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Joseph Durante Obituary

Joseph N. Durante, lovingly known as Joe, passed away peacefully on April 30, 2025, at the age of 78. Born in New Haven, CT, on May 24, 1946, Joe spent most of his life in West Haven, where he built a legacy of family and friendship. Joe was predeceased by his beloved wife, Georgette, with whom he shared a life of love and devotion. He is survived by his children, Joseph R. Durante (Liz), Jill Grego (John Paul), and Julie DaCosta (Jason); his cherished granddaughters, Emma and Mila Durante, who were the light of his life; his sister, Sandy Powers; sister-in-law Susan; his adored niece, Tara Harvey; and his goddaughters Jennifer and Meredith. Joe proudly served his country in the U.S. Navy during the Vietnam War, a service that shaped his deep sense of duty and resilience. Following his military service, he dedicated 45 years to the State of Connecticut Department of Transportation, retiring with the respect and admiration of his peers. He found immense joy in the simple pleasures of life-Tuesdays at horseback riding with Mila, proudly watching Emma thrive on the ski slopes, traveling to Florida, and taking train rides to the city with friends. Joe was the kind of man who never met a stranger-people were drawn to him wherever he went. His presence was magnetic, his laughter contagious, and his generosity unmatched. Joe will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him. His spirit lives on in the stories shared, the lives he touched, and the love he gave so freely. Calling hours will be held on Thursday, May 8th, from 3-7pm. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in St. Joseph Church, New Haven, on Friday, May 9th, at 10am. PLEASE MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, the family invites you to honor Joe's memory by gathering with loved ones, telling a good story, and living life with the same full-hearted joy. Additionally, a donation may be offered in his honor to The Vietnam Veterans of America, https://vva.org. To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Joseph N. Durante, please visit our floral store.

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Published by WFSB on May 2, 2025.

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Linda (Durante) Shaw

May 9, 2025

I have many fond memories of growing up with Uncle Joe, Aunt Mary, Sandy, Joey and later Georgette. Miss you all.

Melanie Bauchmann

May 8, 2025

My thoughts and sympathy are with your family at this sad time.
Your Dad was truly a good friend to my husband Mark, and enjoyed some good times together.
May the love of those around you, help through the days ahead.
With sympathy,
Melanie Bauchmann

JEAN C FRANK

May 7, 2025

It is with love and Joy that I remember Joe. The vacations we took to Old Orchard Beach when Joey was just a baby: Mr and Mrs Ardito came along to help Georgette with him. The nightly trips to the boardwalk until they finally tired out. Truth be told we adults were probably more tired!!
Also good times at parties, weddings,and just hanging out.
My deepest sympathies to Joey, Jill and Julie.

lorraine masilunas

May 6, 2025

Having worked with Joe for many years I, like everyone else, enjoyed many laughs. Especially when he and Snookie, his sidekick, teamed up. They were the perfect comedy pair and so fun to watch! You never knew what antics they would get into. It was like watching a real life sitcom. Now they can be together again and entertain everyone in heaven. RIP Joe

Philip Borgia

May 6, 2025

RIP, my friend!
Growing up together in West Haven was a blast. Many great memories.

Phil Borgia

Brian

May 5, 2025

Rest easy coach. Thank you for everything. Ill never forget your kindness and patience

Marylou & Bill Boguniecki

May 5, 2025

Joe Jr. Jill and Julie,
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. Always remember the good times.

Charles Coyle

May 5, 2025

May he RIP he was a great person and friend prayers for his family

Fred lougal

May 5, 2025

RIP brother. God has another good angel

Keri Rosini

May 4, 2025

To Joe, Jill, And Julie, my deepest sympathies and condolences to you all. Your father was a great guy and I always remembered him being a hard worker and always a happy man.

My deepest sympathies and prayers.

Your Second Ave neighbor,
Keri Rosini.

Rosemary May

May 3, 2025

Rest in Peace, Cousin Joe. I have a lot of fond memories of you. Now you are reunited with Georgette in Heaven. My condolences to your family. Love, Rosemary May

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3:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

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10:00 a.m.

St. Joseph Church (New Haven)

129 Edwards Street, New Haven, CT 06510

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