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Raymond Barnes Obituary

Raymond B. Barnes Raymond B. Barnes of Charlton, formerly of Lexington, died February 3, 2011 after a long illness, surrounded by his loving family. Ray was born February 14, 1922 in West Haven, CT, son of Raymond B. Barnes and Lillian (Beale) Barnes. He attended West Haven schools graduating from West Haven High School in 1939. He then attended Trinity College in Hartford before leaving to work for Koppers Corporation. Ray enlisted in the Navy in 1942 and served as a radio operator during World War II, achieving the rank of Petty Officer First Class. Upon his discharge, he returned to Trinity, graduating with a BS in 1948. Ray worked as an engineer for over 20 years at Sylvania Corporation and then for many years at the Town of Lincoln retiring in 1992. He was proud to be a Lexingtonian and was active in several community organizations, including the Red Cross, the Lexington Minutemen, and the Civil Defense Committee. He served as Chairman of the Town Celebrations Committee for many years. He was also a longtime member and Past Master of Simon W. Robinson Masonic Lodge. He was a life-long ham radio operator as well as an amateur photographer whose photos were used by several community organizations. He was a loyal, but often frustrated, Boston Red Sox and Boston Bruins fan. He loved visiting his family, eating clams, doing crossword puzzles, and swimming in the ocean during summer vacations at the Jersey Shore. He is survived by his devoted wife of 64 years, Adele (Cook) Barnes, and their children Cynthia of Lexington, David and his wife Susan of Saratoga Springs, NY, Andrew of Lexington, and grandsons Charles and Emmett of Saratoga Springs. Funeral Service will be held Friday, February 11 at the Church of Our Redeemer, 6 Meriam St. Lexington at 11am. Relatives and friends are kindly invited to attend. Donations in Ray's memory may be made to the Masonic Angel Fund, Simon W. Robinson Lodge, P.O. Box 12, Lexington, MA 02420. Internment Westview Cemetery, Lexington. |

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Published by The Lexington Minuteman from Feb. 8 to Feb. 15, 2011.

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Jim Lima

February 11, 2011

To Ray's family:

Ray was one of the first people I came to know when I first joined the Lexington Police Department in 1958 and through the years as he served as our police photographer at traffic accidents and crime scenes I came to value the quality of his work as a photographer, and then of course our paths often crossed on Patriot's Day when he served as a valued member of the Town Celebration Committee. Then from 1984 until 1999 when I finally retired he often visited with me at my office at the Burlington Mall and so I knew him not only as the consummate professional he was but as a friend for 41 years. I cannot let this sad moment pass without telling you how grateful I am for having known Ray Barnes and for the countless hours of unheralded public service he once rendered to the Town of Lexington.

Connie Brown

February 11, 2011

Pere Barnes is a huge part of my best memories. I'm so sad not to be with you today to celebrate his life. I wish you peace and grace and much, much love. Connie

February 11, 2011

Cindy, David, Drew and Mrs.Barnes:
We are thinking of all of you at this time and know that peace and God's love will help you through. God Bless,
Jim, Jo, Jimmy and Carl Shaw

February 10, 2011

I was so sorry to hear of Ray's passing, Adele. My sincere sympathy to you and your family. I will see you at Church of Our Redeemer tomorrow morning..

Doug Ziedelis

Chris and Pam Brown

February 10, 2011

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

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