of Fairfax Station, VA on July 14, 2006; he was preceded in death by his father Rolando J. Santos. He is survived by his mother, Rosario C. Santos; two sisters, Katherine Bogacki (Russell) and Ceceily Santos; two nieces, Samantha and Bentleigh; two nephews, Owen and Nicholas and one cousin, Joan Baccay. Family will receive friends at NATIONAL FUNERAL HOME, 7482 Lee Hwy., Falls Church, VA, Sunday, July 16, from 4 to 8 p.m., where funeral services will be held on Monday, July 17 at 10:30 a.m. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Crisis Link, 2503 D N. Harrison St., #114, Arlington, VA 22207.
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Betsy Hernandez
August 7, 2006
Rolando was a great friend of mine and my heart goes out to his wonderful family. On behalf of the staff at Alternative Paths Training School, his patience with our students and unique sense of humor (including the bad jokes) won't be replaced. As my friend, I'll miss his ability to make me smile and willingness to always lend an ear, even for the small things.
Adelaide Ruffner
July 23, 2006
My heart goes out to the family. I met "Alan" in Charlottesville, VA. He was so easy to like. I throught of him often when he moved to Ga. and started a new charpter in his life.
Catherine McCusker yoon
July 21, 2006
My heart is with the Santos family. Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss.I have not seen Allan in many years, but I think of him often and will continue to carry him with me.
Margaux
July 21, 2006
Roland's sensitive spirit and quiet sense of humor immediately put all at ease who worked with him. My prayers go out to the family for strength.
Seeta
July 20, 2006
My prayers and thoughts are with Rolando's family. I am really glad that I got the chance to know Rolando through CrisisLink. I know we'll all miss him.
The Tomlins
July 19, 2006
Our deepest sympathies to Mrs. Santos, Trina & Russ and family, and Ceceily. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We will always remember Rolando fondly as he was a member of our family when he lived in Charlottesville.
Michael and Robin Tomlin and kids
Joe Henson
July 18, 2006
I miss you and your spirit. I didn't know you well at first but your openess and williness to accept people disarmed me. I grew to be your friend and I think we taught each other things that we would not have know on our own. I thank you for everything you gave me. You were there for me and I love you for that. I will miss you.
Malkia Perry
July 18, 2006
I am so sorry to hear this. I am shocked and saddened. I worked with Rolondo for a few months at the hotline. He was such a giving and wonderful person. He will be missed.
Maricar Regala Jenkins
July 18, 2006
My prayers are with the Santos family during this most heartbreaking time. I will never forget you, Allan.
Mark Haggerty
July 18, 2006
I also knew Rolando (Alan) in high school. Chris (signed below) and I were in a band with him. One thing that I remember about Alan was that he always challenged me as a friend. He never looked for the easy way. I felt as if he reached out and grabbed you by the collar to say 'Hey. I'm your friend'. For this reason, I will remember him for being a true friend in the purest sense of the word.
Christian
July 18, 2006
It was an honor of being trained by Rolando. His kindness, patience and sense of humor made him an excellent mentor and a wonderful human being. He will be missed.
lila corey
July 18, 2006
rolando, i wish we would have had the chance to hang out. if i were to have known this was going to happen, i would have joined you last week at that hawaiian party. God knows how much i regret not going. we had each other's numbers and we both intended to get together a few times, but things always came up. i want you to know how sorry i am for not joining you last week after running into you. maybe it was fate that i at least ran into that night. you were one of my favorite people that i met through crisis link. i saw some people write about how you are inspiring. it is very true because you had always inspired me. i will never forget you. with love, lila
Chris Stanzione
July 17, 2006
I knew Rolando (Alan) in high school and just found out today of his untimely passing. We were very close and I had been trying to find him for the last few months. I knew him as always smiling and being such a kind, wonderful, and talented friend. My heart reaches out to everyone who knew him...
Sly Bensmaia
July 17, 2006
Carpio! You were sweet on the guitar and we shared many great moments at UVa. You, Charles, Tito and I... The four horsemen of the apocalypse... AKA Creeper. Many great memories, my friend. I had been thinking about tracking you down recently and BOOM. Miss you, man.
Ibrahim Kaba
July 17, 2006
Eventhough I did not have the luxury to know Rolando that well, the few times he trained me, I was touched by his compassion and kindness. Wherever you are Rolando, I hope that you know that you will be greatly missed!
Mary
July 16, 2006
Rolando is one of those gentle and clear spirits who inspires others to be their best selves. I use the present tense, because spirits endure. His certainly will.
Jill McEwen
July 16, 2006
My thoughts and prayers go out to Rolando's family during this very sad time. Rolando will be terribly missed here at the CrisisLink hotline.
Aimee Evans
July 16, 2006
Rolando was a true friend and coworker of mine. He will truely be missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family during this difficult time.
C.A. (Morty) Mortenson
July 16, 2006
Rolando, You are so missed my friend, I feel comforted to know that you are now taking calls with your dad and I do expect you to nudge me if I step out of the house! You'll never be forgotten.
Emily
July 16, 2006
Rolando was a wonderful soul and I feel very lucky to have known him. He was my trainer for CrisisLink and then I was fortunate to work beside him this year as a fellow trainer. We will miss him so much. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
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