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Matthew D. Rolinger

1974 - 2021

Matthew D. Rolinger obituary, 1974-2021, Waterloo, IA

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1974

DIED

2021

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Matthew Rolinger Obituary

Matthew D. Rolinger

June 8, 2021

WATERLOO-Matthew D. Rolinger, 47, of Waterloo, died Tuesday, June 8, in his home. Matthew courageously battled an addiction to methamphetamine which ultimately took his life.

Matthew had a love of learning that thrived in his pursuit of a bachelor's degree in business and communications and a master's degree in philanthropy from the University of Northern Iowa. He applied his gifts of creativity, hospitality, and relationship building as Foundation Director for the Allen Foundation from 1998 until 2014, achieving state and local recognition for his efforts.

Matthew was a devoted member of the Waterloo community becoming a volunteer as soon as he entered the working world. Organizations that benefited by Matthew's volunteerism included Waterloo Chamber of Commerce, Arboretum, Main Street Waterloo, Volunteer Center of the Cedar Valley, United Way, Friends of Hartman Reserve, Downtown Waterloo Rotary, Greater Cedar Valley Alliance, Cedar Valley Coalition, Opportunity Works, American Red Cross, Junior Achievement, and Variety Club.

Matthew's struggles with anxiety and drug addiction did not interrupt his trust in God or his family. This faith served him well throughout all domains of life: philanthropic work, relationships with family, friends and community as well as his struggle with mental health and addiction. While fighting his demons in therapy, treatment, and spiritual guidance, he continued to seek ways to be a friend, brother, silly uncle, volunteer, and creator in writing, music, and interior design.

Matthew found joy in his pets, world travel, time with friends and family, and walks in local parks.

Survivors include: siblings, brother Mark (Lisa) Rolinger, sisters Cami (Steve) Smalley, and Susan Rolinger; 8 nieces, Meredith (Alex) Dwyer, Caitlyn (Joey) Hagarty Humphries, Abby Rolinger, Allison Rolinger, Hannah Hagarty, Liz Smalley, Madeline Hagarty, Clare Rolinger; and nephew, Ben Smalley.

Preceded in death by: parents, Russ and Jean Rolinger.

Services: 11:00am, Monday, June 21, at Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church. Lunch immediately following. The service will be live streamed via https:blessedsacramentwaterloo.org/blesac-live. Public visitation will begin at 4pm, Sunday, June 20, at the church, with a vigil and time for sharing at 7pm. Visitation will continue at the church for one hour before services on Monday. Hagarty-Waychoff-Grarup Funeral Service on West Ridgeway is assisting the family.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be directed to Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church or the family. Memorials to the family will be donated to organizations that fight addiction.

Condolences may be left with www.hagartywaychoffgraurp.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Waterloo-Cedar Falls Courier on Jun. 13, 2021.

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KATHLEEN NELSON

June 5, 2025

Matthew ...I think of you often....we had such a fun time in Ireland. You were such a great person. Such a tragedy...you are really missed. We needed more kind, gently souls like you in this world. Kathleen Nelson

Kathleen S Nelson

June 5, 2024

Oh Matt what a tragic loss and a beautiful life ended to soon. You were such a GREAT guy and it was an honor to know you.

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John Kenoyer

June 21, 2021

To the loving memory of Matthew. I remember him as a fine young man who was part of a beautiful family. My condolences to Mark, Cami, Susan and the whole family.

Frankie Knight

June 20, 2021

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep you and the family in my prayers.

Rob & Trish Dieter

June 19, 2021

Mark and Lisa--our thoughts and prayers are with you. Big hugs to your family.

Karen Mills

June 19, 2021

I am sad to learn of Matt's death. Our deepest sympathies to you all. We lived next door when Matt was born. Our daughter and he were friends in high school. I loved Matt's warm manner and the smile that lit up the room.

CRAIG WHITE

June 18, 2021

You were a good kid doing alot of good here RIP my friend

Dave & Carol Wirth

June 14, 2021

Mark & Lisa, so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Carolyn Gary

June 13, 2021

A Mass will be offered for the Rolinger family in memory of Matthew.

Kathleen Plager Nelson

June 13, 2021

Oh Matt....what a beautiful person...what a sad and tragic loss...you will truly be missed. My greatest sympathy to the family. Matt rest in peace.

Denise Lough

June 11, 2021

Oh I remember when Matthew would drop the rolinger girls off we talked, loved him

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20

Visitation

4:00 p.m.

Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church

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Jun

20

Vigil

7:00 p.m.

Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church

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21

Visitation

10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church

IA

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21

Service

11:00 a.m.

Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church

live streamed via https:blessedsacramentwaterloo.org/blesac-live, IA

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