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Rufus David Desso Jr.

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Rufus Desso Obituary

Rufus David Desso Jr., 96, of Somers, CT, passed away on February 19, 2025. Born in Enfield, CT, on February 9, 1929, he was the son of the late Rufus D. and Euphemia (Sinton) Desso, Sr. Rufus proudly served in the U.S. Army during the Korean Conflict, and throughout his life, he remained a devoted and active member of his community. He resided in Somers for 26 years, he had previously lived in Stafford Springs and Melbourne, FL. Rufus retired from the Connecticut Department of Correction after 24 years of service and served as a constable for the Somers Police Department for many years. A longtime parishioner of Somers Congregational Church, Rufus cherished friendships with people from Florida all the way to Maine. He will be remembered for his kindness, strength, and dedication to those around him. Rufus is survived by many nieces, nephews, friends, and many extended family members who will miss him dearly. He was predeceased by his beloved wife, Eleanor (Palmer) Desso, in 2019, as well as his sons Richard and Scot Desso and his sister Phyllis Sweet. In lieu of flowers, please consider a memorial donation in Rufus' name, in honor of his wife Eleanor, to the Alzheimer's Association, P.O. Box 96011, Washington, DC 20090-6011. Relatives and friends may join the family on Friday, March 14, 2025, from 5 – 7 pm at Somers Funeral Home, 354 Main Street, Somers, CT 06071. Burial will be held privately at the convenience of the family. For condolences online please visit somerfuneralhome.com

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Published by WFSB on Feb. 22, 2025.

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Amy Deane

February 26, 2025

Rufus was such a kind and gentle man. I had the pleasure of working for him and Eleanor at the Ice Cream Depot. They were wonderful to me.

sheila moro

February 24, 2025

we will miss you very much roy enjoyed going hunting with you last fall you were like a second father to me an i want you an dad an all the rest in heaven to have fun being together again love always

Elaine Demers

February 23, 2025

Rufus and Eleanor were wonderful neighbors in Stafford for many years. They are together again with their two sons in Heaven where there is just complete joy. God Bless all of you.

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