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Franklin Mahlau Obituary

Hampton, VA - The Reverend Franklin Andrew Mahlau, Age 79, of Hampton, VA, died Sunday October 27, 2013 at the Legacy Home for Hospice in Ft. Monroe, VA. Born in New York City during the depression, Frank enlisted in the Army, rose to the rank of Major; attended Hobart College and General Theological Seminary. The Rector of St. James Episcopal Church, Hyde Park, for 19 years, he also served several Massachusetts parishes in Boston, Charlestown, North Attleboro, and Needham. He retired to Orleans on Cape Cod, where he opened the Nutrition Shack. He was the proud father to Marina Goldman and her husband, Joshua, of Montague, MA, Sam Mawn-Mahlau and his wife Alicia of Winchester, MA, Patricia Mahlau-Heinert and her husband Jerry of Norfolk, VA, Kristen Merryman and her husband, Steve, of Portland, OR, and Charles Mars-Mahlau of Portland, ME, foster father of Judith Lane of El Paso, TX, and grandfather to eleven; beloved brother of Eugene Mahlau of Ossining, NY and the late Reynold Mahlau of New York, NY, and dear uncle to many nieces and nephews. There are no calling hours. Funeral services will be at 11 am, Wednesday, October 30th at St. James Episcopal Church, Rte. 9, Hyde Park. Rev. Chuck Kramer will officiate. Burial with military honors will follow in St. James Churchyard. Contributions in lieu of flowers can be made to The Legacy Home for Hospice, The Chamberlin, 2 Fenwick Rd., Apt. 510, Ft. Monroe, VA 23651. Arrangements are under the direction of Sweets Funeral Home, Inc., Rte. 9, Hyde Park. To send an online condolence or for directions, please visit www.sweetsfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Wicked Local Cape Cod from Oct. 29 to Nov. 4, 2013.

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Anne Nietert

October 22, 2021

Our three years in Hyde Park were blessed by our close friendship with Frank and Cindy.

Anne Nietert

October 22, 2020

I remember with great thanksgiving our time in Hyde Park with Frank and his family.

Al Wallace

October 30, 2013

Sam and Alicia, sorry for your loss.

Steve Cary

October 30, 2013

Our deepest sympathy and condolences, Sam, to you and your family at this difficult time.

Louise Mawn

October 30, 2013

So sorry for your loss. A donation has been sent to the Legacy Hospice. Our thoughts and prayers are with Sam, his sisters, mother and entire extended family. Love, Louise, Gregg and children.

Marlene Scaglione

October 29, 2013

Frank Mahlau will be missed Rest in Peace

BOB VAN BUREN

October 29, 2013

MAY JESUS OUR LORD BE WITH YOU NOW. YOU
DID MUCH GOOD IN OUR WORLD AND SHOULD FIND COMFORT IN ETERNAL LIFE.

at my 70th birthday party

October 29, 2013

Dear Marina, Andy (as I knew you), Trisha, and Kristen,

The three years we spent in Hyde Park were very special to me. It was there, with your mom and dad as our mentors, that the Nietert family first took shape. Many a Friday night we spent in conversation with them, talking about the parish and how we fit in, what it meant to be good parents, and what God was calling each of us to do and be.

Later, after their divorce and ours, your father and I still kept in touch, usually in response to my Christmas card. He was so proud of each of you and loved talking about your accomplishments. At one point, when I was looking for a new job, he was very helpful helping me assess my strengths and weaknesses.

Frank Mahlau was a complicated guy, full of passion and a lot of "down to earthness". I thank God for putting him in my life.

Peace and love to each of you,
Anne

PS The painting of St James, Hype Park, that was given us when we moved to Dobbs Ferry, now proudly hangs in my study.

Joanne Kennelly

October 29, 2013

I will miss him dearly. I was his first Baptism at St. James. I have very fond memories of him.

Sanjeev Yadav

October 29, 2013

My deepest condolences on the loss of Rev. Mahlau to Sam and the entire Mahlau family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Arthur Grace

October 29, 2013

Father Mahlau was a wonderful man, both in his role as Pastor to St. James, as well as his ability to be a true friend to his congregation. Frank was always willing to help those who were in need of guidance and was someone to talk to in times of need. Our family took great pleasure in knowing Father Mahlau as our Priest and as a friend. Even when he left St. James to move to Boston, we would visit him often. He loved his vocation and his congregations. Frank will always have a special place in our hearts and memories. May God bless Frank and look over his family. He will be missed.

Douglas Belding

October 28, 2013

Rest in Peace Fr. Mahlau

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