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Heather McCain Obituary

Heather Dawn McCain, 49, of Hallsville, passed away August 23, 2025 outside of Perry. She was born on February 20, 1976 in Lancaster, South Carolina the daughter of Kenneth Washburn and Karen Keziah Roberts. She married Benjamin McCain in January of 2006 and he passed on August 23, 2025 as well. Survivors include four daughters; Kala White (Jeff Martin), Karena White (Ryan Kanak), Ashylnn White, and Jillian McCain (Blaine Cort) all of Hallsville, her parents; Kenneth Washburn of Moberly and Karen Roberts of Sedalia, one brother; George (Cassie) Washburn of Kansas City, one sister; April (Paul) Frost of New York, five grandchildren; Courter Kanak, Meliah Kanak, Jaxson Coyne, Emma Coyne, and Onyx Martin, along with nieces, nephews, other relatives and a host of friends. Heather was a fun-loving, witty, and deeply compassionate woman whose greatest joy in life was being a mom. She often said her purpose in life was to be a mother and she fulfilled that calling wholeheartedly. As the proud mom of four daughters, she poured all of her love and energy into her family and nothing brought her more happiness than being with them. Her love only multiplied as she became an amazing grandmother to two granddaughters and three grandsons. She treasured her time with them, filling their lives with laughter, guidance, and unconditional love. Heather's caring nature extended well beyond her family. As an excellent nurse, she saved countless lives and touched many more with her kindness and skill. She was always helpful, never knew a stranger, and had a gift for making others feel cared for. Friends and loved ones will remember her as loyal, smart, and always willing to lend a hand. She loved the South, cherished her family most of all, and found joy in her plants and rocks-always on the hunt for a special new piece to add to her collection. Heather had a big heart and she loved Ben with all of it. Their bond was one of deep devotion and shared laughter, filled with love and friendship. Heather leaves behind a legacy of love, humor, and compassion. She will be remembered not only as a devoted mother and grandmother, but also as a true friend, a skilled caregiver, and a woman who made the world brighter for everyone around her. Funeral Mass will be held on 2:00 PM, September 5, 2025, at St. Thomas More Newman Center at 602 Turner Ave. Columbia, MO. Visitation will be from 1:00 PM until the time of the Mass at the church. A celebration of life visitation will be held September 6, 2025 from 2-4 PM at Rocky Fork Fellowship 12095 North Route B Hallsville, MO. Memorial contributions may be made to Disabled American Veterans in care of Bienhoff Funeral Home, PO Box 427 Perry, MO 63462.

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Published by WGEM on Aug. 30, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Heather McCain

Sep

5

Visitation

1:00 p.m. - 2:00 p.m.

St. Thomas More Newman Center

602 Turner Ave., Columbia, MO 65201

Sep

5

Service

2:00 p.m.

St. Thomas More Newman Center

602 Turner Ave., Columbia, MO 65201

Sep

6

Visitation

2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

Rocky Fork Fellowship

12095 North Route B, Hallsville, MO 65255

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Bienhoff Funeral Homes, L.C. - Perry

401 Salling St. P.O. Box 427, Perry, MO 63462

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