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Alan Alpert Obituary

Rabbi Alan Alpert, of Hamden, CT, passed away on August 21 at the age of 76, after a life well-lived. He will be lovingly missed by Meryl, his wife of 55 years, his children, Rabbi Jaymee Alpert & Danny Kischel, and Gary Alpert & Gavi Elkind, his grandchildren, Jacy, Luci, and Willow, his sister and brother-in-law, Sandra & Mike Cone, his nieces and nephews, Stephanie Goldenhersh, mother of Jacy and Luci, and many close friends. Alan was born, raised, and educated in New Haven, CT and moved with his family to Newton, MA in 1981. He was the executive and ritual director of Temple Emeth in Chestnut Hill, MA and later the rabbi of Congregation Agudat Achim in Leominster, MA, where he served with joy and enthusiasm for 18 years. Upon retirement, Alan and Meryl moved back to Connecticut to be close to family and high school friends. In addition to his family, Alan loved ice cream, The Rolling Stones, football, and travel, especially to Israel. Although his body may have slowed him down, his spirit and love of life kept him going. The funeral service will be held at 10:00am on Sunday, August 24 at Temple Beth Sholom, 1809 Whitney Ave, Hamden, CT and on Zoom: https://zoom.us/j/406004691 password: 181818 Burial will follow at Walnut Grove Cemetery, 817 Old Colony Rd, Meriden, CT. After the burial, everyone is welcome back to Temple Beth Sholom for a meal of consolation and Mincha at 3:30. Shiva Visiting Hours: - At the home of Meryl Alpert, 75 Washington Ave, #8-104, Hamden CT: Monday, August 25 - Thursday, August 28, 1:30 - 4:00 and 6:30 - 8:30 with minyan each evening at 6:45 and on Zoom: https://zoom.us/j/406004691 password: 181818 (Please park in undesignated spaces) - At the home of Gary Alpert and Gavi Elkind, 167 Adams St, Waltham MA on Wednesday, August 27, 5:30 - 8:30 - At the home of Jaymee Alpert and Danny Kischel, 56 Sterling Ave, Harrison, NY on Thursday, August 28, 5 - 8:30, minyan at 7:30. Donations in Alan's memory may be made to New England Donor Services (neds.org) or to the charity of your choice. To plant a beautiful memorial tree in memory of Rabbi Alan, please visit our Tree Store.
Published by WFSB on Oct. 1, 2025.

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Memorial Events
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Aug

24

Service

10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

Temple Beth Sholom

1809 Whitney Ave, Hamden, CT 06517

Aug

25

Service

1:30 p.m.

At the home of Meryl Alpert,

75 Washington Ave, Hamden, CT 06518

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Robert E. Shure & Son Funeral Home, Inc.

543 George Street, New Haven, CT 06511

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