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Cheryl Niles - Okie Obituary

Cheryl Niles-Okie 35, of Stroudsburg PA, passed away Monday, March 17, 2025 she died by being shot multiple times by her husband of seven years in an inexplicable act of violence. In addition of her parents she is survived by her children Caysen, 12, Makenna 6 and Emma 4. Cheryl was born on April 11, 1989 in Long Island NY, daughter of John and Valentina Niles and grew up as a happy, heathy child, full of energy and desire to succeed in her actions. She attended Monsignor McHugh catholic kindergarten and school and finished high school at Pocono Mtn West. Cheryl loved outdoors activities of swimming, ski, cheerleading and also loved playing piano, clarinet and flute. Following school she took courses at Bloomsburg Univ, Community College in Vermont and East Stroudsburg University. After all this, she decided to become a licensed nurse and practiced for a while. Later on, she developed a passion for plants and she started a successful business with rare plants in Clinton NJ being recognized by local TV and Radio stations. She was a good mother excelling in raising her beautiful three children and being a loving and devoted wife. Unfortunately, this happy stage in her life, with her children she adored and a job she loved, was brutally terminated through an irrational violent domestic attack. Visitation will be held on Monday, March 24th from 4:00pm to 8:00pm at Bensing-Thomas Funeral Home at 401 North 5th Street, Stroudsburg, PA. Burial will be Tuesday March 25th at 12:00pm at Stroudsburg Cemetery. To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Cheryl, please visit our floral store.

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Published by WFMZ-TV 69 News on Mar. 20, 2025.

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Gordon Olsommer

March 26, 2025

I am sad beyond imagination having heard of the passing of such a bright star. I can only offer prayers and energy of Goodness to be transferred to her lovely children and for the same to her Mom and Dad, Val and John. I can't imagine the loss of such a Glorious Blossom being picked from the Family Bouquet. May God's hands and wings forever guide and comfort Cheryl's precious Children and her loving and proud Parents, and may their souls be quieted of their sorrow.

I can only pray that the Angel of Cheryl brings rays of Light to the lives of her beloved.

Stefan Vandenakker

March 24, 2025

We’re so sorry for your loss. As family and friends the gap she leaves is immense. We only knew her from her beautiful store and she was such a wonderful person, full of life and dedicated to others including her 3 children. We hope beautiful memories of her will provide some solace and hopefully her children will be well cared for and grow up to make her proud.

Kathy Davidson Biechy

March 22, 2025

Another life taken by violence. This is so very sad. I am heartbroken for Cheryl and her young children. I am sorry for Cheryl's entire family. May God help the children cope with the loss of their mother.

Don & Patsy Schaller

March 21, 2025

Val and family. So sorry for your loss. God Bless your grandchildren & you & your Husband at this difficult time. Praying for all.

Joan O´Neill

March 21, 2025

To Cheryl´s family and Children. I am so very sorry for your loss. Being a victim of domestic violence myself this is a terrible loss for you all. May your Daughter RIP and the children rest well.

Jenna

March 21, 2025

I´m so sorry for your loss. Praying for peace for those three beautiful souls.

Isabel Rivera

March 21, 2025

John and family,

Know Your pain is being felt by many of us. I hope having those three beautiful grand children can ease some of your pain. God bless you.

Isabel Rivera

Mary Stravinski

March 21, 2025

I am so sorry for your loss, no words could ever take the pain away and now all you have are the memories of Cheryl ... my heart goes out to her parents and her beautiful children.. may she rest in peace

Roger Zarzycki

March 21, 2025

How sad, A beautiful woman and three confused and forlorn motherless children. Rest in peace Cheryl.

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