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Thomas Parrish Obituary
Suddenly on January 20, 2003 in New Hampshire, THOMAS D. PARRISH, formerly of Chevy Chase, MD. He worked at PRC, Inc., a division of Northrop-Grumman IT for over 30 years. He was a charter member of the Senior Technical Staff, and a key contributor on projects for the US Navy. Funeral services will be in New Hampshire. For more information, visit www.cournoyerfh.com
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for Thomas Parrish
Pamela Despres Parrish
February 21, 2003
Many Thanks
All of us, Michelle,Simone,Denise and I,want to thank all of you who made entries to this guest book. Your comments and prayers gave us a lot of support.
There will be a memorial service for Tom on Saturday, March 29 at 1pm at Our Lady of Lourdes Church in Bethesda, MD, with a reception at the Topaz House.
Again, thanks for all your support
Pam
Deborah Schaub
January 30, 2003
Dear Pam and Family,
I am deeply saddened to learn of Tom’s passing. Tom was a great friend and colleague who embodied a truly unique combination of brilliance and heart. And he was generous with his time and knowledge. No matter how full his own day, he was always available to help me, and anyone else, work through a problem—the doctor was always “in”.
Quick with the joke or bon mot, Tom was also a sentimental guy who genuinely cared about the people he worked with. When I left the company in 1997, saying goodbye to Tom was the hardest part—I had to make it the last thing I did that day.
Brilliance, heart, humor, generosity and love: that was Tom. The lives of all who were lucky enough to know him are emptier today. I will always think of Tom and that wonderful “belly laugh” of his with fondness and gratitude. (Thanks, Tom!)
Please accept my deepest sympathies on your loss.
Sincerely,
Deb Schaub
Brandon Buteau
January 30, 2003
Tom's rare blend of common sense and creative insight is missed by all of us lucky enough to have had the experience of his uncompromising wit and intelligence. He is a great role model for how not to take things for granted. I have this image of him standing before St. Peter and explaining how to improve the throughput of souls into Heaven....
Don Kiernan
January 29, 2003
Pam,
I consider the priviledge of working with Tom to be one of the highlights of my career with PRC (Northrop Grumman). You probably have never heard about the time Tom asked me to attend a Progam Review at CINCUSNAVEUR. Seems that the Contracting Officer thought that PRC was cheating the Gov't and Tom wanted me to come over to London to clarify what was going on. So, after I gave my pitch to a room full of Navy Brass, Tom came forward to give his technical briefing. Tom was briefing in his normal style, which was to guestion himself while he's briefing, wondering out loud whether their might be a better way of doing it, etc. Tom was always wondering if there was a better way to do things.To those who knew Tom, they accepted this as just the mind of a genius at work. To those who didn't, it could appear very strange. I was sitting in the rear of the room next to a Navy Captain. There was a CDR in front of us who turned to another officer and said who is this a--h---. The Captain leaned forward and said CDR, I understand you've only been here a short time, so I can forgive you this time. But I hope in 2-3 months, that you're wise enough to realize that your're looking at one of the greatest assets this Command has.
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Dianne Acton
January 28, 2003
My husband, Wil Mozingo, and I worked with Tom for many years at PRC and are saddened by his passing. We extend sincerest sympathy to his wife and his family on the loss of this truly good friend and colleague.
Lee Whitney
January 27, 2003
Pam,
I had the privilege of working with Tom for only five years, but I recall his retirement celebration at PRC bringing together many of his friends and admirers, some of whom had known him for over 30 years. I already miss Tom's insight in professional areas, but will also miss his wisdom and thoroughly enjoyable personality. My deepest condolences.
John and Bea (Burdick) Cover
January 24, 2003
Pam and family,
Thinking of you and sincerely hoping that time and pleasant memories will help to ease your loss. Tom will be missed by everyone that had the pleasure of knowing him.
Curt and Carol Erickson
January 24, 2003
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your loss.
We shared with Tom and the family a special love for Queen Lake. Give our sympathy to Jane as well.
Most sincerely, Curt and Carol Erickson
Barbara Armistead
January 24, 2003
Pam,
My heart is saddened with the news of Tom's unexpected passing. He was a mentor and friend to me at PRC and he will remain fondly in my thoughts and prayers.
May God bless you and your family as you deal with this loss.
Sincerely,
Barbara
Christian King
January 24, 2003
Pamela, Michelle, Simone & Denise,
I am shocked & heartbroken at your loss! And of course there are no words that truly help you all. Please know I am there with you in spirit and in meditation.
I am grateful I had at least one chance to meet Tom 3 years ago - he was funny and delightful! I expected there might be another meeting some day, but none of us can design our own destiny. Stay tight to each other. I am holding you from a distance. Peace to each of you.
Much love, Christian
Kirsten Colen
January 24, 2003
Dear Pam,
I was very sorry to hear about Tom. He was a wonderful person and was terrific to work with. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Jill Neugent
January 23, 2003
Pam and Family,
It is with great sadness that I send you my heartfelt condolences. Tom always wore a smile and served as a great mentor to his PRC colleagues. He was the Ben Franklin of our time.
Pat Boyle
January 23, 2003
Dear Pam and family,
I'm really saddened to learn of Tom's passing. Tom had a major influence on me and I've thought of his enjoyable company often. I hope your grief passes soon.
Sincerely,
Pat Boyle
Paul Sonnenblick
January 23, 2003
Pam,
I was shocked and saddened to learn about Tom’s passing. Although we only worked together for a relatively short time, I came to value him as a friend, co-worker and advisor. I shall miss him.
My sincere condolences to you and your family.
Nora Winstead
January 23, 2003
My deepest condolences, Pam. And, Tom, thank you for such wonderful memories at PRC. You always brightened the day through some of our more challenging assignments. And I cherish our commonality, short-armed Yanks.
Elspeth Paayne
January 23, 2003
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Susan/Hans Lindholm
January 23, 2003
We have lost a dear friend and a wonderfully sensitive,funny and erudite person.Thank you ,Tom.
The Cournoyer Family
January 23, 2003
Offering our deepest condolences at this difficult time.
Charles and Elaine Edwards
January 22, 2003
Thinking of you in your most difficult hour. You are not alone. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Judy Ouellette
January 22, 2003
Dear Pam and Family,
No words can I express for your loss except I have been there and I know the pain and grief you feel. So sudden and with much life to live. We can not question God's timing but trust that our loved ones will be waiting for us when our time arrives. I pray for your peace knowing full well that God's love will help you in your needs. Love, Judy
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