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Sheila Carter Obituary

Our beloved Sheila (Sen) Carter entered the kingdom of heaven on September 2 from the Heritage at Green Hills, Pennsylvania at the age of 65. Born in Hawaii in May 1960, she attended the University of Hawaii and graduated from Biola University. She was a registered nurse, starting at Queen's Hospital in Honolulu and then working in the ICU of several hospitals near Philadelphia. Her husband of 38 years, Jay Carter, describes her as "the most genuine and loving person I have ever met. My soulmate and love of my life." She was active in tennis (WTA), bible study, book club, and the Park Road Presbyterian Church. She was an avid sports fan of the LA Lakers, Eagles, and especially tennis. She always showed genuine interest and care for people and as a result, had many, many, friends. She is predeceased by her father, Clarence Sen and mother Diana (Kim) Sen. She leaves her husband, Jay Carter, brothers Wesley and Wendall Sen, sons Stephen and Keanue Carter, daughter-in-law, Madison Carter, stepchildren James R. Carter, Shannon Carter, Wendi Hamm, foster daughter Lotes Nelson, nieces Cherise, Courtney, Chelsie, and Christina. There is so much more family, including cousins she grew up with: Vena, Rhona, Jenny, Benton. Sheila was loved by many including her tennis club, baby-sitting co-op, homeschool group, Bible study, and her church family who blessed her spiritual fellowship since 1991, and meals since she was ill. Sheila wanted to be cremated and have her ashes scattered in the ocean in Hawaii. She wanted a celebration of life in Hawaii and in Pennsylvania, with no funeral service. Celebration of Life to be announced by phone text and please pass along the invite to anyone who knew Sheila when you get it. In lieu of flowers, please make contributions to Park Road Presbyterian Church, 1045 N. Park Road, Wyomissing, Pennsylvania 19610 or (parkroadchurch.com)/memorial/Sheila Carter. To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Sheila Carter, please visit our floral store.

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Published by WFMZ-TV 69 News on Sep. 4, 2025.

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Mary Lee Peterson

September 4, 2025

My sister-in-law, Sheila, was a dear friend that blessed our whole family. She was always wonderful to talk to, pray with, and share so many ideas. We are all so grateful for all that she did to bring the family together for so many memorable celebrations. There will always be a hole in our hearts because of her absence in our lives.

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