April 1935 - April 14, 2013
Dr. Lawrence Moore died peacefully at home in Sonoma County, California from complications of heart failure at the age of 78. He is survived by his wife of 33 years, Birgit Rohde-Moore, and by his daughter, Karin Moore of Berkeley, whom he raised from age four as a single father.
He was born in the San Francisco Bay Area where he resided for most of his life. He also lived periodically in Stockholm, Sweden as well as in Berlin and Heidelberg, Germany, where he was licensed to practice psychology.
Dr. Moore received two bachelor's degrees in Mathematics and Liberal Arts at the University of California at Berkeley. He studied briefly at Purdue University in Indiana, then earned a master's degree in Psychology at Stanford University. He later earned a doctorate in Psychology at the University of Oregon. He also received certificates for advanced education in Germany.
Dr. Moore practiced Clinical Psychology privately in Berkeley and Oakland for many years. He was an expert in the application of clinical hypnosis, and was active for two decades in the San Francisco Academy of Hypnosis. Later in his career he specialized in the psychological treatment of pain, burns, and chronic hand injuries. During this time, he practiced psychotherapy and behavioral medicine at Alta Bates Burn Center in Berkeley, St. Francis Memorial Hospital Burn Unit in San Francisco, and Kaiser Permanente Medical Center in Oakland.
Dr. Moore's tenure at the University of California's Cowell Hospital was noteworthy. While serving as a Staff Psychologist in 1969 he treated a graduate student who eventually murdered Tatiana Tarasoff. When Dr. Moore realized that his patient was dangerous, he took decisive steps to alert appropriate authorities and hand-carried a letter to campus security urging them to take action to prevent any harm that his patient might attempt to carry out. He recommended that his patient be involuntarily committed. The tragic murder resulted in a landmark legal finding that extended the options and responsibilities of psychotherapists in such confidential clinical situations. Prior to this controversial case, psychotherapists had formal duties to patients but not to third parties. All therapists now memorize the duty to warn and take action to protect potential targets of danger, known as the "Tarasoff Duty."
Throughout his long and distinguished career he belonged to many professional organizations dedicated to the advancement of his profession as well as civic organizations such as MENSA.
He was a brilliant, unique, and larger-than-life man; irreverent and wickedly funny, witty, opinionated, caring, and kind-hearted. He was an irrepressible spirit; a delightful, unusual, and unforgettable character with strong values. At the same time, he was a very sensitive man with a great capacity for empathy and insight into others. He will be dearly missed.
A private family service has been held.
In lieu of flowers, the family would prefer donations in his memory to your local animal shelter. He always had a soft spot for animals in need.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Sponsored by Larry's Girls, Birgit and Karin.
Thomas Appleton
April 25, 2022
During my years working in the Alta Bates Burn Center, I had the honor and pleasure of working with Dr. Moore. He was devoted to the patients and helped them greatly as they healed from such terrible injury and suffering. Larry was delightful to work with, his broad interests and wit stood out.
I became a posthumous conduit for Dr. Moore´s influence in the aftermath of the presidential election in 2016. Through friends of friends on social media I happened to comment on a discussion of presidential mental health. Knowing the legacy of Dr. Moore, I suggested that the Tarasoff Duty, the Duty to Warn, might trump the Goldwater Rule. No pun intended. Serendipitously, the other commentator happened to be well connected and knew a prominent opinion writer for The Atlantic magazine, David Frum. She passed on my informative comment to Mr. Frum who then started to circulate the knowledge to the political discussion. As a result, Dr Moore´s legacy had a small impact on the discussion during the transition period between the presidency´s of Obama and Trump. The Duty to Warn is now regularly discussed by politicians and pundits.
Kathleen Zeno
April 24, 2022
Gone on, but never forgotten. I still hear your voice, dear friend.
B. H.
July 24, 2020
I'm both happy to see the Dr. Moore we all study was as right-minded as the case I studied in law school (and teach to students now), but also sad that he passed. He made a difference, something we all wish we could say.
Johann Kluczny
November 29, 2016
My condolence to Birgit and Karin. Remembering the time with Larry and Birgit in Berlin, Heidelberg and San Francisco.
Maria Cordova
September 4, 2015
My condolences to the family of Dr.Moore, I am a masters degree student in forensic psychology at SNHU. While conducting research on the Tarasoff duty for my class, I found this site. The perception I had of Dr. Moore has changed based on the description you have provided, and I truly appreciate the fact that Dr, Moore tried so fervently to stop the actions of Poddar, which later led to the supreme court ruling on the Tarasoff duty as this is not something which is well known.
Kay R.
November 24, 2013
I met him in the 1990s in Heidelberg, Germany and i´ll never forget him. I was just a child, but i can remember very good.
He was great and like a grandfather for me. Such a brilliant, funny and amazing person.
All the best for his daughter and wife!
Steve Wiesner
June 16, 2013
Larry will be so very missed. His razor sharp intellect and his brilliant wit and humor have enriched us all.
Tom Rhoads
May 26, 2013
One of my closest friends for more than 50 years, (since my Rathskeller days began in August 1961) but not so much for the last 10 years or so due to our mutual stubbornness and downright stupidity. I am happy for our at least partial recent reconciliation and hope that he was too. There are apparently many stories of Larry's wild past, at least some of which are true, but by the time we met his Rathskeller days were behind him and we spent most of those early days drinking, smoking, and (would you believe) playing chess. Those days are sorely missed, as are the more recent ones mostly devoted to eating and drinking (that word again) and socializing with our families. Promising to keep in closer touch with Birgit and Karin in the future.
Dan Heffernan
May 16, 2013
Larry's passing has left me with sadness. He was truly a unique character and I cherished his humor, his caustic wit and most of all his friendship. We experienced many wonderfull times together while my wife and I lived in San Francisco. Actually at that time, my wife Rosediane traveled extensively so it was mostly Larry and me out on the town enjoying many a good meal accompanied by scintillating conversation (mostly provided by him) and lots of laughter. When we moved to New York our friendship continued through the years which included rendezvous in SF, NYC and Germany. About a month before Larry passed, he emailed me that he was not well and would not be with us much longer. At first I thought this was yet another Larry Moore prank ( he had done this before). However this time it just seemed real. He ended his email by saying that I have been a good friend. It was a touching remark from Larry and I sensed that this email was no joke. We'll Larry, you have been a good friend as well and your spirit will always be with me.
Love,
Dan Heffernan & Family
May 14, 2013
Louise and I got to know Larry (and of course Birgit) while living near them in San Francisco. What a character! His comments were always piercing and funny. He adored our daughter who was also a psychologist and always asked about her. We missed them both when they lived in Germany for a while and then Southern California but reconnected when they returned to the North Bay. He will be sorely missed. Andy Massie
Georgia Ireland
May 10, 2013
I was a client of Dr. Moore's in the 1980's. My work with him changed the course of my life in a very positive way. I am deeply appreciative of who he was and am sad that he passed at such. Young age. My condolences to Birgitta and Karin.
May 8, 2013
liebe Birgit,
wir haben Larry vor vielen Jahren bei den
Sulkowskis kennen- und schätzengelernt.
Es war ein toller Tag
Leider haben wir uns nie mehr wiederge-
sehen. Aber vergessen haben wir ihn nicht.
Dir, Birgit, unser herzliches Beileid.
Hannes und Maggy aus Bonn
Ingrid Reips
May 7, 2013
Liebe Birgit,
ich werde Larry immer so in Erinerung behalten, wie ich ihn vor vielen Jahren kennenlernen durfte (Little Red Riding Hood!)
Ingrid
May 7, 2013
Dear Birgit and Karin,
In 1984 I got to know Larry by my friend Joerg and the three of us spent an axtraordinary and excessive evening in his beautiful “Ostrender house” with numerous drinks..
Larry, at that time best aged and a handsome Gary Cooper look alike, was indeed an impressive personality. He was not only extremely intelligent, intellectual and politacal engaged, he was blessed with a huge sense of humour, sometimes even sarcastic but always emotional and socially oriented…
It´s a pity he has really gone too early!
Achim Werthmann, Berlin, Germany
Ellen & Gary B
May 7, 2013
Dear Birgit & Karin, Ever since you left OHCC, life quieted down without Larry's wry remarks and droll comments. He certainly had a unique take on life but was, at the same time, a realist. He was quite a guy! In sympathy, Ellen & Gary
May 6, 2013
Dear Birgit,
That is a fabulous photo of Larry! We have such wonderful memories of living above you and Larry at Golden Gate Commons. You and Larry were the only people there who acknowledged that we were alive. We shared many a glass of wine while we talked doom and gloom (you know Larry!!). And when you finally returned from the dreaded south we enjoyed renewing our friendship. He was unique, intriguing, challenging, irreverent, incredibly insightful and always, always compassionate. We will miss him so much.
Louise
Joerg D. Groh
May 6, 2013
Dear Birgit and Karin,
I first met Larry (and Birgit) in 1984 – 29 years ago, at least - and ever since - if it was in Berkeley on Ostrander Road, countless times at „The Lobby“, in SFO in different wonderful appartments, in Berlin at „Diener's“ , not to forget our (his) numberless attempts of cooking‘ Fettucine Alfredo‘ - or at last in Santa Rosa – we always had an incredible, outstanding and last, but not least, hilarious time together – packed with esprit, brainpower, keen perception and often a grim sense of humor. Never ever will forget. Man, we'll never get out of this world alive!
Joerg.
Cologne / Germany
Dolores Cheek
May 5, 2013
Dear Birgit, Even though Larry was his unusual self, I did visit for 3 days in Dec. 2012. He did reminisce about the trip you, Larry, David and I took to Singapore & Bali, as well as his fond memories of Pete, my cat-his 2nd favorite one. Larry was a dear, unique individual and friend. My best to you and Karin. Dolores Cheek
May 5, 2013
Dearest Birgit and Karin,
Larry surely will be missed by so many friends and colleagues. Yes, he certainly was one of our most unforgettable characters!!! His witty personality and dry sense of humor kept Ed and I laughing many days and nights!!! We always enjoyed the numerous dinner parties we shared together. Since I didn't know Larry professionally, I admired most...his love for all animals....especially his beloved Oki!!!!
Birgit and Karin....looking forward to seeing you anytime in Oceanside....your room is always ready!!!!
With much love and deep sympathy,
col & ed
May 4, 2013
Birgit and Karin, I'm really sorry to hear about Larry dying. He was one of a kind. So funny and irreverent! I guess he and my mom are probably having some kind of verbal duel in heaven now! Mary Dresser
Kathleen Zeno
May 3, 2013
My dear friend, to re-work the words of our hero Milton Erickson, MD: "Your voice will go with me."
Taking on the world...
Jay Coffman
May 2, 2013
The last substantive paragraph of the obituary captures Larry perfectly. I am honored to have called him friend and to have shared in part of his life. He will always be missed. The picture below represents a spontaneous day together with spontaneous wardrobe.
Sharon Solstice
May 2, 2013
Reading this obituary helps me understand his beautiful and compassionate daughter even better! I am so sorry you had to lose him. I've always known he was well loved.
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