Menu
Search by Name
Search by Name
THOMAS BICHY Obituary
THOMAS L. BICHY
On Saturday, March 1, 2014 of Olney, MD. Beloved husband of Elaine B. Bichy; father of Christine (Tim) White and Brian (Ruth Ann) Bichy; grandfather of Kyle and Ian White and Lucas Bichy. Visitation at St. Peter Church, 2900 Sandy Spring Rd., Olney, MD on Thursday, March 6 from 5 to 7 p.m. with Mass of Christian Burial on Friday at 11:30 a.m. Interment Gate of Heaven Cemetery. Memorial contributions may be made to Montgomery College Foundation, Re: Thomas L. Bichy, Transfer Scholarship, 40 W. Gude Dr., Suite 220, Rockville, MD 20850. Arrangements by Cole Funeral Services, Rockville, MD. www.colefuneral.com
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for THOMAS BICHY
Alex Coke
July 21, 2025
Tom was a great soccer coach.he initiated me into a.wrica.wish I had stayed around him more.A Great soul.class of '94. The beat ream ever. Condolensces to the Family
Alexander Coke
July 21, 2025
March 4, 2019
On the anniversary of coach Bichy's passing, my condolences to Mrs. Bichy and the family.
Bob Bryer
May 17, 2014
My condolences to the family for their loss. I will always remember Tom through his efforts with youth soccer. His indoor tournaments at MJC were terrific. He advised me on coaching and encouraged my enrollment in John Ellinger's coach licensing classes. I will always feel indebted to Tom and the kids I coached share that debt indirectly.
Suni Zabala
April 15, 2014
Elaine, Chrissy, Brian and your families.
Mr. Bichy was a great boss. It was so nice to work with him for many years. I'm sure he will be missed by many. He always had such a positive attitude. Jane and I miss all the good laughs in the office. My sincere condolences to your family.
Paula Matuskey
March 18, 2014
Tom Bichy was an excellent coach, and most importantly, a strong advocate for students. I knew him as a colleague at Montgomery College for many years, and I will always remember his enthusiasm, his love of sports, and his genuine caring attitude.
Billy Harrison
March 13, 2014
Dear Elaine, Chrissy, and Brian,
We are so sorry to learn of Tom's passing. Billy has great memories of all the tennis matches they played together and of what a great competitor, role model, and father he was. You are in our thoughts. Billy and Sophie Harrison
March 13, 2014
"To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven...." I believe Tom was a shining example of God's purpose for how a good life should be lived. The world of all who knew Tom was a better place because he touched their lives. June Wrona (sister in law)
Carole (Burke) Pepin
March 9, 2014
What a great guy! My first crush. I remember when he moved from Baltimore to join our 7th grade class at Elm Street School. He fit right in and was admired for his athletic ability through out our years at FHS. I am so glad I spent alittle time with him at the last reunion. I remember thinking he had not changed abit. He will be missed by many. I bet he ws a terrific husband and dad. My sincerest condolences. "Burkey"
Fred Fox
March 9, 2014
Tom was one of the very finest people I've ever had the pleasure to know. He was a great leader and mentor for thousands of young adults as well as a generous friend to so many people.
Tom was a classical leader, leading by example, seemingly saying, "if you do as I do, everything will work out."
For Tom's influence and mentoring I will be forever grateful. And to his beloved family, I wish the very best in these very difficult times.
Monica Zink (Lemon)
March 8, 2014
Mrs. Bichy, Chrissy, Brian and your families,
I am so saddened to hear of Mr. Bichy's passing. I will always remember his smile and support of all the teams at SHS. May the memories of all the good times bring you comfort and peace during this difficult time.
March 7, 2014
Dear Bichy's,
I was sorry to hear about is passing. He was an excellent coach and gave great advice to all his players. He will be missed. My condolences to your family.
Eddie Farrell
Jerry Faraino
March 7, 2014
I was fortunate enough to have Tom as my uncle, as he married my mother's sister. We spent many Easter's at their house in Olney with their family and the house was always filled with laughter from all the relatives of the family. After I got out of college and was waiting to begin teaching in Bethesda, Tom found me a job at Brentwood CC where he ran the summer camp. I remember how much everyone, both campers and staff so loved Tom. He was without question one of the kindest, most gentle individuals I have ever had the pleasure to know. But don't for a second take that calm demeanor for granted if you ever found yourself on the tennis court with him as he was a fierce competitor. He loved competition of any kind and even though he loved to win, all he ever exhibited was pure joy for the pleasure of competing. He was a very gifted athlete, humble, gracious, kind and a man you would be proud to have coach/teach your kids. I spent many evenings with Tom and Elaine the summer I lived in Gaithersburg, and despite Elaine complaining about my eating all her grapes, I have nothing but fond memories of being around Aunt Elaine and Uncle Tom. He was a unique man, especially in these times. The last person he ever thought about was himself. He always put the interest of his players, students, kids, wife, relatives, friends ahead of his own. A more selfless saint you could not find. I will miss him, he was taken from us way too soon, but I will also cherish the fact that my life, along with thousands of others, was better off because we were fortunate to have had Tom Bichy in our lives.
March 6, 2014
Elaine, Chrissy, and Brian,
Jean and I are very sorry to hear of Tom's passing. We have many fond memories of Elaine and Tom on the tennis courts at Olney Manor Park. I also have many great memories of Tom during our years as teammates on the University of Maryland Baseball team. He was a great competitor and a wonderful person who always had time for everyone. We send our deepest sympathy.
Bob and Jean McCarthy
Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
Mitch & Ann Mieczkowski
March 6, 2014
Elaine, Chrissy and Brian, We are sorry to hear of Tom's passing. Please know he and all of you are in our prayers.
Don Haines
March 6, 2014
Sorry to hear the news. I hadn't seen Tom since FHS, but I remember him well. I find it hard to believe he is gone at such an early age.
March 6, 2014
Mrs. Bichy,
I was deeply sadden to hear of Mr. Bichy's passing. He was a great coach and even a better person. So many good memories during those years at MC (1969-1972). My condolences to you and the family.
Farzin Azarpour
Marshall Bo Mundy
March 6, 2014
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Bichy family. My memories of Tom are from the 60,s at MJC in Rockville. He was about my age so we had a lot in common. His kindness is what I remember most and that he was a great teacher and coach.
William Bedenbaugh
March 6, 2014
My heart goes out to the Bichy family in this sad time. Tom will always be a large influence in many peoples lives; those that he touched and those who will pass these great experiences and lessons on.
It was an honor to play under a fantastic Coach who knew how to bring the best out of people for a great team effort.
We will miss you, Coach.
Mike Gower
March 6, 2014
Our condolences to the Bichys for the loss of kind, well-loved, big hearted husband, father, grandfather, friend and coach. We wish you all comfort and peace during this time.
March 5, 2014
Dear Elaine,
I am so sorry to hear this news. It was a joy to know Tom. Such memories. I am thinking of you and sending my sympathy.
Carol & Sonny Baugh
March 5, 2014
I am very sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in family, friends and prayer (Psalm 65:2) during this difficult time.
Marjorie Frampton
March 5, 2014
Elaine: Sorry to read about Tom's death. Francis and I send our deepest sympathy.
Treva Siedling
March 5, 2014
My condolences to the Bichy family. I am an old friend of,the Bichy family and watched Tommy play little league baseball with my brother, Bill, and on to high school basketball and football at Frederick High School. So very sorry for your loss. I have fond memories of Tommy. God Bless, Treva (Cookie) Siedling
March 5, 2014
Dear Elaine,
I learned of Tom's death today and immediately felt the wind go out of my sails, so the saying goes. Joe and I are in Florida now and won't be able to make it to St. Peter's for Tom's funeral. Tom was one of my favorite people at the College, and I loved his compassion for all of his students, past and present, and his devotion to the College in general. I am so happy that he was able to play in the Foundation Golf Classic so many times with his fearless foursome. My heart goes out to you and your family. Tom was a wonderful, caring man. Peace be with you today and always.
Anne White
March 5, 2014
To all the Bichy's, you've lost a very special man , and to us a very special person! Coach Bichy was a small man in stature but he loomed larger than life over his brood ! By that i not only mean your immediate family , and too the 1000's & 1000's of lives that he made such an unerasable imprint on , mine included ! I went away to a large mid-west university that was a top soccer school! I became home sick after a while,so i headed back to Md. after visiting U of M-CP, i landed at Harvard on the Pike, i kind of felt like a failure after having so many div. 1 offers ! I'll never forget that look on his face when i walked into his office , those little beady eyes got as wide as silver dollars, as he reached over from his side of the desk trying to hug me while he said, " tell me your here to play soccer for me "! I said yes, so i did and i can say without any conviction it was absolutely the greatest & most enjoyable soccer experience of my life ! I wouldn't trade it for anything, it was special ! I developed a lot of life long friendships from my 2 years at MC , however Tom was not one of them, and for that i am deeply sorry ,i ask you for your forgiveness !!!! I know Coach was the pusher that got me into MC sports hall of fame , and i know the valuable lessons of life that he drilled into me , he always pushed me a little harder & challenged me to be a better soccer player.I wish i would of stayed in better contact! Coaches (teachers) are the next best mentors beside your parents, they have complete access to your mind your heart and your soul ! Tom Bichy left an indelible footprint on my life, i just wish i was half the man he was ! I kind of related Coach Bichy's career as that of Mr.Hollands in that memorable movie where the teacher kind of thought his life was maybe, uneventful. i don't think for a moment that he thought his life was uneventful, but it paralleld his career, he never coached at any major college or got the accolades he so richly deserved , he could of but he didn't he stayed right here in good old Rockville & for that a lot of lives were enriched, we are his OPUS !!! Your father was a GREAT MAN AND INDIVIDUAL Who's spirit and memory i will take to my own grave ! He went way to soon, May God bless you and Coach Bichy ! Until we meet again Coach keep on kickin ! Butch Bernard '75-'77 St. Loius, Mo.
March 5, 2014
To the Bichy family,
Draw close to God and he will draw close to you at your time of need. My sympathy to the family.
Bobbi Price
March 5, 2014
Elaine and Family,
So very sorry to hear of Tom's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bobbi & Woody Price
Michael Brown
March 5, 2014
Tom Bichy will be sorely missed; he was a great man, and a great leader. He helped shape the lives of hundreds of Montgomery College student athletes. His contributions to MC can never be over stated, he was a legend here and always shall be. I am privileged to have known and worked with him. Michael Brown
March 5, 2014
Laurence Boyd
Tommy, we surely will miss you buddy.
Showing 1 - 30 of 30 results
Make a Donation
in THOMAS BICHY's name
Memorial Events
for THOMAS BICHY
How to support THOMAS's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor THOMAS BICHY's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
