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Gary Robert Chapman

1953 - 2013

BORN

1953

DIED

2013

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Aurora-McCarthy Funeral Home, Inc. - Colchester

167 Old Hartford Road

Colchester, Connecticut

Gary Chapman Obituary



Gary Robert Chapman, 60, of Colchester, passed away suddenly November 29, 2013. Born June 18, 1953 in Woburn, MA, he was a son of Woodford Chapman of Derry, NH and the late Alice (Omelia) Chapman. He leaves his loving wife of 35 years, Laurene "Laurie" (Verity) Chapman (owner of Laurie's Creations of Colchester); two sons, Kevin and Michael; honorary son, Steve Liberty; a grandson, Landon; his father, Woodford; five siblings, David, Glenn and Robert Chapman, Kathleen Robinson and Elizabeth Abdelrehim; his father-in-law, George Verity; and numerous extended family and friends. Gary was a graduate of Pinkerton Academy in Derry, NH. He went on to serve proudly with the United States Navy in the submarine service aboard the SSBN Nathanael Greene and actually met his future wife, Laurie, on a dependents' cruise. He was an IT Technician for many years for Asea Brown Boveri and most recently worked for C-9 Sales of Derry, NH. Gary passed away Thanksgiving evening after spending an amazing day with his son, Kevin, and son-in-law to be, Michael Sutherland, who prepared and served a great meal. Gary's wife, Laurie, posted on Facebook earlier in the day that she felt blessed in life, and that she was thankful for everyone and everything in her life. She wished all a Happy Thanksgiving. Gary grew up in New Hampshire, with five siblings, Kathy, David, Glenn, Bobby and Beth, and father, Woody and mother, Alice. This family is one of the most fun loving groups of people you have ever been around. His father, the family Patriarch, is famous for instigating family skits. Gary married Laurie Verity in February of 1978 and they had a special way of making everyone welcome in their home. They raised two amazing sons, Kevin and Michael, who were the highlight of their lives. It was not unusual to find their house filled with kids, friends, Gary's family from New Hampshire or Laurie's family from Long Island; and the next morning all scattered about the house in sleeping bags. Son, Mike and his fiancée, Ashley Lucas, brought more joy to Gary's life with the birth of grandson, Landon. With Gary's passing, his family and friends have lost a father, friend, uncle, brother, son, grandfather, husband, and one amazing man. We love and miss him. Friends may call 4 to 7 PM Monday (Dec. 2nd) at the Aurora-McCarthy Funeral Home, 167 Old Hartford Road, Colchester. The Funeral Liturgy will be celebrated 10:30 AM Tuesday (Dec. 3rd) directly at St. Andrew Church, 128 Norwich Avenue, Colchester. Burial with military honors will follow in the New St. Andrew Cemetery, Gillette's Lane, Colchester. In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory may be made to the Community Free Lunch Program, c/o St. Andrew Church, 128 Norwich Avenue, Colchester 06415. For online condolences, please visit www.auroramccarthyfuneralhome.com



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Published by Eagle-Independent on Dec. 1, 2013.

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jennifer Felciano

December 28, 2013

Laurie,Kevin and Family,
I just learned of Gary's passing. I am so very sorry for your loss,very sorry. Gary was such a nice man. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

December 7, 2013

LAURIE, I JUST HEAR OF GARY'S PASSING... YOU WERE BLESSED WITH A GREAT GUY AND A TEAM... MARRIAGE.. LOVE SHERYL K.

SHERYL KEHAYA

December 7, 2013

LAURIE I JUST GOT BACK FROM...N.C.AN READ OF GARY,S PASSING.SORRY WON,T DO IT FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS.. YOU TWO WERE BLESSED WITH A GREAT. TEAM.. LOVE SHERYL K.

Laurie Chapman

December 5, 2013

Kathryn Grant

December 4, 2013

Dearest Laurie
Our deepest sympathies to you and Kevin, Michael and the entire Chapman family. Gary was a good friend to us. My heart is broken for you.
All our Love,
Kathie, Michael and Ryan Grant

Norma Wallace

December 3, 2013

I am so sorry for your lost my thoughts and prays are with you all

Steve Mednick

December 3, 2013

Laurie, I was just informed by Kelly of your untimely loss. I am very sorry that I was not aware of the calling hours yesterday. Please accept my sincere condolences.

December 3, 2013

Woody,

I was saddened to hear of the passing of Gary. It is tragic to lose a loved one and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Mike McCluskey
BEI

Anne Laro

December 2, 2013

Dear Laurie,Kevin,Michael & Family,We are deeply sorry for your loss.All of you are in our thoughts and prayers as well as our hearts.Always remember..Those who live in the hearts of others never truly die. I'm sure Gary will forever live on in each of your hearts,as well as many others! Much love & blessings to each of you,Anne Laro & Family

Debbie Mientus

December 2, 2013

Hold dear the most precious gifts in life...the memories, laughter and love that we get to share with one another...for those gifts will bring your hearts comfort and peace, knowing he is still with you....always. Debbie and Paul (Tamosaitis) Mientus

Nicole Comstock

December 2, 2013

Gary was a second father to me. He had a heart of gold. He will be greatly missed.

Carl & Patricia Rohrbach

December 1, 2013

We are very sorry to hear of your loss. May knowing that others are keeping you and Gary in their thoughts and prayers, bring you some measure of comfort.

Linda Horan

December 1, 2013

To the Chapman Family,

We are so sorry for your loss. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.

Linda and Gerald Horan

Patrick Scanlon

December 1, 2013

Laurie and Family

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Gary was a special person in business and friendship.
His love for life was felt when you were around him.
Please accept my condolences.
I will be returning from the west coast later in the week.
Patrick , Sharon and Kate Scanlon

C Hetrick

December 1, 2013

Sorry to hear of this loss. An amazing man with a great family. Chris ,Colleen,Molly , Ben, and Grace Hetrick

Galen and Eva Reed

December 1, 2013

Our first friends when we moved to Colchester 31 yrs ago. Our hearts go out to you dear friends, you are family to us. Gary made the world a better place and us better people
just knowing him. We love you.

Richard Grant

December 1, 2013

So sorry for the families loss, Gary was a fantastic friend and neighbor

Michael Huchko

November 30, 2013

Sorry for your loss. I will Miss him.

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