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Barbara Frates Obituary

Barbara E. (Santell) Frates, age 68, of Hingham, died peacefully, Wednesday, April 28, 2010 at home, surrounded by her loving family. She was born in Providence, RI, raised and educated in Providence schools. She was a graduate of Saint Marys Academy in Riverside, RI and was also a graduate of the Rhode Island Hospital School of Nursing, Class of 1962. She has lived in Hingham for forty-three years. Mrs. Frates was a Registered Nurse and had worked in the pediatric department at the Rhode Island Hospital in Providence. She enjoyed gardening, flowers, knitting and decorating. She also enjoyed traveling, especially trips to Cape Cod, various areas in Florida and the Caribbean and two pilgrimages to Medjugorje. Barbara was involved in fund raising events for autism research. She was a longtime member of the Neighborhood Club of Quincy and a member of the Rhode Island Hospital Nurses Alumni Association. Barbara was devoted to her family and especially to her four grandchildren. Beloved wife for forty-seven years of William J. Frates, M.D. Devoted mother of Cheryl A. Maxim and her husband Craig of Whitinsville, William M. Frates of Hingham, Susan E. Frates Dunlop and her husband Michael of Norfolk and Michael C. Frates of Quincy. Loving grandmother of Grace, Christopher, Joseph and Christian. Cherished daughter of the late Alfred and Elizabeth (DeMaio) Santell. Dear sister of Gail L. Salisbury and her husband Alan of Barrington, RI. Funeral from the Sweeney Brothers Home for Funerals, 1 Independence Avenue, Quincy, Monday, May 3. Funeral Mass in Saint John the Baptist Church, 44 School Street, Quincy. Interment Blue Hill Cemetery, Braintree. In lieu of flowers, donations in Barbaras memory may be made to the Autism Research Program, (checks payable to the University of Pittsburgh), ATTN: Rosie Christ, Webster Hall, Suite 300, 3811 OHara Street, Pittsburgh, PA 15213 or to the Quincy Medical Center, 114 Whitwell Street, Quincy, MA 02169 or to the charity of your choice. You are invited to visit thesweeneybrothers.com.

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Published by The Hingham Journal from Apr. 30 to May 7, 2010.

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May 5, 2010

Dear Bill,Billy,Michael,Cheryl and Susie:
I received your phone message,Bill, this morning and was overcome with sorrow and grief as I heard your words of Barbara's passing;There is SO much I want to say and so many emotions between deep sadness to great joy that I have been going through in this last hour after hearing your grief-laden words;Barbara was MY most favorite and memorable patient but she was my friend,too; We shared many private moments together as I cared for her at Tufts during her prolonged hospital stays receiving that "terrible" chemo that she referred to that ultimately led to her transplant with months after that of hospital living;Through it all, she made me laugh SO hard and it was indeed a pleasure caring for her and meeting and getting to know all of you; I will NEVER forget her....
With deep sympathy but know she is with her Lord as we had discussed many times, your friend, Tricia Renaudie
I will be in touch...

May 2, 2010

GOD Bless Mrs.Frates,my condolences to
you Dr.and your family...John Kelly

Susan Sward

May 2, 2010

Dear Michael and Family,
I am deeply sorry for the loss of your mom. My prayers are with you all during this difficult time. I know your mom was sick for a while and everyone at LPS has been praying and hoping for the best.
I know with all my heart that your mom is in heaven, out of pain and in God's loving hands. May God guide you all and give you peace and loving memories.
Sincerely, Susan Sward (LPS Teacher)

May 2, 2010

Dear Bill,Cheryl and Susan, Barbara was a special person. So many times running through the streets of HIngham we had to stop because we were laughing so hard. Her faith always was an inspiration to me.
She will always be close in my heart. I know she is at peace with the Lord. God Bless, Paula Briden

Carol Cappola

April 30, 2010

Dr. Frates,
My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
I like to believe that when we lose someone close to us they still live through us and give us strength.

Jim & Donna Garrity

April 30, 2010

Our thoughts are with you at the loss of Barbara. A photo of the 2 of you in our wedding album will be our happy remembrance of her... she always looked so darn perfect!
Our regards to all the family.

Gordon&Jane McGinnis

April 30, 2010

Bill,
Please know we are thinking of you at this difficult time. Jane and I still remember that time we had together when we all were 'so young" on
that trip to Bermuda in 1972 aboard the QE ll. It was fun.
God Bless Barbara.
Gordon & Jane McGinnis

April 30, 2010

Dear Michael and Family....Please accept my sincerest apology at the loss of your dear mother and wife.It has been a long road for all of you.Hopefully, she is at peace which she so deserves.Sincerly, Carolynn Banks

The Chases

April 30, 2010

Please accept our deepest sympathies. Barbara was a beautiful person in so many ways. Our cherished neighbor. She was kindhearted and always made all of us smile. We will miss her dearly.

Molly, Emma, Catherine and Brian Chase

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