Gary M. Boukus Sr.

Gary M. Boukus, Sr., 81, longtime resident of Plainville, loving father and a cherished grandfather, passed away peacefully in the comfort of his home on Saturday, July 5, 2025 surrounded by his devoted family. With a heart full of love and memories, he is now reunited with his beloved wife, Elizabeth A. "Betty" (Castiola) Boukus, who predeceased him in 2016. Together they shared 50 years of blissful marriage that filled their lives with joy and companionship. Gary was born on January 10, 1944 in New Britain, CT son to the late Charles P. and Helen (Pich) Boukus, Sr. In his youth, he was a talented pianist whose love for music resonated deeply; his melodies conveyed the warmth of his spirit and the moments that defined his life. He also found great pleasure in bowling, often visiting local lanes with friends and family. A devoted communicant of Our Lady of Mercy Church for many years and respected member of the Knights of Columbus, he found comfort in his faith. Even in times when he could not attend Mass at church, he watched daily Mass from home, demonstrating his commitment to his faith and the community around him. A proud recipient of his Master's Degree and his Six Year Certification in Teaching from the University of Hartford, Gary became a distinguished educator whose influence touched the lives of countless students throughout Central Connecticut. His journey began in Bristol, where he ignited a passion for learning, and ultimately found his niche in Farmington. There, he imparted knowledge and wisdom at both Irving Robin Middle School and Farmington High School, inspiring generations in the fields of math and science. He retired from the Farmington Educational System but did not give up his passion for teaching. Following retirement, he taught at the Learning Corridor Magnet School in Hartford. Beyond the traditional classroom, his influence extended to teaching drivers education at Farmington High School, where he guided young minds in the vital skills of independence and responsibility. A talented woodworker, Gary found joy in transforming the family home in Dover, New Hampshire into a haven of warmth and comfort, pouring his heart and soul into renovations with his own hands. This cherished retreat became a sanctuary for many summers spent alongside his beloved wife and family, a place where laughter echoed and lasting memories were created. Gary adored his 1959 Triumph TR3A, a car that mirrored his vibrant spirit and adventurous nature. Countless hours were spent polishing and restoring it, and it became a symbol of his dedication to craftsmanship and quality. His eyes would light up with joy whenever he discussed classic cars, sharing stories and memories that often drew in friends and family alike. Above all, Gary's greatest accomplishment was becoming a father and grandfather. He found immeasurable joy in his role as a grandfather, cherishing each moment spent with his grandchildren, who were at the center of his world. He took immense pride in supporting their dreams and endeavors and was always a constant presence in their lives. He leaves behind a legacy intertwined with love, dedication, and a profound commitment to family that will echo through the lives he touched. Gary is survived by his son, Gary M. Boukus, Jr.; his daughter, Helen M. Santini and her husband, Jason; his grandchildren, Logan Boukus, Maddison Boukus, Zachary Santini, and Alexander Santini; his brother, Charles P. Boukus, Jr. and his wife, Rosemary; his sister-in-law, Theresa Czak and her husband, David; his brother-in-law, Steven Castiola; several nieces, nephews, and extended family members; and his special friend, Leona Bisson and his close friend, David Dudek, Sr. He was predeceased by several extended family members and friends. Gary's family would like to extend their heartfelt gratitude to the dedicated staff of N4 at the Hospital of Central Connecticut- New Britain General Campus and Hartford Healthcare Hospice at Home. Your compassionate care in his final weeks provided comfort during a difficult time, and your kindness will be remembered with appreciation. Family and friends are welcome to gather on Saturday, July 12, 2025 from 9 AM to 11 AM at Plainville Funeral Home, 81 Broad Street, Plainville. A Catholic prayer service will begin at 11 AM. Committal will follow at St. Joseph Cemetery, Plainville, where Gary will be laid to rest with his wife, Betty and their infant son, Peter. Donations in memory of Gary may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude’s Place, Memphis, TN 38105 (www.stjude.org). For more information or to leave online expressions of sympathy, please visit www.PlainvilleFuneralHome.com. To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Gary M. Boukus, Sr., please visit our floral store.