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Lorraine Lupi Obituary

Lorraine Rosemary Lupi, 99, of Hamden, passed away peacefully on April 30, 2025, at Yale New Haven Hospital surrounded by her family. She was the beloved wife of the late Peter Paul Lupi Jr. Lorraine was born in New Haven on September 12, 1925, to the late Fredrick and Rose (Pullano) Starno. Lorraine was a lifelong Hamden resident and graduate of Hamden High School. In her early years, she was a bookkeeper for her husband at Lupi Legna Bakery. She also held various administrative assistant positions including at Yale University. She retired from Raccio Insurance and Real Estate in Hamden. Widowed at the age of 47, Lorraine devoted herself to her two teenage sons. A devout Catholic, she was a longtime parishioner of Blessed Sacrament and Mount Carmel Church in Hamden. Lorraine enjoyed traveling, dancing, reading, cooking, visiting her many friends, but mostly loved spending time with her cherished family. Those who knew Lorraine will remember her as a thoughtful, intelligent, and compassionate woman with a wonderful sense of humor. She touched the lives of so many and will be deeply missed by all who knew her. She was the mother of Peter P. Lupi III (Josephine) and Kenneth E. Lupi (Madelyn); and loving grandmother of Kenneth Lupi Jr. (Emily), Peter Lupi IV (Elisa), and Amanda Lupi. Great-grandmother to Harrison Lupi and Logan Lupi. She is survived by her sisters-in-law, Theresa Schettino, Teresa Lupi, and Barbara Lupi as well as many nieces and nephews. She was pre-deceased by her stepfather, Fred Schettino, brother, Alfred "Bingy" Schettino, sister-in-law, Constance Capasso, and brothers-in-law, Rudolph Lupi, William Lupi, and John Lupi. The family is truly grateful to friend and caregiver, Lois Maselli, and would like to thank the staff at Elim Park for their dedicated care and compassion. Calling hours will be held Sunday May 4th from 4 - 7 pm in the Peter H. Torello & Son Funeral Home, 1022 Dixwell Ave., Hamden. Friends are asked to go directly to Blessed Sacrament Church Monday at 10:30 am for a Mass of Christian Burial. Interment will follow in Beaverdale Memorial Park.

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Published by WFSB on May 2, 2025.

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Betsy Scarpitti

May 7, 2025

I met Lorraine when I started working at Raccio Ins. A very kind woman who helped me adjust to a job after being a stay at home mom for quite a few years. Prayers to her family.

Al Civitello Jr.

May 6, 2025

Peter and Kenny, so sorry for the loss of Mom. She was a wonderful person and great friend of my moms. I have fond memories of of her since I was young. Take care.

Debbie Casale

May 5, 2025

Peter and Kenny &family, sending you our condolences for the loss of your mom. The memories I have growing up on circular ave and my Dad working for the bakery will last a lifetime. May she rest in peace and watch over your family.

Amalia (Ruocco) Strawhince)

May 5, 2025

Dear Peter, Kenny and family. So sorry for hearing about the passing of Lorraine. She was a wonderful lady. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. RIP Lorraine.

Rebecca Scolaro

May 4, 2025

I have very fond memories, of Lorraine,
So sorry for your loss
Rebecca Starno Scolaro
Daughter of John and Jean Starno

Donna Frandy & Family

May 3, 2025

Our sincere condolences to all! Lorraine was a wonderful, kind and classy woman. May she rest peacefully

Jeanie Starno Tovrea

May 3, 2025

We send our condolences to the Lupi Family. We haven´t seen each other for years, but your Mom was always so beautiful when we did see her.
My parents loved seeing her when they went to CT, John & Jean Starno from Long Island.
Again, Lorraine will be missed and what a kind special lady she was.
Jeanie Starno Tovrea

Carrie Morton O'Connor

May 3, 2025

To Peter and his family, I am sending you and your family as well as your extended family my sincerest condolences on the passing of your beloved Mom. What an amazing journey and fulfilling life she experienced in her 99 years on this world. Please know that you are all in my prayers as you are going through the grieving process. It is never easy to say goodbye even at the wonderful age of 99. May she rest in peace and may her loved ones be filled with all of the wonderful memories you created with her. God bless!

Guy DAniello

May 3, 2025

So sorry about the loss of Lorraine my condolences to all the LUPI FAMILY RIP

Bernie McLoughlin

May 3, 2025

Dear Peter, Ken and Family
Condolences on your mother´s passing

John Scalzo

May 2, 2025

Kenny and Peter I´m so sorry for the loss of your mom. What a pillar of strength. It doesn´t matter how old you are, losing your mom always hurt.

lawrence drago

May 2, 2025

She continues to look beautiful at 99 years.
She was a neighbor and remember her late husband.
She beat us to paradise!!

Mark and Rosemary Engengro

May 2, 2025

Peter, so very sorry you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Barbara Consiglio

May 2, 2025

Peter, so sorry for your loss.

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