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Alice Cheang
November 19, 2023
Ray still touches and heartens me with his gentle influence.
Curtis Sandberg
November 19, 2022
Today we´ll be mindful and think of Ray. He was a bright light in my experience creating cultural diplomacy projects. Because of his masterful treatment of historical documents and lucid, approachable writing style we created an exhibition of early photographs that opened in Washington, DC, and after a venue in Beijing traveled extensively around China. Ray was also a delight to work with and I remember his sense of humor and genuine kindness.
Alice Cheang
July 29, 2022
I was in the Harvard-Yenching Library for the first time since the pandemic, and went down into the basement in search of books, near where Ray's office used to be. Ray was already heading the Western section of the library by the time I was in grad school, so our relationship was that of senior to junior ( to ). We never exchanged more than a few words at a time, and yet, over many years, those words added up into a store of fond memories. Ray had an excellent sense of humor, and his voice (which I remember vividly) held a twinkle, the way some people's eyes twinkle. Each time I think of him, the memories release a fresh drop of happiness.
Curtis Sandberg
February 11, 2021
I recall Ray’s invaluable contribution to the “Path to Harmony” exhibition that chronicled US-China relations from the late 18th century to the reestablishment of diplomatic relations in 1979. Ray was a delight to work with and the result of our collaboration was a series of much-appreciated exhibition venues in China. I’ve long thought of Ray and remember him fondly as a great partner and a curious, kind, and thoughtful person. We were fortunate to know him.
November 19, 2019
Many things and occasions remind me of Ray even now. He lives on.
Alice Cheang
February 4, 2017
I don't think we ever get over missing a loved one after he or she is gone, but we do eventually get used to the sadness, and then the happy memories shine more brilliantly.
Richard Lesage
February 3, 2017
Always in our hearts.
Steven Leibo
May 12, 2016
I only just found out about Ray's death and that after he did not respond to a suggestion about having lunch together again. What a shock! He was always extraordinarily kind and supportive and will be deeply missed by everyone who worked in the field of Sino-Western relations.
Steven Leibo
Stephen Feldman
April 13, 2016
Retired to Manila and former owner of Asian Rare Books, I just sadly note that Ray Lum has died. I should say preceded me in death, as I possibly have a growing number of posthumous reunions to anticipate, and especially with folks as kind to me as Ray was.
Grace Chun
April 8, 2016
Ray was generous with helping provide memories, photos and items from his family whenever asked for the Chinese-American Museum of Chicago.
He also was open to answering queries on other Chinese concerns. He will be missed.
Grace Chun
March 24, 2016
I am sadden to learn of Ray's passing this morning through friends at Chicago's Chinatown Museum. We both shared a great interest in Chinese American history. We had dinner together last year in Chicago and was looking forward to seeing him in Boston this year.
My deepest sympathy to his family as he will be missed.
Susan Lee Moy, Chicago
Wendy Zeldin
December 13, 2015
I met Ray in graduate school. His wit and ironical sense of humor, fast-talking warm manner, and general aura of somewhat mischievous goodliness made it a pleasure to run into him and to always look forward to such opportunities. While feeling a sense of joy at a life so well lived, I am very much saddened to learn of his death. Please accept my deepest condolences.
Penny & Tom McEnaney
December 13, 2015
So sorry for your loss, he was a incredibly smart, talented humorous man! Glad to have known him even thought it was only on occasions!!! Memories will keep him alive in your mind and heart forever!!
Jim Devaney
December 12, 2015
Rest in Peace
December 10, 2015
I am sorry for your loss. May prayer comfort you.
1 Thessalonians 5:17 "Pray constantly."
Carol Chin
December 7, 2015
I worked with Ray from 1977 to 1983 at the Yenching Library. Knowledgeable, warm-hearted, and generous, he was the ideal boss, mentor, and friend. I always tried to look him up when back in Cambridge, but I regret not having seen more of him in recent years. I will miss him.
Raymond at his Harvard-Yenching Library office, 2005. The world lost a free but thougtful spirit.
Susan Chan Egan
December 6, 2015
Alice Cheang
December 6, 2015
Ray was my senior at Harvard, but I came to know him only after he became the head of the western section of the Harvard-Yenching Library. Over the years, I would see him from time to time when I visited the library, and he was always-- always--welcoming, gracious, and kind. I am deeply sad to learn of his passing, and my heart goes out to his family with sympathy for their bereavement and warm appreciation for his life. Thank you, Ray!
December 2, 2015
Please accept our sincere condolences at this sad time. (Psalm 18:2) ~ Nicky
December 1, 2015
We are sorry to learn of the passing of Ray, but grateful for his service to our nation with the Peace Corps in Malaysia.
Our Condolences,
The National Peace Corps Association
Ray at 18.
Glenn McGeath
November 26, 2015
Ray in Hawaii on way to Malaysia, Peace Corps.
Glenn McGeath
November 26, 2015
Ray at one of his Harvard offices.
Glenn McGeath
November 26, 2015
Me and Ray, Ninteen Sixty Something.
Glenn McGeath
November 26, 2015
Besides sharing the same Mother, we also shared a love of Genealogy. I will miss emailing him and sharing our family history. My brother was someone I always admired and looked up to. I will deeply miss him. I loved him.
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