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Hamilton-Toles Diane Obituary

Visitation Thursday, March 20, 2025 | 9:00 AM - 10:00 A.M. Greater Mt. Carmel Pentecostal Church 399 Goodrich St. Hamden, CT Service Thursday, March 20, 2025 | 10:00 A.M. Greater Mt. Carmel Pentecostal Church 399 Goodrich St. Hamden, CT Burial Evergreen Cemetery New Haven, CT Diane Hamilton-Toles, 71, of New Haven, passed away peacefully on March 10, 2025. Born on October 28, 1953, in Yemassee, South Carolina, Diane was the beloved daughter of Joseph N. Hamilton, Sr., and Corene Hamilton. She grew up in Connecticut and graduated from Eli Whitney Technical High School. Her passion for learning led her to further her education at Stone Academy for Business, along with training in emergency medical services and phlebotomy. Diane's dedication to service was evident throughout her life. She enlisted in the Army Reserve, where she proudly served as an LPN, including a tour in Kuwait. After 20 years of honorable service, she retired from the military. Following her military career, she began working at Macy's until they closed their store in New Haven. She then gained employment at SNET (now Frontier Communications) and remained a dedicated employee at the time of her passing. She was also a proud member of the Communications Workers of America Union. A woman of strong faith, Diane was a devoted member of the City of Refuge Ministry. She was known for her generous heart and unwavering willingness to help others. Her kindness, strength, and dedication to her family and community will always be remembered. Diane leaves behind cherished memories with her sisters, Shirley Williams, Dorothy Bacote, Ella Rena Hamilton, and Gwendolyn Ahmed (Rasool); her brothers, Dennis "Hambone" Hamilton (Terri) and Joseph N. "Rusty" Hamilton, Jr. (Natalya); her granddaughter, Corena Hamilton; great-grandson, Lemuel E. Hamilton, III; special cousin, Colonel J. Mauri Hamilton; dear friends, Joe and Peggy Grate and all of her close colleagues and friends at Frontier. She will also be deeply missed by her many nieces, nephews, extended family, and friends. She is reunited in eternal peace with her beloved son, Lemuel "Rif" Erik Hamilton; parents, Joseph N. Hamilton, Sr., and Corene Hamilton; grandson, Lemuel E. Hamilton, Jr.; great-grandson, Cayden Blakes; brother, Andrew "Bubba" Hamilton; and sister, Dinette Corene Hamilton. Diane's kindness, generosity, and unwavering love will forever live on in the hearts of those who knew her. A celebration of Diane's life and legacy will be held on Thursday, March 20, 2025, at 10:00 A.M. at Greater Mt. Carmel Pentecostal Church, 399 Goodrich St., Hamden. Friends and family may pay their respects during a visitation from 9:00-10:00 A.M. before the service. She will be laid to rest at Evergreen Cemetery, New Haven.

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Published by WFSB on Mar. 17, 2025.

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Command Sergeant Major (Ret.) John M. Botti, St. Petersburg, FL

April 6, 2025

To the Hamilton-Toles Family and Friends,

I'm so sorry and saddened to hear about the passing of Diane, please accept my deepest condolences. I knew Sergeant First Class Diane Hamilton-Toles for many, many years during her military career and well after. She was a very good Non-Commissioned Officer (NCO) who cared about her Soldiers, and fellow NCO's as well. She was a kind and compassionate person who will be dearly missed.

God Bless & Rest in Peace Diane

William Kane

March 29, 2025

Her life will be remembered by all. She attended Eli Whitney, Joined the Army and worked at SNET. I also followed that same line and I'm very sure GOD will be at her side because of all she did.

Apryl Hamilton Motichka

March 23, 2025

Auntie we all are sooo very heartbroken !! I'm going to miss our weekly conversations on the phone talking about this and that !! Missing you coming to 411 when we arrive in town!! Missing your Beautiful Soul!! I want to remember you from the last time we spoke when you ,Alex and I was on speaker phone you was laying down in your bed relaxing watching TV, we all was laughing, talking, and smiling I don't want to remember you in no casket stemming from a broken heart!! You are with your Beloved Son and family!! We love you all forever!!May you all RIP !! Amen Love, Apryl.

Apryl Hamilton Motichka

March 23, 2025

God give us all the mental strength during this difficult time of healing and accepting our family loss!! LOVE, Apryl

Ms. Cheryl M. Atkinson

March 21, 2025

To Diane's Family, Friends and Church Members and Co-Workers: You have my deepest sympathy in Her Passing. A beautiful person to know and I sure that She will be missed for years to come.
Ms. Cheryl M. Atkinson

Verdell M Roberts

March 20, 2025

Family of Diane Hamilton-Toles, We are saddened to hear of Diane's sudden passing. We are asking God to strengthen you now, and give you peace in the days ahead. Please be comforted by the outpouring of love from those surrounding you and know that God loves you most of all. Lee/Verdell Roberts, Columbia, SC

Jacalyn Rhodes

March 20, 2025

Condolences to Diane's family. May God grant you strength, peace and comfort you during this difficult time.

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