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Robert Carey Kingsland, 65, passed away in the early hours of June 22, 2012 at his Scituate home. The son of his dear parents Lawrence Kingsland and Margaret Fitz, Bob grew up in Cohasset after a formative childhood in Naples, Italy, and Karachi, Pakistan. At Cohasset High School, he starred in musical productions and endeared himself to many with his deeply inquisitive and magnetic personality. A record-setting pole vaulter on the Track & Field team at Brown University, Bob paused his studies to participate in the peace movement of the late 60s. He graduated with the class of 1970, concentrating in anthropology and studio art. After research as an underwater archaeologist in Guatemala, he co-founded the company U.S. Bells, through which he created innovative kinetic metal sculptures, mobiles, and bells influenced by Alexander Calder and the natural world. Bob also spent nearly 15 years in the commercial swordfishing industry as a harpooner and spotter pilot off Georges Bank, earning an instrument rating and 3200 airborne hours. In the last seventeen years of his life, Bob, a world-class welder, was a senior experimental machinist at the Boston University Scientific Instruments Facility, where he also pioneered its renowned Student Training Center. As director, he ensured his students safety and fostered their intellectual curiosity, and they honored him by establishing an award in his name. Bob inspired many with his dream of building a 50 L, 14 W steel sailboat, a functional work of art which he named Restless and launched in Scituate Harbor in June 2007 after thirty years of creation (www.sv-restless.com). Friends and family will never forget his joy finally sailing this floating sculpture. He was a voracious reader and a brilliant, adventurous, witty, and compassionate man. In others wordsa legend. His commitment to his family, loyal friendship, and student mentorship were as meaningful to him as his art. Always a trailblazer, Bob was unmatched in his passion and determination. He was diagnosed with terminal cancer on his 64th birthday last March, and was exceptionally brave and courageous in the face of the disease which took the life he loved so much. He is already deeply missed by his immediate family, with whom he shared a rare and special bond: Sandy, wife of twenty-eight years; daughters Haley (25, of San Francisco) and Brooke (23, of Boston); as well as his feisty parrot Hondo and faithful poodle Jasper. Bob also leaves behind his four fond siblings: Margaret, Larry, Richard, and Holly. Innumerable close friends and colleagues, in-laws, and other relatives will remember Bobs insatiable zest for life, as will the communities of the BU Physics Department, Satuit Boat Club, and Scituate First Parish Unitarian Universalist Church, where a celebration of Bobs life will take place on Wednesday, July 11, 2012, at 3 PM. Reception to follow at the Lightkeepers House, 15 Lighthouse Lane, Cohasset. Both The Scituate Library Foundation (85 Branch Street, Scituate, MA, 02066), and the New England Wildlife Center (NEWC, 500 Columbian Street, South Weymouth, MA, 02190) are accepting donations in Bobs memory. We love you, Bob. For information and online condolences www.richardsongaffeyfuneralhome.com

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Published by The Cohasset Mariner from Jul. 7 to Jul. 14, 2012.

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Emily Katz Williamson

July 15, 2013

Dear Sandy,

My apologies for this belated message, as I only today learned of your tragic loss. While I never had the opportunity to meet Bob, I will always remember how fondly you spoke of him and the courage with which you handled his horrendous diagnosis and illness.

I wish you and your family all the very best through the healing process. While it has been awhile, you remain in my thoughts and always will.

Love,
Emily

Stephen Morrison

July 16, 2012

Dear Sandy,Brooke and Haley,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and will be with you and the days and months ahead.

Life is about great memories in life. You three ladies are all set with all of the memories you shared during Bob's service. Days ahead will be tough but with his fine memories, you will be able to smile :) .

Bob was and will always be a major inspiration in my life. OX

Stephen and Theresa and Family OXOXOX

Sharon O'Connell

July 12, 2012

Sandy, So sorry to hear such sad news. Hugs to you. You and your family are in my prayers.

Robert O'Hayre

July 12, 2012

"There is a level that certain people with great strength of character and dignity will rise to when the events of the time call for it.There are times that call for an unconditional love and support that not everybody can measure up to, but Bob Kingsland could, and he did. In the darkest time of my life, he held me up when I could not hold myself up, and he helped me to fulfill tasks that I would not have been able to do by myself. That was the kind of man Bob Kingsland was."

Smooth sailing and a fair wind, Bob.

Shannon Murray

July 11, 2012

Haley & Brooke,
We have never actually met.I have met your dad, and I have been friends with your mom for four decades. Our family has received wonderful pictures and letters offering a glimpse into your family story with an extraordinary father at the helm. Our sincere thoughts and prayers to all of you.
And Dear Sandy,
We are so impressed by all that Bob has accomplished and feel blessed to have followed your family story from afar.We think that Bob smiled a lot in his lifetime,wherever his eyes came to rest.
Love,
Shannon, Dave, Patrick, and Seamus
Colorado

Brad White

July 11, 2012

Dear Kingsland Family,
While I did not know Bob for very long, I was inspired by his proud craftsmanship, love for the ocean and family. Not only a nice man, good citizen and well loved friend, a person who achieved much and taught others to dream and reach for the stars. Not many like Bob on our earth. May he rest in peace and God Speed Bob.

Nate and Vicki

July 10, 2012

Dear Sandi, Haley and Brooke,

The times we spent together were too few, but always involved the ocean, good stories and many smiles. His ship was a dream realized, and his dreams still live in each of you. Our hearts and prayers go out to you.

Nate and Vicki

Lyn Congdon-Previte

July 10, 2012

To Bobby's Family,
Warm heart, bright mind, made such a difference in the world for so many of us.
Fun, loving and nspirational- one heck of a handsome of a man.
You will be so missed...what is the sense of all this...

Umberto Fazio

July 10, 2012

I worked with Bob for over 15 years and I can say that he was one that always calmed me down. His famous words to me were always, "Don't worry, you worry to much". He drilled that into my head, making me feel so relaxed and confident that things will work out in the end. He was always there for me when I needed help and I for him. I will miss him being in his corner shop helping the students at BU. Bob, you have taught me a lot in life and work, had some great laughs, and I loved sharing stories with you. I will forever miss you and when ever I hear the question asked jokingly towards me, "How many times do I have to tell you" I will always think of you. Love you buddy.

July 10, 2012

He made us smile and laugh and we're so sad to see him go. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Stay strong.

Love, Martha and Kent

July 9, 2012

Dear Sandi, Haley and Brooke,
We were lucky ones to know Bob thru hard work, fun, humor and family life. Our lives intertwined as children grew and dreams came true. We had the best of times with "Perseverance" and "Restless". We'll all have many awesome memories . Sandi as we've always said before you're the best sport. Bob was a great friend. He always had our back.
Much love always,
Holly, Teddy, Ned and Grady Carr

Julie L. Queensen

July 9, 2012

So Sorry for your loss.I remember Bobby as being so full of life- every day an adventure.

Cynthia Larson, DVM

July 9, 2012

Fare thee well, Cousin Bobby. My thoughts & prayers are with you, my cousins, Sandy, Haley & Brooke.

Mike McKenna

July 9, 2012

Please accept my most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Sandra Jonas

July 9, 2012

Bob was a devoted husband, father and friend. His passion for his work, sailing and life in general was inspiring. He lived his life with integrity, dignity and the drive to work hard. Bob always had big dreams and accomplished much. He valued education and was always interested in learning new things. The world will never be the same with him gone and many people will remember him in the years to come with stories about the man they knew who wanted to build a steel boat all by himself and proceeded to do it. His family and friends will always remember all the good times they shared and hold these memories close tin their hearts forever.

Luis E Rivera

July 9, 2012

Met Bob back in the early 80's while working as plant manager at BE Peterson, helped him on intricate bend metal parts for Restless. A perfectionist learned a lot from him about the trade and about life. Lucky to intercept in our journeys and walk along for a while...

Bobby O'Hayre

July 7, 2012

Fellow pilot, fellow fisherman, good friend, and a truly good man, you will be missed and fondly remembered.

The Staff of Richardson-Gaffey Funeral Home

July 7, 2012

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

Shyamsunder Erramilli

July 5, 2012

Bob was a master craftsman. Our research in Biological Physics benefited enormously from his welding wizardry, and we will miss him very much.

Betty Colpitts (Hangley)

July 4, 2012

Bob was part of my life at Cohasset High. As a high school friend, I remember how proud he was of his old chevy and the work he did on it! Ice cream at JJ's and water-skiing off Sandy Beach. Pole vaulting star and Thanksgiving Day football games (#33) w/Hull. It hardly seems fair or possible that he's gone. I can only imagine what a wonderful husband, father and teacher he was and am not surprised that he made the world a better place. My deepest sympathy to the family.

Chuck and Jean Spalt

July 4, 2012

To the crew of the Restless: Sandy, Haley and Brooke,
Bob was my friend and will be deeply missed.
During the construction of the Restless, I was able to visit with Bob many times.
The pursuit of his dream was very inspirational to me, and the launching of the Restless brought me from Florida to be part of that magical moment.
I was very lucky to have been there.
Thank you Bob for being an inspiration, you meant a lot to me!

Fair winds and Following Seas!
Chuck and Jean Spalt
27 10' 12" N
80 10' 27" W

Kay Stein

July 2, 2012

Sandy and girls, my deepest condolences as you start a different way of life.

July 2, 2012

We are all so much the richer for having Bob, aka "Stash", in our lives. Those of us who had the priveledge of working along side him out on Geroge's Banks during our swordfishing heydays were truly priveledged to witness his inner, creative, loving self and inimitable character at work. I will never forget the day the trip line parted, and he was there to pick me up off the deck of the Carla Joyce...Thanks again, Stash. We miss you and love you.

Your loyal friend,

Lanny

July 1, 2012

Bob was definitely one of those "on the good side". Heck of a guy--tons of courage and tons of insight on many things. He will certainly be missed by all.

Best wishes to his family through this difficult time....

Rick Murray, Scituate, and Boston University

Henry & Heather Charles

June 30, 2012

Though below me I feel no motion
Standing on these mountains and plains
Far away from the rolling ocean
Still my dry land heart can say
I've been sailing all my life now
Never harbor nor port have I known
The wide universe is the ocean I travel
And the Earth is my blue boat home

Abby Tichnor

June 30, 2012

What an amazing life! I wish I had met him earlier. Someone whose lived that rich a life lives on forever in their family, students and friends and will be missed. Our family's thoughts go out to Sandy, Haley and Brooke (Hondo and Jasper).
Sincerely, Abby, Tom, Bennett and Ellis (and Mona)

Pam Molinari

June 30, 2012

Sandy, Haley, and Brooke,
I always knew Bob was an amazing man! We are truly blessed if when we leave this earth we have changed it for the better. Bob certainly gave us all a gift with his amazing life. Two examples are his beautiful daughters, who continue his legacy of being innovative, creative and working to make the world a better place. His beautiful boat a true work of art is an example of the gifted man he was!
My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
With all my love and prayers,

June 29, 2012

Bob ,
I know that your Courage - Your tenacity , amnd Most of all love of Scitaute Harbor on the Fine and Seaworthy RESTLESS - was an inspiration to all you touched and spread your Most Positive Energy
Fairtides and Following Seas My Friend -

Have a Good Voyage -
Capt. Ken Golden -FULL MOON

June 29, 2012

What an awesome life he lived! I am honored to have been related to such a dynamic and passionate man. Much love to Aunt Sandy and cousins Haley and Brooke. XOXO Ali and Nick

Mirtha Cabello

June 29, 2012

My deepest condolescences to Bob's family. My prayers are with you. Bob was a very honest man and it was a pleasure working with him. Mirtha, BU Physics

June 28, 2012

Sandy - I've always felt we knew you & Bob much better than the number of times we actually met! Sitting with him at Dan Litchfield's wedding last August was a wonderful experience as we recapped the fabulous boat launch and the Thanksgiving dinners(however occasional) at N&N's. Our deepest sympathy now.It hardly seems fair or possible. All our love - Lucia and Jim Owen (Stoneham, ME)

Doug Foss

June 27, 2012

I worked with Bob on many projects over the past 10 years. He was a remarkable man. Countless leaps and bounds for physics, science and health were made possible because he was an expert in his craft. I can state with a scientific certainty the world is a better place because of Bob Kingsland.

June 26, 2012

As a neighbor I wish to express my sorrow for the Kingsland Family for the loss of such a valuable family member. My prayers for all of you at this difficult time. Sincerely David Larsen

Pam Leeping

June 25, 2012

I had the honor of taking care of Bob in the last few months of his life. It was truly an interesting, unforgettable experience I had being his care taker. He accomplished so much in his life so I know he will continue to live on through many. I'm so sorry for the loss. My thoughts and prayers are with his family at this time.

Barry Behrens-Nagle

June 25, 2012

Oh what a terrible loss. Knowing it was coming is little solace.
What an incredible person Bob was. All that he did with his life. The great family he raised.
Bobby K you will be missed by many...

Betsy Richardson

June 25, 2012

Although we knew this time was coming, that never makes the loss, the sadness, the empty feeling any easier. I am proud he was my cousin and will cherish the memories of holidays that we shared. Love, Betsy & John

Jane Moore

June 24, 2012

We cherished our long friendship with Bob and he will surely be missed.We have you all in our thoughts during this time.
Bill and Jane

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