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Roger F. Duncan Educator, Author, Seaman. Roger Fenn Duncan died peacefully on May 15. He was the son of Robert F. and Dorothy Fenn Duncan, and raised in Scarsdale New York. He was 93. Roger was a graduate of Phillips Exeter Academy and Harvard College. He was a teacher, coach and administrator at the Fenn School in Concord, Mass and the Belmont Hill School in Belmont, Mass. He was the author of numerous books including: A Cruising Guide to the New England Coast, Coastal Maine, Eastward, and Ashore and Afloat. Roger with his wife Mary sailed their Friendship Sloop Eastward extensively along the coast from New York to St. Johns New Brunswick. They sailed parties for many years in the Boothbay Harbor Region. He was a member of the Cruising Club of America, and the Friendship Sloop Society where he raced Eastward very successfully. Roger and Mary were recognized throughout the coastal communities of New England. Roger was known for his seamanship, knowledge, and history of the coast. One could not spend a day afloat with them without having some friend sail by with a cheerful, Hi Ya Roger floating across the water from another cockpit. Roger was a master educator, Headmaster of the Belmont Hill School, and chairman of the School Committee in Concord, Mass. Roger set high standards, not by demanding them but by demonstrating them. His moral compass was as steady as the North Star. As a founding member of the Mid-Coast Maine Fellowship, Unitarian Universalist, he lived his principles out every day and shared them with countless students, colleagues, and friends. Roger was a beloved soccer, hockey and crew coach. He coached with a vibrant competitive spirit but demanded respect for the opposition and fair play at all times. Into his early eighties as a single skull oarsman he competed in the Head of the Charles regatta in Cambridge and showed the competition his wake on most occasions. He is survived by his wife Mary Duncan of Boothbay, Maine, his brother and sister in law Donald and Joyce Duncan of Southport Maine, his three sons Robert and his wife Lucinda, of Concord, Mass., William and his wife Lizbeth, of Burke, Va., and John and his wife Carol, of Charlotte, N.C. also by eight grand children and four great grand children as well as many nieces and nephews. Roger Duncan was a steadfast man, sensitive and careful with words; always willing and eager to lend a hand to others. The people he touched, taught, entertained, inspired are richer for his presence. A memorial service was held at two p.m. on Sunday May 23 in the Congregational Church in Boothbay Harbor, Maine. In lieu of flowers contributions may be sent to The Fenn School in Concord, 516 Monument St, Concord, MA. 01742 The Belmont School, 350 Prospect ST., Belmont, MA. 02478-2662 or Doctors Without Borders, USA, P.O. Box 5030, Hagerstown, MD. 21741. Arrangements are entrusted to Simmons, Harrington & Hall Funeral Home and Cremation Services, 975 Wiscasset Rd., Boothbay, Me. 04537

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Published by The Concord Journal from May 20 to May 27, 2010.

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Peter Beharrell

May 27, 2010

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

John Hintlian

May 23, 2010

My deepest condolences for this sad loss.

Unequivocally, everything thing I needed to know in life I learned from Mr. Duncan. A true educator.

Kathy Bowie Tarsa

May 22, 2010

A gentle and caring man who I remember fondly from perhaps fifty years ago when he and his wife ran the Sunday School at First Parish in Concord. I remember the my parent's respect for him and his sermons to the children at chapel. I am sorry for your loss but his memory will always be with me.

Steven Hartz

May 22, 2010

To the Duncan Family:

Please accept my deepest condolences. Mr. Duncan was, quite simply, the best teacher I had at Belmont Hill. He shared his infectious love of literature, writing and the sea with all of us. Although he properly demanded the best from us, we all knew that he never asked more from us than a fraction of what he demanded of himself. In that regard, it did not surprise me to see him at one of my reunions racing at the Head of the Charles long after I and most middle aged mortals had declared a truce with ultra-strenuous athletics.

I cannot hope to console you for loss. But I hope that you can take some comfort in the fact that his life and example continue to be reflected in the lives of the hundreds of students whom he so profoundly influenced. I am grateful to have been one of them.

Dian Pekin

May 21, 2010

Dear Members of Roger's family,

Heartfelt sympathy to you all at the passing of such a great man. His family's ongoing service to humanity is a great testament to his high standards of morality and dedication to the improvement of humankind. May memories of his great life bring you all comfort as you grieve his loss.

Cameron Duncan

May 20, 2010

My grandfather was one of the kindest and most generous men I have ever known. Although he was also so humble that you'd never know it! He was simply the best and will be dearly missed by all who had a chance to know him.

Gregg Robinson

May 20, 2010

Roger was loved and respected by all the boys at Belmont Hill School whom he helped on thier voyage to manhood. He was kind, understanding, smart and multi-dimensional. I regret I did not reconnect with him and his family when we moved to Maine.

Anne Barker

May 19, 2010

Roger was such a gentle man. I was always impressed with his caring attentiveness to his wife, his easy manner, and that he would rise from his chair (with some difficulty) to shake my hand when we met. He will be missed.

angel netroe

May 19, 2010

To the Duncan family sorry for the loss of ur beloved grampy.i never knew him but i heard wonderful stories about him.im sure when he gets to heaven the lord will let him walk right in.he earned his angel wings.sincerely,angel,carissa

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