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Kathleen May Obituary

Kathleen May, 63 Torrington – A celebration of life will be held in the Spring for Kathleen May, 63, who passed away on Saturday January 18th at Connecticut Hospice in Branford. Ms. May was born in Torrington on February 9th, 1961 to Annette and Nicholas Caputi (both preceded her). She moved to Wallingford over 30 years ago to raise a family and become involved in the local community. Many will most remember Kathleen from her involvement in Connecticut youth swimming programs, coaching YMCA teams and teaching swim lessons, and even competing herself until 2021. She was also an active golfer, playing in several leagues across the state. When she was not playing sports, Kathleen was spending time with friends and family, almost always including a walk, a hike, or a swim in a lake. She will be fondly remembered for her love of the outdoors, her optimistic outlook on life, and her drive to live every day to its fullest. She leaves behind her son, Michael May and his wife Alexandra Kaye, her two brothers, Nicholas Caputi and Thomas Caputi, and countless friends and family members. She is preceded by her daughter, Emma May. For more information about a celebration of life, please reach out to her son Michael. In lieu of flowers, spend time with the ones you love and go for a walk outside

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Published by WFSB on Jan. 24, 2025.

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Patti Gannon

March 1, 2025

Michael and family, kathy´s bookclub friends in VT just learned of her passing. I met Kathy in a walking group then joined bookclub together and became fast friends. I will miss her cherry smile and friendship. My deepest condolences to you and your family. (I am including my email and would be interested in receiving information about the Celebration of Life. Thank you)

Heidi

February 28, 2025

I met Kathy in Vermont playing Pickleball. She was a beautiful soul. I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your beautiful Mother, Michael.
The world was a better place with her in it.

Jennifer Carroll

February 10, 2025

I´m so sorry to learn of Kathy´s passing. My kids were coached by Kathy while on the Wallingford Dolphins swim team. Kathy was always so wonderful to my kids, especially to my daughter. She helped to nurture my daughter´s love of swimming. She will be missed. Sending prayers to Michael and the rest of the family.

Dee Perlotto Cusati

January 27, 2025

My thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time. Many memories of your mom, Michael. May she rest in peace.

RICHARD CONCANNON

January 25, 2025

Prayers for the Caputi May family at time. My your memories place a smile on your face has you remember one beautiful person.

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