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THOMAS JAEGER

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THOMAS JAEGER Obituary


THOMAS M. JAEGER (Age 47)  
Of Great Falls, VA, and a summer resident of Middletown Spring, VT, died unexpectedly May 27, 2019 in VT. He was born on November 10, 1971 in Ridgewood, NJ, the son of Thomas W. and Helen (Calogrides) Jaeger. Mr. Jaeger graduated from Herndon High School in 1990, and Clemson University in 1994. Following graduation, he was employed by World Com before becoming a real estate appraiser for several years until his early retirement due to health reasons. He loved nature, Clemson football, music, and he particularly enjoyed playing the bongo drums. Survivors include his parents, Thomas and Helen Jaeger of Great Falls, VA and Middletown Springs; his sister, Christiana Jaeger, and her husband, Timur Tunador; a niece, Yasmin Tunador; two nephews, Noah Tunador and Joseph Tunador; two aunts, Doreen Thomas and Nancy Jaeger; and numerous cousins. He was predeceased by his grandparents, Morris and Adeline Jaeger, and Michael and Dorothy Calogrides; his aunt, Frances Calogrides Hanzas; and four uncles, Stan Jaeger, Christy Hanzas, Angelo Calogrides, and Andrew Calogrides. Friends may call from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. on Friday May 31, 2019 at the Durfee Funeral Home, 119 North Main Street, Fair Haven, VT. A memorial mass will be held at 1 p.m. on Saturday June 1, 2019 at St Anne's Catholic Church, Middletown Springs, VT. Burial will be in the Pleasant View Cemetery in Middletown Springs. A memorial service will be held in Virginia at a later date. Memorial contributions may be made to the National Association of Mental Illness (NAMI), PO Box 49104, Baltimore, MD 21297; St Anne's Catholic Church, C/O Durfee Funeral Home, P. O. Box 86, Fair Haven, VT 05743; or to the Community Readiness and Support Group C/O CSB, 8221 Willow Oaks Corporation Dr., Fairfax, VA 22031. 

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Published by The Washington Post on May 30, 2019.

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Alison Marr

November 2, 2022

Dear Tom, Helen and Christiana,

I am just learning of Tom's death and I can't begin to tell you how sad I am for your loss. It comes as such a shock. He was way too young... I think about our old neighborhood a lot and how nice it was to have such great neighbors. I remember the boys always being impressed with Tommy - he was the much older cooler kid! My heart is heavy. Alison Marr

Anne Weismiller

May 24, 2022

Thinking of you today. Prayers.

Brian Martin

September 9, 2020

Thomas was in Charleston interning after graduation. Several of us from Clemson hung out that summer and it was filled with fond memories. Rest in peace, you are missed.

June 22, 2019

May your family find your greatest comfort in the promises found in Gods word but also in precious memories of times spent with your loved one.
EO

Kiki Roumel

June 2, 2019

Dear Ones,
We are so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you constantly and wishing we could hug you all.
With love, Kiki, Ben, Luca & Aristotle Luna

Ron and Cathy Hinckley

June 1, 2019

Dearest Helen, Tom, and Christiana, our hearts are broken with yours as for a quarter century as neighbors and 40 years as friends we have shared family loves and challenges and this is the keenest of them all. Patti, Tom, Christy, and Dan join us in sending our deepest sympathies and prayers for his soul and your well-being. May God bless and keep you and may our love join His in reaching out to touch and succor you. Our tears mingle with yours in joyous memories and this awful loss.

Jon Centurino

June 1, 2019

He was a great guy and true friend, Tommy always had your back.

Anne Weismiller

June 1, 2019

Helen and Tom, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time of great loss. I know your pain. I remember Tommy from our days at Forestville Elementary. Hold on to all the precious memories of Tommy and he will forever be in your hearts.

Mike McMullen

May 31, 2019

So sorry to hear about this
Will always remember him from elementary and middle school
Rest In Peace old friend

Naomi Garcia

May 31, 2019

I was so sorry to hear. He was such a sweet guy. He had this shy mischievous side to him and I never heard him say a bad thing about anyone. I'm sure his presence will be missed. I pray the void will be filled with happy memories. God bless.

Sheila Stevenson

May 31, 2019

So sorry to hear about Tommy, will be thinking of you all in my thoughts and prayers.

Julia Samuels

May 30, 2019

I was very sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I knew him from Herndon High and WorldCom. I hope you may find comfort in fond memories of his life during this difficult time.

May 30, 2019

My deepest Sympathy to the Jagger family. May our heavenly Father the God of all comfort your family during this very difficult time.

Matt and Sarah Stein

May 30, 2019

To the Jaeger Family, please know that we are thinking of you during this difficult time and have been over the past few years. Tommy was a wonderful person and he will be missed by his many friends. Hugs to all the of you.

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