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James Matthews Obituary

James "Jim" William Matthews, 90, passed away peacefully at home on February 21, 2025. He was a devoted father, grandfather, great-grandfather, uncle, and friend, whose warmth and kindness touched the lives of all who knew him. Born in Hempstead, Long Island, Jim was the son of James Joseph Matthews and Ida Seaman. He proudly served his country in the Navy Seabees, where he was stationed in many locations, primarily throughout the South Pacific. His dedication to service was a defining part of his life, instilling in him a deep sense of discipline, resilience, and love for his country. Jim was predeceased by his beloved wife of 55 years, Mary; his cherished wife, Pallie; and their two infant children, Mark Dwayne and Kattie Lee Matthews. He was also predeceased by his parents and his two sisters, Jean Brainard and Vera Marshall. A hardworking and dedicated professional, Jim was employed in the Engineering Department at Yale-New Haven Hospital before his retirement. Prior to that, he worked at Avco Lycoming as a government security specialist. Outside of his career, Jim found great joy in being on the water. As a longtime member of the City Point Yacht Club, he cherished time spent fishing and sharing stories with family and friends. Jim is survived by his loving son, Michael Matthews Sr., and his wife, Kelly, of North Branford. He was a proud grandfather to Victoria (US Army Cpt. Jacob Mangus) and great-grandson Hudson Michael Mangus of Texas, Michael Matthews Jr. (Valerie Merlotto) of East Haven, and Marissa Matthews (Bailey Naslund) of San Diego, California. He is also survived by several nieces and nephews, who will always cherish the memories they shared with him. Jim lived a full and meaningful life, guided by love, faith, and an unwavering dedication to his family. His wisdom, humor, and gentle spirit will be deeply missed, but his legacy will live on in the hearts of those fortunate enough to have known him. May he rest in eternal peace. Visitation will be held on Wednesday, February 26, from 4–7 PM at the West Haven Funeral Home at the Green. Funeral services will take place at 11 AM at the West Haven Funeral Home for a Mass of Christian Burial. Interment will follow at St. Lawrence Cemetery. To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of James William Matthews, please visit our floral store.

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Published by WFSB on Feb. 22, 2025.

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