love and miss you, always!
Olafur
August 25, 2022
Robert Zing. Worked with Robert in the `90s, such an inspiring man with an energy that lives on.
Tracy
August 10, 2022
Really hard to believe 19 years since that tragic day. I know you watch out for me and I see you through the dragonflies every day! Love you and miss you!
Mom
March 17, 2022
It´s been another challenging year and I miss your calm but in the times of greatest need, I always get a sign that you are there with me. Please continue to watch over us all. I can´t believe that my "baby boy" would be 52 years old today! Happy heavenly birthday
Tracy Zingg
March 16, 2022
Wow, 52 years old! How I wonder what you would be like and how life would be so different if you were still here. I miss you and really wish I had your advice some days. Have a wonderful heavenly birthday, Bob. Love you!
Paul Judd
October 3, 2021
Robert, I only found out today of your passing.
I know that we weren't close friends. We only shared some classes together.
The world is a little aadder with you taken away at a young age.
Rest in peace, in grace.
Tracy Zingg
August 10, 2020
So another year has passed. I dread this day so much but so happy to remember fun stories about you and to hear from old friends. This has been the year from hell so far and I know you would know exactly how to deal with all of this craziness! I am so proud of the man and friend you were and so proud to call you my brother. My hope is you are there to welcome our ailing family members as they cross over and continue to watch over all of those close to us. I love you and miss you every day! Love, your little sis’
Linda
August 25, 2019
Bob - This year I have felt your loss even more than usual. With their busy schedules and Myra getting ready to move away and start college, we have not been able to spend time with your kids like we have in past years and it truly breaks my heart. Myra and Nile remind me so much of you....their mannerisms, their intelligence, their humor. When I spend time with them, I can "feel" your presence even more than usual and I miss that feeling of having you close. I know that if you were still with us, we would be able to see the kids much more than we've been able to this year. The loss of that "family time" is so difficult to bear. But the dragonflies have been particularly abundant this summer, so I know you are watching over us. I miss you with all my heart. Love - Mom
Tracy Zingg
March 17, 2019
Wow! 49 years old! I wonder every day what life would be like if you were still here. I hope that you would be proud of your baby sister as I know I would be of you and all your accomplishments. I miss you a lot and wish we had spent more time together when we could have. Keep watching over all of us and protect us. Happy birthday Bob! Love you!
March 16, 2019
It is hard to believe that tomorrow, on St. Patrick's Day, you would have been 49 years old! I would have loved to have had a chance to know you as a middle aged adult :-) You were always a kid, even in your 30s. Full of curiosity, full of mischief. It made you the fearless, creative person that we all knew and loved. I wonder how you would have changed with the passing years...
Myra is finishing her final months of High School and will be going off to college this fall. The time has just flown by. It has been amazing to have Myra and Nile living so close to us in Northern Virginia these past several years. They have grown into such amazing young adults. But I think Myra is looking forward to attending college on the West Coast, so it is likely that Nile and Chie will move away, too, when Myra heads off to school. It will be so hard to have them so far away again. I see you in their faces and in their expressions and it's been nice to have a part of you so close to us.
I miss you every day, but especially on your birthday and on holidays. Please continue to watch over us and please keep a watch on your family as they start the next phase of their lives.
With all my love. Mom.
Myra and Nile
Linda Zingg
August 9, 2018
Thinking of you today and every day. I know that you are watching over us and keeping an eye on your children, Myra and Nile, as they have grown into such wonderful young adults. I see you in their facial expressions and their mannerisms and I know that you are near. Please continue to watch over us all. I love you and miss you. Mom
Bob at his best
Rick Zingg
August 9, 2018
Tracy Zingg
August 9, 2018
15 years....doesn't even seem possible. I miss you every day and talk to you often through the dragonflies. I hope you hear me! Your kids are amazing and have so many of your talents. I know you are looking out and I hope that continues. I love and miss you every day!
Linda
March 18, 2018
Happy Birthday, Bob.
We had a lovely day at Tracy's house and joined family to wish you a happy 48th. Chie and the kids celebrated your birthday in style with balloons and flowers. We all miss you so much but know that you continue to watch over us every day. I hope that you and Neenie were able to share a green beer :-)
Love - Mom
Tracy Zingg
March 17, 2018
Wishing you a very Happy 48th birthday Bob! I'm hoping you are around and giving me guidance and maybe a little of your St Patty's Day Bday luck! I think about you every day. Love always, Tracy ❤
August 10, 2017
Truly miss sharing with you every day. I know you are around and I hope watching over all of us. The kids are amazing and doing so well. I know you are proud. Love you and miss you. - Tracy
August 10, 2017
14 years. I miss you and think of you every day and could not be more proud of your two children. They are amazing and remind me so much of you. Continue to watch over us.....I "see" you in all of the dragonflies that have been around lately :-). Love, mom.
March 17, 2017
Bob - I am trying to imagine you as 47 years old but it is impossible. You always were, and continue to be, my little boy :-) Enjoy your green beer today. Love - mom
March 16, 2017
Happy Birthday Bob! Really wishing El Taco was back open so we could celebrate "in style". Miss you and love you every day!
~Love, Tracy
March 17, 2016
Happy birthday, Bob. Missing you today and every day. Love, Mom.
Love, Tracy
August 10, 2015
I hate that I only seem to sign this on your bday and the day you died but you know I think of you always. You know what I am thinking without me having to write it down and I'm so grateful to all the people that remember you and think of you. I wish you were here more than ever. Visited Japan again this year and loved hearing more stories from your friends. You touched so many people. Love and miss you always.
August 9, 2015
Twelve years. Still feels like yesterday. But the dragonflies have been showing up at all the right times to remind me that you are still watching over us. Love you. Mom
March 17, 2015
Happy Birthday! We will be gathering at El Taco later today in your honor. I know there is a "combination sancho" with your name on it :-) I love you and miss you every day. Wear something outrageously green today. Love - mom.
Tracy
March 17, 2015
Happy 45th bday Zingg! Dad is up for a visit which is great timing! So glad he and mom and I will be able to enjoy some El Taco later in your honor! What a great way to spend your birthday. Love you and miss you everyday! Celebrate with a green beer today! Happy Birthday!
August 10, 2014
I received so many nice messages from friends and family today, expressing their love and letting me know that they were thinking of us. The dragonflies seemed to be everywhere, which reminded me how you are always keeping an eye on us. I could not be more proud of your children, Myra and Nile, and I see you in them more and more as they grow into such wonderful, loving young people. I wish that you were here but I know you are watching and guiding them. You are in my thoughts every day.
Love - Mom.
Tracy
August 10, 2014
As we walked into the Driver's meeting for our NASCAR Driving Experience Saturday afternoon, 2 dragonflies flew overhead and I felt relieved knowing you were watching over us as usual. My nerves lifted and I had a great time. I know you were jealous and would have for sure gone faster than Dave and I did. I hate this day for so many reasons but I know you are with us keeping watch. Miss you every day! Love you Zingg!
Tracy
March 16, 2014
Can't believe you would be 44 this year. So many things keep me busy throughout the year now but something reminds me of you every day. I hope you are helping all of the new arrivals get acclimated and reuniting with all the family we have lost this year. Please keep Harmony and Sophie safe while they wait with you. Happy Birthday Bob! Miss you and Love you.
Tracy
August 11, 2013
Sorry I didn't write yesterday. Things have been hectic as you well know. Could you try to get a handle on all this stuff going on lately down here please? I love and miss you every day and have heard from so many people that tell me they think of you often even after all of this time. You would not believe how great the kids are doing. Myra talks about you often and has told me she will always remember you! Saw some of the old "crue" yesterday. Everyone looks the same!! Love you always!
August 10, 2013
Ten years since that phone call from Japan telling me of your death. You are in my thoughts every day. Love - mom
Rick Zingg
August 10, 2013
It hard to believe you have been gone so long , it feels like yesterday at times , I miss you and I love you , Dad
Tracy
March 18, 2013
Happy Birthday Bob! We had a great El Taco birthday lunch with friends and family and I was able to spend your birthday weekend with the kids. We talked a lot about you and watched your video again. I hope you were there to greet Harmony on the 3rd and I can't wait to see you both again someday. Love you and miss you every day!!
Mom
March 16, 2013
Can't believe that another year has gone by. The kids are doing great in school. Myra is a real soccer pro and Nile just got straight A's on his report card! The kid are more and more like you every day. You would be so proud of them.
Tracy's dog, Harmony, passed away earlier this month. I hope that you are chasing dragonflies together somewhere beautiful. I love you and miss you every day. Happy birthday my St. Patrick's Day baby. Love you. Mom.
March 17, 2012
Happy Birthday! Thinking of you even more now that Chie, Myra and Nile are back in Virginia and so much a part of ou lives again. We will be spending the day with them, and thinking of you. I know you will be watching and will join us in some special way. Love you always. Mom.
Mom
August 9, 2011
Eight years and I still remember that phone call as if it was yesterday. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. We are so excited the Chie and Myra and NIle are moving back to the US and will be living only a few miles from us. I know you'll be happy to have us all so close again. Send a few dragonflies my way to help me through the day tomorrow. Love you.
Mom
March 17, 2011
There are no words to express how much I miss you, my St. Patrick's day boy. It amazes me that you would be 41 years old today.....so much has changed over the years but I love you even more than the first moment that I saw you.
I am pretty sure that you are in the center of a group of beer-drinking dragonflies right about now :-) Thanks for always watching over us and keeping us safe. I love you. Happy birthday.
Tracy
March 17, 2011
Thinking of you today on your birthday. Again, so many changes from year to year. I have a feeling that you helped to play a part in making sure none of the family were in harms way for these devastating events that have been happening. I know you are happy for Chie and the kids and I know you watch over all of us daily. I am looking forward to having you close by again come the Fall. Have a green beer to celebrate today! I hope to make it to El Taco this weekend just for you. :) Love u and miss u always!
March 16, 2011
hey there ..just a note to say hi,,its always hard this time of year , your life was important to me in so many ways , this year is a little different for all of us, japan has suffered a huge earthquake and our concern for chie and the kids was on everyones mind , i am so gratefull that they were not in harms way.while events are not over for japan . i hope to see everyone in the fall.yes they are comin to live in the usa ,,i hope they will be happy in thier new home ,,and that the kids can adjust to the american way..well not the joy of rap music..lol ..i hope to see them more and enjoy thier life as much as i can ,they are great kids ,both blessed with your spark of life . you did well bob , its just such a shame that you couldnt enjoy it with them ,,i love you and miss you .....dad peace
December 15, 2010
hey there ,,i miss you ,,i miss what you would have done ,,i was always so proud of you ,,of what you were and who you became ,,it defined who i was ,,proud dad of bob zingg ,,i still am the proud of tracy ,,grandfather of nile and myra ,,but i just wanted you to be here on this earth with me till i left ..i love you bob..you are with me every day peace
rick zingg
August 4, 2010
hey there ,,well we are coming to another year that you are not with us in this life ,i miss you so much ,,,you would be happy that everyone is doing well ,,,chie has found someone to share her life and the kids have a dad to go to.. iwas so sad that all of my grandkids had lost thier father,,,but time has a way of fixing things ,,so life goes on chie found someone and robin found someone for her kids to call dad ,,i still miss you so much ,,i look at your photo every day ,,,i hold tracy close to my heart ,,,your mom and i are better friends now than ever before ,,but above all i wish u were here ,,i love u bob ,,peace dad
Myra de Carvalho
June 18, 2010
Dear Daddy Z,
Guess what. We have a new dad!I couldn't believe it at first.I'm still kinda not used to it.His name is Daniel Morera de Carvalho.So now,we(Nile,Mom,and me),are the "de Carvalho" family.But please do not worry.We will always have the Zingg blood in us.I miss you more than you'll know.I love you so much!!!
Carol Chase
May 31, 2010
This is a long over due condolence to the Nagata Zingg family. I still remember getting the email from Linda, what is now almost 7-years ago. I was shaken and deeply sadden by Bob’s accident. I had the greatest sympathy for his young daughter and wife – and his mother. The love of his mother to seek out friends of Bob through his email address book always moved me.
I knew Bob—who we called Zingg in architecture studio at Virginia Tech. I still remember where he sat in studio that 4th year of architecture school—near the elevator on the 2nd floor of Cowgill Hall on the plaza side.
These are the things I remember about Zingg—wearing bowling shoes before they were fashionable. Yes, many years later those two-tone colored leather bowling shoes could be found in the boutiques of Paris.
I remember that Zingg had to take defensive driving class, where he said he didn’t learn anything new—EXCEPT one thing that he didn’t know, which was – one can make a right turn onto a one way street from a one way street. He stated this in one of our long nights in studio. This was nearly 17-years ago, and I still carry that bit of knowledge with me. Whenever I come to a one way street from a one way street and think—wow I can make a left turn…I laugh to myself and think of Zingg. This happens everything for the past 17-years! I always thought post-graduation, that when I saw him again (at a reunion) I would tell him that. It’s a shame that I never could share that with him.
I remember his passion for Kurt Vonnegut. There was some story about Zingg and Kurt Vonnegut corresponding. I don’t recall the details, but I remember thinking how cool it was that Zingg would correspond to one of his favorite authors.
While I still lived and worked in Chicago, Dean Jack Davis and I had a quick coffee after giving him a tour of one of my projects under construction and we both commented about Zingg. Dean Davis asked if I knew Zingg, since we were in school together and if I had heard the news…. of course, I remembered Zingg and did hear the terrible news. I just wanted to let you know, if you didn’t already know that the faculty of Virginia Tech remembered Zingg and he remained close in their hearts as well as in my heart.
Now having children of my own, and reading an except from Elizabeth Edwards memoir, Resilience, about her college friend, Kellam Hoope. I realize that maybe this bit of recollection of Zingg isn’t too late for Linda. Not only does one “need” the condolence / sympathy from others—but to piece and understand more of the lives of our loved ones that we may already know, but didn’t know others knew.
There is not a time when I see bowling shoes, come to a one way street going left, Kurt Vonnegut that I don’t think of Zingg.
Many regards to the Nagata-Zingg family.
Tracy Zingg
March 17, 2010
Hmmm, what would you be doing on your big 4-0? One can only imagine! It's so strange to think about you and that whole group of friends from SJHS hitting the next generation milestone. I know, I'm not that far behind too. You are missed dearly and still loved by so many. You have created such a fantastic legacy that just continues to grow. Love you and miss you. Happy Birthday Zingg! xox
Mom
March 16, 2010
Happy St. Patty's Day birthday. The big 40. I wish you were here so we could give you a hard time about it. I love you and miss you every day.
Christopher Barr
March 16, 2010
Hey you big noacher! Big 40 year for everyone! Gonna really miss you for this one but know that you will be celebrated by many. :-)
Love you brother......ps. Barca is still kickin' arse!
Nile Nagata-Zingg
November 16, 2009
I miss you daddy.I love you daddy.I wish you were hear daddy. You are the best daddy ever!!!
Jill Leckner
October 17, 2009
I was thinking about Zingg today, wondering how Chie and his children are. We really miss him. Zingg was an incredibly warm and loving friend and architect. Our memories with Zingg and Chie in New York will travel with us as we pass through life. We hope to have a chance to see Chie and his children some day.
Olafur Thordarson
August 11, 2009
Zingg was and is still an inspiration to the people he met in his life. His energy and enthusiasm was contagious and still moves me. I think of Robert with a smile and feel privileged to have known a great guy like him. He also reminds us of how valuable it it to enjoy our moments together.
Tracy Zingg
August 10, 2009
I really can't believe it's been 6 yrs. I think about you EVERY DAY and like Mom, see dragonflies all the time. I say hello to you as they fly by. They bring me such comfort knowing you are watching over all of us and that we will someday get to see you again in all your glory. Myra still has so many vivid memories of you and talks about you all the time. :) She is so smart and has such a great memory like you! Nile is so smart too and such a thinker... you can see it in his face. I love you and miss you so much. Please continue to watch over all of us and take care of the new ones that have joined you over the years. Love, your lil' sis.
Linda Zingg
August 6, 2009
It is nearly 6 years since that terrible day and yet it seems like yesterday. The dragonfly has been with me every day this week - it's comforting. Chie and Myra and Nile visited last month and we had great fun going to Luray Caverns and Great Falls and the zoo and a baseball game and fireworks show for the 4th of July. I see so much of you in Myra and Nile. They are amazing children - Chie has done such a wonderful job raising them and I know you are proud. I love you and miss you every day. Love - Mom
Myra Nagata-ZIngg
August 4, 2009
I am very sad that daddy died but I am glad that I still have
a great mother that takes good care of me and makes me
happy everyday.
Kai Geschke
April 18, 2009
Hi All,
I came across this site accidentally...I did not know it existed. I knew Bob back at VT and I have the fondest memories of him. We were a year ahead of him in architecture school but we all "lived" together at Cowgill. He was unique, original, fun and so enjoyable to be around. He was always in a great mood and made those around him smile. We would usually congregate at one of our desks and tell sories to break up those long architecture nights......I will not forget him . I did not know his family but I am sorry for your loss and I wish you all the very best. Warmest wishes,
-Kai
Sandra Ardenti Bulgin
February 10, 2008
I was cleaning out my old high school memory box tonight and was fondly remembering those great times and great friends. Bobby Zingg came to mind and a google search brought me here. I am so sorry for the loss of your husband, father, son, brother and friend. It's been 20 years since high school but I can so clearly remember the Zingg's living room full of laughter while he told some crazy Hayloft story or the memories made by creating a 'geodesic dome' defense system for our government class. Bobby was very special - smart, funny with a beautiful spirit. I wish you peace as you remember him.
Mary Syphroena Zingg
August 8, 2004
Dear Bob: I just can't imagine it is your first anniversary of August 10th. You are still thought of so very much,and I wish I could go to visit Myra, Nile and Chie when Tracy and your Mom goes to visit in October. Rosa gets her Masters Degree next June, and if I save enough money, I plan to go. I am so grateful that Tracy,Rick and Linda and Chie send me photos and mail to keep me up-to-date. We miss you and love you very much. Love from Grandma Zingg and Aunt Rosa.
Tracy Zingg
August 8, 2004
Hey Bob, I can't believe it has been almost a year since you left us. I remember everything so vividly. We have had so much happen I can't even begin to tell you but I have a feeling you know anyway...
As Mom said, we are headed back over to Japan in Oct. I can't wait to see Chie and the kids again. I had a great time when I was there in Feb for Nile's birth. It sounds like they miss you very much but Chie is strong and they are all doing so well.
I think about you all the time and I know you are around... I have a funny feeling about something recently but we'll wait and see what happens with that. But thanks if you played a part. :)
I love you and miss you.
tz
Steve Robinson
August 7, 2004
Linda,
I never met your son but it is very obvious from all of the wonderful comments in this book that he was a very special and loving person. His love lives on in his beautiful family and those his life touched. Take care. Your friend.
Steve
The Nagata-Zingg Family
Linda Zingg
August 5, 2004
Bob - I think of you every day and find it so hard to believe that it has been nearly one year since the day that Chie called to tell me of your accident. Your spirit is with me always, although I feel it the most when I am talking with Chie, Myra and Nile on the phone, or when I am spending time in the Japanese garden that we planted for you, or when a dragonfly arrives out of nowhere and follows me around for a while.
Chie has been amazing this past year and your family is doing so well - - Myra has become a star in her Latin Dance class and had the lead role in a recent recital. The video that Chie sent to us is wonderful! Myra will start attending classes at International school later this month.
Nile was born on the morning of 15 February, just 2 days after Tracy arrived in Japan! He is almost 6 months old now, and is doing great. He is a very calm and happy baby. His hair, eyes and skin are lighter than Myra's and his expressions remind us a lot of you. Myra is getting pretty good at being a "big sister", although she still loves to be the center of attention whenever she can.
Dave, Tracy, my sister Theresa and I have booked reservations to visit Chie and the kids in Fukuoka in mid-October. We will be there for Myra's 4th birthday! We're all very excited about going and I can't wait to finally hold Nile in person. Chie has been wonderful about sending photos and videos, but it will be so much better when I finally get to touch him and Myra and to hug Chie again.
I've attached a photo of your family. Please continue to look out for all of us and know that we love you and miss you and think about you every day.
With love - Mom
Tracy Zingg
January 24, 2004
Hi Bob,
You will be so proud, I am doing it! I am going to Japan for a month, just like you always wanted me to. I will be there in time for Nile's birth, I hope, and to keep your spirit alive by wearing the Barcelona jersey in the delivery room! I so wish it could be you there instead of me but I know you will be watching and cheering Chie on. Please look out for both of them and tell Nile to hold on until I get to Japan, ok? I don't want to miss his grand entrance into the world.
I miss you and think about you every day.
All my love,
T.
LeeAnn Baker
January 5, 2004
I met "Zingg" working in James Bodnar's Architectural firm in New York in 1997. He possessed a sense of humor that was infectious to all those around him and always had a special way of charming impatient clients. Though I have not seen him in years, I appreciated receiving his quirky e-mails that always seemed to brighten my day. I send my best wishes to Chie, Myra and the new baby. If I knew anything about Bob personally, it was that he adored his family. My condolences on your loss, he will be missed.
Tracy Zingg
December 16, 2003
Hi Bob,
It's been crazy around here as usual for this time of the year. As you read from Mom's letter, we had a good Thanksgiving with lots of wonderful food. I thought of you with every bite, Stove Top and all! Some of my favorite memories of you are the times when everyone is gathered around eating or socializing and you in the center telling some crazy story about New York or Japan or us. I owe all my childhood memories to your stories and am trying desperately to hold onto those without you here to remind me of something silly we did. We had our family Christmas gathering on Sunday and I know everyone missed you terribly. Even Heather and Pammy were there; it was great to see them again.
I want to go and stay with Chie and Myra in Japan and help with the new baby but I am trying to determine when would be the best time. I need help with that. I am trying to learn some Japanese to help me get by and hope to make you proud.
This Christmas is not going to be the same without you here. I always looked forward to see what unusual trinkets you would send from Japan and getting your phone call.
Well, it's late and I'm rambling. Please watch over all of us and continue to let us know you are there. I miss you.
Love forever.
Your sister,
T.
Col Doody
November 30, 2003
It was this time last year Zingg Man that we held a BBQ at my house & you rolled up with that crazy snow hat on & a beer in your hand. I just put that picture of you swinging in the hammock on the wall.Love ya bro.
Col.
November 28, 2003
In every close group of friends everyone has their role. Bob had the most colorful role of all. While the rest of us were ordinary, Bob was extraordinary. He was an artist, a risk taker, and a true example of a great person. I'm sorry I didn't get to see Bob the last few years, but I will miss his witty emails and his unforgettable charm.
Linda Zingg
November 27, 2003
Happy Thanksgiving, Bob!
We had a terrific dinner today, with all the traditional Thanksgiving foods that you love. Your friend, Chris Barr, was here in Manassas visiting his parents so he stopped by to see us and to take photos of the Japanese Garden that we planted for you in our backyard. He brought a beautiful stone from his home in Colorado to add to your garden. The stone has 3 candles embedded it and adds a wonderful glow to the garden when the candles are lit at night.
Tracy joined us for dinner, too. As part of our prayer before starting dinner, we reminded each how thankful we are that you created such a wonderful family in Japan and that we are able to talk with Chie and Myra so often. We are thankful that they are doing well and that the new baby, Nile, is developing right on schedule for his entrance into the world sometime next February. I know how much you always loved our Thanksgiving feast and we missed having you here to share it with us but I know that you were surveying the turkey and stuffing and potatoes and all the trimmings and that you would have approved.
On this day of giving thanks, I am thankful that you brought so much joy to so many people during your short time here with us. I am thankful that I continue to feel your presence every time I talk with Myra and I see your characteristics shine through in her facial expressions, her gestures, her walk, and her outgoing personality. Everyone who has been touched by you is a better person for having known you.
Thinking of you with love....
Mom
Linda Zingg
November 24, 2003
Bob -
Just a quick note to let you know that we received a package from Chie this weekend with presents for Dave's birthday and also some updated photos and videos from Japan. One of the presents for Dave was a bottle of the sake from Fukuoka that Dave really likes. He was very touched that Chie took the time to find that and send it to him. We drank a toast to you and Chie and Myra and "Nile".
The video included scenes from Myra's 3rd birthday and, as usual, she received LOTS of presents, including a shiny new red sports car that she can "drive" around the house. In the video she looks just like you, driving with one hand on the wheel and the other blowing the horn :-) The video also included scenes from Myra at Latin dance class. The group is rehearsing for their recital to be held later this month. It didn't take long for Myra to learn the dance moves and the words to the Spanish songs. You know how she likes to be the center of attention so I'm sure she will be a hit at the show next weekend. There was also some video of Chie and the family visiting a large shrine to attend some sort of Buddhist ceremony and Myra was dressed in formal Japanese attire. She wore a beautiful kimono and even had her hair done up in "Japanese" style. She looked just like a porcelain doll. Chie said that many of the tourists at the shrine stopped her to ask if they could take photos of Myra because she was so beautiful. Chie was VERY proud!
Everyone here is busy getting ready for Thanksgiving and starting to panic about Christmas being just around the corner. Hard to believe that the year is almost over already.
Please keep an eye on all of us. I love you and miss you.
Love, Mom
Linda Zingg
November 15, 2003
Hi, Bob.
Today I got a wonderful email from your wife, Chie. She told me that Myra is doing extremely well in her English school and in her Latin dance class and that Myra is going to be in a dance recital later this month! She has learned all of the dance steps and also has learned all of the words to the dance song, even though the song is in Spanish! I can't wait to see photos and videos from the recital!
Chie also said that her latest visit to the doctor went fine and that the new baby, due next February, is developing right on schedule. She said that they have finally been able to determine that the new baby is a BOY!!!! Chie told me that before your accident, you had discussed names for the baby and both agreed that your first choice of a name if it was a boy would be "Nile". However, you were concerned that the name Nile would be difficult for Chie and her Japanese relatives to prounouce so you decided to name the baby Hugo, which was your second choice for a name if it was a boy. Well Chie has had several dreams during the last week that you are there with her in the delivery room when the baby is born and in her dreams you always call the baby "Nile" as soon as you learn that it is a boy. Because of this, Chie told me that the baby is going to be named Nile Nagata-Zingg. I think that sounds perfect!
I love you and miss you so much. Chie is trying to be strong for Myra and the new baby but she is very tired and sad. Please keep an eye on them and let her know that you are watching over them.
Love, Mom
Lars Granholm
October 11, 2003
To the Zingg family,
I never got the opportunity to meet Bob but Tracy is a dear friend of mine and I wanted to share my condolences in your celebration of life of Bob. My heart and prayers to Linda and Tracy and Bob's family in Japan.
Martin Palmaz
October 7, 2003
Linda and Tracy, Thank you so much for the gathering in Manassas. It was so nice to meet all of you and see a glimpse of Bob's life in Japan.
When I heard the news about Bob, I was in Colorado visiting my brother. Although it gave me much sorrow, I had the chance to give him the same farewell we gave my father, when he passed away. The next day when I went paragliding, I released 33 origami cranes (Bob's age) over Shadow Mountain, just as we had done with my fathers ashes several years before. It was a glorious sunny day....
Linda Zingg
October 5, 2003
Hi Bob - Just wanted to let you know that we had the most wonderful Celebration of Life to honor you yesterday. Nearly 100 of your former school mates, business colleagues, friends, neighbors and relatives joined us to exchange photos and relate stories of the experiences that we all shared with you over the years. The common theme in every story was your wit, your good-naturedness, your willingness to help others, and your habit of "bending the rules" when necessary to get the most out of each adventure. And of course it was fun for me to have the chance to talk with many of your "cohorts in crime" from high school days and finally get the true scoop about some of those escapades that you could never quite explain to me when I found out about them :-) We had good food and drink, and lots of lively conversation. I know you were probably listening in from time to time and checking out the platters of kielbasa and chicken sate! Or perhaps you were eyeing the homemade chocolate chip cookies? In any case, it was the kind of gathering that you always enjoyed where you somehow always ended up being in the center of the crowd telling one of your amazing stories and making everyone laugh. It was a good party....and I just wanted to let you know that we all love you and miss you very, very much. Big hugs and kisses. Mom
Carol James
October 3, 2003
Linda, My deepest sympathy you and all of your family.
Carol James
(coworker and friend of Linda)
Richard Sverrisson
October 3, 2003
When I first met Zingg playing football (soccer) in Fukuoka I was immediately struck by his infectious energy and passion for life. Whether discussing politics, mountain biking, disco dancing or evading Japanese police on his roller-blades, Zingg was never one to follow the crowd. He even became a dab hand at cockney rhyming slang! Drab, grey days were transformed into technicolour in Zingg’s presence; the world will be a much more ordinary place without him. He will be greatly missed.
Lance Tarbell
October 1, 2003
To the Zingg and Nagata families,
I will always remember Zingg for his passion, will, and originality. I first met him while attending Va. Tech and we communicated occassionally after we graduated, but I appreciated his letters and postcards. Each one was an expression of his creativity, thoughtfulness, and humor wrapped into a quick hello. I will miss him.
Tom & Kenny Wood
September 30, 2003
Dear Linda, Tracy, Chie and Myra
We are so saddened over the loss of Robert and the bright spirit he brought to all of those he knew and loved. We know he will be greatly missed and we will keep him and all of his loved ones in out thoughts and prayers.
Rachel Crowl
September 29, 2003
The world has lost a special one. Condolences to all of Bob's family and loved ones.
Aileen O'Hearn
September 23, 2003
Our hearts are so heavy with the loss of our beloved son, grandson, father and husband. Our thoughts and prayers are with our family and friends at this very sorrowful time in our lives. Grandmother "Neenie" O'Hearn
Jeff Sisk
September 18, 2003
I remember walking into the final day of my 11th grade US history class where Bob and I spent a story filled year under an oppressive teacher. He was handing Bob his final exam, and I said to Bob, “I only studied for about 5 minutes before class started.” in which Bob replied, “Well at least you studied 5 minutes more than me.” Bob had academic gifts and managed do well on the exam. I always admired him for that. On the same day, we also were trying to cut out of school early to go to the Monsters of Rock tour at RFK stadium. There we would meet up with all of our friends whom we had maintained close relationships with through high school. That day turned into one of many occasions where all of our friendships combined into an event of stories and remembrances that are still spoken of to this day. Although Bob eventually moved a great physical distance from us who shared those memories, we always knew our friendships were in tact and whenever we were together again, more stories would arise. Measured miles cannot cut such ties. I have many mixed emotions regarding Bob’s passing. I am of course sad that I will not have the chance to see him again, reminisce, or create some new memories to share later in life. I am lucky to have had the experiences that all of my high school and college friends have shared with him. In reading many of the messages on this website, I see the joy he brought to many and I am thankful that I have shared in that as well. I will not forget Bob and am a better person for knowing him. He will be missed.
Mary Syphroena Zingg
September 16, 2003
Dear Bob,
I am very thankful you had such a wonderful mom who saw that you and Tracy had a very good upbringing and an excellent education.
Being a "long distance Grandma" had its disadvantages, espically when I sent you and Tracy a present. Lo and behold, I received a telephone call telling me "Thank you Grandma for your 'old shoes'." I was mortified as the present was still in the trunk of my car. Later Tracy said, "Now that we are teenagers, I guess Grandma will send us 'Clothes that are too small'." Well in the store everything seemed like a good fit. Now you know how you developed your wit and good humor everybody talks about- your genes.
I am very thankful to Linda, Rick and Tracy for keeping me up-to-date with pictures and telephone calls since you went to Japan, and espically now since the tragedy of your death. I can see how you loved Japan, and being a member of the Nagata Family.
I pray for your daughter Myra, your wife Chie, Mr. and Mrs. Nagata and your unborn child; also our Zingg family who bereave your death so greatly.
Your picture with your family is on my mantel, but you will be in my heart and memory forever.
Love, Grandma Zingg
Damon Sheaffer
September 15, 2003
Mr. Jones’ French class, The Hayloft, midnight movies, concerts, Prom, Tech and a whole lot more… A person doesn’t realize how many great memories a group of friends can make. Bob was undoubtedly the most amusing of us all. A person could not have known Bob without having a lasting impression of the outrageous outfits he wore. Bob was definitely an original. Even though miles and miles had come between us all, it only took a few short minutes last year for us to start reminiscing about those good old days. Bob was truly a caring person who touched many people and left many lasting memories with us all. I am without a doubt a better person for having known him. We will all miss him dearly. His family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Jeff Salisbury
September 14, 2003
Bob will be truly missed. His refreshing outlook on life and lust for adventure were what set him apart from others. Although we didn't get to see him much in the last several years, nothing changed when we did get to see him and it was like being back in high school again. He was a true original and I hope everyone remembers that. Good bye old friend. You'll remain in our hearts forever.
Chris Lehman
September 12, 2003
I'm sorry to hear about the tragic accident involving Robert. It is obvious from all the comments that he was a special person and touched the lives of many people.
His family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Chris Lehman
Doug Jackson
September 10, 2003
I have never met anyone at once so outrageous and so thoughtful as Zingg.
In the years after graduating from Virginia Tech we wrote each other occasionally, and saw each other even less. But regardless, each time Bob made it seem as if no time had passed, and no space intervened.
I have a ton of respect for Bob. And I miss him.
Russ Zingg
September 10, 2003
To the memory of my nephew Bobby,
Bobby, it has been a month since you physically left our lives.
May the Lord never allow you to leave our hearts.
Bob, throughout the years the things that never changed about you was your smile and the gleam in your eyes. You were the embodiment of your Mother's smarts and you Dad's wit. Your outlook on life, to me, was of simple facination. When you were learning to walk, you laughed at your successes and were undaunted at your failures. As a young man you were one of the most polite, though inquisitive, I had ever known. When you were the Best Man at your Dad's wedding, I cherish the quiet time you and I had together to talk and catch up on the events in each of our lives. Sadly, that was the last conversation we had, though, through your Dad and Grandmother, and other family members, I have been kept up to date with your life, career, and growing family. This world has lost a wonderful person, but your memory will live on, through your family and your friends.
I pray for the Lord Jesus to watch over your family that they may have an enriched and full life, even though you are not with them.
I will always remember your smile...
Robert Ernst Zingg
September 8, 2003
A bud blossoms on a bare branch
It's beauty enhances all around
The wind plucks it before it's time
The beauty remains in our memory
Memory lasts forever
Brenda Zingg
September 8, 2003
I only had the opportunity to meet my nephew Bobby on one occassion. He was an attractive, gracious man and I felt at the time that he was a special person. I've always only heard good things about him and am very saddened that he was taken from this earth at such an early age. I wish I had been able to know him better. My prayers and love go out to all the family. May God's grace and peace comfort you always.
Novey Wiley
September 6, 2003
Linda and Family,
Mere words cannot express the sympathy I have for the Nagata-Zingg family. I never met Bob but felt like I knew him through you(Linda). He blessed you with a beautiful granddaughter and daughter-in-law. Just know that all is well and we will see him again oneday. My prayers are with you and the family..always!
Lisa Fredrich
September 5, 2003
I'm sorry I never had the opportunity to meet Robert. His energy and love can bee seen through all these wonderful notes.
My condolences and prayers go out to his family.
Doug Bergert
September 5, 2003
Zingg showed up at the studio with a portfolio of the strangest work, packaged more professionally than any I'd ever seen before. He wanted to work for Michael Sorkin. I think maybe Doug Michels sent him our way. He was electric. It was refreshing meet someone with his enthusiasm. He was affirmative. He had bright yellow hair and a shoelace-skinny necktie.
When I learned he went to VPI, we talked about Scott Gartner, a design instructor I worked under at the University of Houston. Zingg was his student at VPI. We agreed he was a great teacher. We talked about architecture. It was a great start to a great friendship.
Zingg came to work at the Sorkin Studio. Smart, talented, energetic, enthusiastic...that never changed. We both lived the East Village. He helped my move to the West Village. He was always the muscle when you needed a hand.
He moved a couple blocks south. I helped him carry his mattress to the new place. I think that was the first time I met Chie, already a vital part of his life.
He skated everywhere. I would walk as he skated ahead, weaving through traffic, skating back and ahead again, talking the whole time. It was amazing, beautiful.
Later we worked for Gaetano Pesce. Of course, Zingg was enthusiastic, always pushing the work, making beautiful things. I strove to achieve the kind of strangeness that he produced so effortlessly. We worked in the Crosby studio, complained, cast resin, schlepped acetone and had a blast. Zingg was hilarious. He was a great man to work with. He pushed you.
When Krista was pregnant with our first daughter, we told Zingg before anyone else. He was our best friend.
Again, he helped me move. This time to Battery Park City. Krista and I had our misgivings about moving to the "burbs." Zingg was enthusiastic, of course. We were happy to have his approval.
Zingg and Chie moved to Japan. We moved to Minneapolis. We kept in touch via email. They sent beautiful gifts to our daughters, Sloane and Lina. Myra is a little younger than Lina. When they visited, about a year ago, it was wonderful to see our daughters play with Myra. We missed them when they left.
We miss Zingg a lot. He was inspiring, a great friend, a challenge to live full strength.
Chie and Myra, we're sorry for your loss.
Linda, we've never met, but I can only imagine how you feel.
Doug, Krista, Sloane & Lina
Mike Lawler
September 5, 2003
Throughout life, there are only a handful of people who have the ability to truly change who you are in a meaningful way. For me, I can honestly say that Bob was one of those people and I am a better person for having known him. Bob was more than just the exuberant, funny, smart, creative person so many of us loved. He was an inspiration. A brighter light than those around him. So many of the great memories from my youth are attributable to him, and I am grateful that the world aligned enough for me to have really known him.
Andy Pachuta
September 4, 2003
I always looked up to my Cousin Bobby as one of the coolest people I was fortunate enough to call family.
Now that I'm an adult (sort-of:), I recognize that "coolness" as Bob's zeal for life--The same zeal that has inspired my own life. From snowboarding to loving things mechanical, I attribute many of my interests to Bob, and I also hold him largely responsible for shaping my sense of humor.
You're loved and missed, but I truly beleive we'll see ya soon.
Gail Zingg
September 4, 2003
The first time I met Bob I thought,what a wonderful young man he was.I know how proud his Dad was when he was his Best Man when we got married. I also remember a time he took the metro to visit us and then on his roller blades from the metro to our home where he spent the day and laughed with us. He was such a dear,special human being.
We have pictures of Bob and his family up in our home and he will be so missed by all.I just wanted to say that his family are in my thoughts and prayers always.
Gail Zingg
Thomas Brody
September 3, 2003
I know words do little to ease your pain, however, I am truely sorry for your loss and I will have in my prayers that your families can find peace in coping with this tragedy...
David Williams
September 3, 2003
The first time I met Zingg was at Dewey Beach soon after Linda and I started dating. I will always remember the instant we met at the rental office and how comfortable he made me feel. We yelled "Norm" together while watching "This Old House", went to get chicken together while Linda slept and drank stout at Dogfish Head brewhouse while waiting for his bus back to New York.
Goodbye my friend, you will be missed.
Renee Hilleary
September 2, 2003
Linda and Tracy,
I was so sorry to hear about the passing of Bob...I only met him once but he was so energetic and he will be missed. My thoughts go out to you both and his family in Japan.
I will keep you all in my prayers.
Sue Keller
September 2, 2003
Remember the good times shared.
Judy Dixon
September 2, 2003
I was lucky enough to go through architecture school at Va. Tech with Bob. He consistently added a unique perspective, dynamic and cleverness to every situation. Whether it was wearing bowling shoes to structures class or moving his desk to the Lobby (and working there for a week) in lieu of pinning up his thesis drawings, Bob always pushed limits. And did so, passionately. Let us learn from him and be that passionate in our own lives every day. Thanks, Bob.
Drew Button
September 2, 2003
To the Nagata and Zingg families:
I am truly sorry to hear about Bob's death. I am studio friend of Bob's from VaTech. He had written and sent photos after the birth of Myra, and we had kept in touch off and on since his move to Japan. I had lived outside Tokyo when in high school and had shared with Bob stories of my young boys.
As I remember Bob ("Zingg") from studio, I remember a young designer who had a creative vision that was strongly independent and rare.
I wish to extend my deepest sympathies to both families, to Chie and to Myra.
Frederick Zingg
September 2, 2003
My son Bob was a wonderful young man. He was loved by so many good people it is impossible to measure the saddess of his passing. The love that he gave in return filled many hearts. He will be so deeply missed by so many. He lived his life with wit,charm,spirit and passion. He was truly a great gift to this world
Jim Black
September 2, 2003
My deepest condolences at the loss of such a fine person.
Jim
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