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Maxine Turley
January 8, 2021
I do remember Tom and if my Jerry was still with us he would have many special words to say about Col Nickerson. I was the Reserve Liaison Officer at JIATF East (and through all other iterations of that commands name) in Key West Florida. My memory is not as good as it once was but I do remember Tom being there with all of us when we had our Friday "get together" with our Air Force Reservists and with other JIATF personnel that the AF worked with. They were great fun and we all got to know more about each other during these times. Good or bad (though I do not remember any bad!). Tom was a very nice and kind person and was always ready to help us out. I am truly glad Jerry and I knew him.
Retired Colonels Vernon Vandiver and Tom Nickerson enjoying summer on the Cape.
Vernon Vandiver
January 3, 2021
A great friend to all his USAF buddies.
Tom Nickerson enjoying Cape Cod
Giles Light
January 3, 2021
Tom always enjoyed his summers on the Cape.
Ron Jones
December 27, 2020
Saddened to hear of Tom’s passing. I met Tom in the mid 1990’s in Key West while in the USAFR and will always remember his friendliness and good humor. My deepest condolences to his family. I know he will be missed.
Elio Castellano, Col (R), USAF
December 27, 2020
I met Tom during military duty in South Florida. He was a kind and gentle man who inspired a lot of us more junior officers. He was a good mentor and a leader who made things happen. He will be missed! Rest In Peace my friend.
Terry Maddeaux
December 26, 2020
I’m saddened of Tom’s passing. He was my friend for about 25 years. We met in Key West Florida around 1994. Always friendly and joked around. He had a laugh that was contagious. He never lost his New England accent and I’d make fun of it since I was born and raised in Canada and really had no accent. He was a wonderful man, a good friend and a patriot. He will be missed. RIP my military brother.
Marty Khan
December 25, 2020
Colonel Thomas Nickerson was an American patriot, with a rich family history in Cape Cod, and his passing was a loss to everyone who really knew him. Tom was an incredible true friend to me for over twenty years -- we met in Key West, while I was on USAFR duty. On numerous occasions (my doctoral studies, my promotion to colonel, and my civilian career in DOD), Tom mentored me, and gave me advice that were priceless. In addition, in our many, many conversations, Tom always shared his love for his children, his family, and his wife, Carol. We spoke fairly often, and his love and concern for America was clearly evident. I had the honor to visit Tom in Cape Cod for lunch years ago, and he showed me the places where he lived and grew up. In addition, and a first for me, I saw how cranberries were grown ... Tom, proudly showed me his behind his house! For me personally, Tom was an exceptional individual I interacted with in my life. I will remember him always as a friend. Colonel Thomas Nickerson, in the true tradition of his ancestors who came to America and landed in Cape Cod, worked hard, served his country with distinction, and as such, was an American patriot! I will miss him, and I also know he will be missed by countless others, especially, his children, and his loving wife, Carol. God bless Tom.
Marty Khan
Vernon Vandiver Jr
December 24, 2020
Tom was a long-term friend and colleague. I believe I met Tom around October 1992. Tom being retired Army, and we were just moving our Air Force Reserve Intelligence Detachment from Homestead Air Force Base, which was essentially destroyed by Hurricane Andrew, down to JIATF-East on Truman Annex on Key West. With Tom's Army rank and skill, and his civilian position as being in charge of Civilian Security on Truman Annex, Tom did many favors to our AF Detachment. For one example, when we had visiting AF VIPs to our Detachment, Tom marked off parking for our cars right on a Truman Annex street, right across the City street from Kelly McGillis' Restaurant.
Tom was a host to Fran, my wife, and me, many years on the Cape. Tom toured us from his small school, to many ball games in the Cape League.
Tom did have a Cranberry Bog behind his house. He had cleaned the bog enough that there were enough Cranberrys that I picked enough berries that I sent via FedEx to Beth and Tommy so they could mix with commercial berries and have Daddy's berries for Thanksgiving.
God Bless Tom. A friend always.
Charles and Jane MacDonald
December 20, 2020
Tom was such a wonderful gentleman...the Southernmost gentleman. Jane and I got to know Tom almost thirty years ago in Key West. While in the Air Force Reserve, we had so many good times with Tom and Shaun Barrett and others in Key West. We will always remember Tom’s smile and cheerful accent. (My wife Jane’s family was also from Massachusetts and had a place on Cape Cod, too.). I salute you Colonel Nickerson.
Ruthann Kulesza (Rose)
December 20, 2020
I worked for Tom when he was branch manager at Hyannis Co-operative Bank in Orleans. He was a great boss and very kind to his help. I deeply respected him. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family
Marylee McGregor
December 20, 2020
I had the pleasure of meeting and getting to know Tom when I visited a friend on military duty in Key West in the 1990's. Saw him for the last time about 3 years ago when we had lunch with Tom and Carol on the river in Bradenton, FL. He was such a friendly, thoughtful person. I know he is missed by many and especially by his family.
Giles Light
December 19, 2020
So very very saddened to learn of Tom's passing. He and I have been frieds for more than 25 years and fellow warriors for almost three decades. I was one of a number of USAFR members who became friends of Tom when we headed to JTF-4 and its successors starting in the early 1990s. After our Air Force members retired, like Tom, we stayed in touch over the years and saw each other once or twice a year. We will miss him. Rest in peace my friend.
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